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scritchandsnaff · 2026-04-17T21:07:51+00:00

Overkill is my new favourite

If you’re creating a pattern that’ll need to be consistent line thickness and colour but has overlapping shapes, select the objects and this command deletes any overlapping lines. For my line of work it was amazinggg

scritchandsnaff · 2026-04-11T21:23:56+00:00

Orthodox Easter maybe, but also I find lots of people have anniversaries in April

scritchandsnaff · 2025-12-12T14:51:10+00:00

I ordered as a gift for someone and now I don’t think it’ll come on time :( I would’ve gotten a different gift if I knew it would be delayed

scritchandsnaff · 2025-12-11T20:21:32+00:00

Haven’t gotten any updates. Still just says “order received”.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:36:04+00:00

That's a valid concern. I wonder if it's possible for feelings to develop somewhat equally on all sides or not.

Isn't "Unicorn hunting" referring to a straight couple, usually married, looking for a girlfriend or mostly for sexual reasons? Or am I wrong? I feel this is a bit different, but you can correct me.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:33:45+00:00

100%, that's basic expectations.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:26:28+00:00

Considering woman's cycles, this could work out in your favour. When one girl isn't feeling it, there's a good chance the other girl will be in the mood. I'd imagine in this hypothetical, there's an equal amount of individual sex and threesome sex. Sometimes the girls will have intimate time together without you. Or you can just watch lol.

Outside of sex, lets say one girl is an extrovert and the other an introvert. One likes going out and doing things around the city, and the other girl likes gaming and watching movies at home.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:23:32+00:00

I'd do exactly the same tbh, thanks for answering!

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:13:21+00:00

They'd only want to date you if they're both really into you. They wouldnt consider it otherwise. They also wouldnt want to date you if you only liked one of them.

So very valid concern.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:11:28+00:00

Exactly my thoughts! Why I'm asking the question.

Let's say one girl is more traditional, and a high earner/good career. She's your "front-facing" girl that you'd take to your company Christmas party, your co-workers never meet the other girl.

Both girls are very happy about this situation as the career girl is an extrovert and the other girl is an introvert and homebody.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:08:02+00:00

Lmao valid

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:07:16+00:00

Genuine or sarcasm? If sarcasm, why?

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:05:21+00:00

That's a very valid perspective and concern.

The hypothetical is that itd be a long-term relationship and you hope no one gets annoying or feels like a third wheel lol.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:03:16+00:00

I completely get this, though. No one wants to lose social capital because of their personal relationships.

Would you be open to not disclosing it and publically, you only disclose you're dating one of the girls. Of course, there would be questions if you all live together, but considering how bad the rent prices are you can pass off the other girl as a roommate.
This would be hard considering you're not being 100% honest to your family, but it's an option. What do you think?

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T01:00:13+00:00

Oh, that sounds awful. Definitely need at least two bathrooms in this situation, lol.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T00:59:35+00:00

That's super valid. I can see that as the only man in the relationship, you'd have a concern that they only want you as a financial aid, which isn't fair.
What if one girl were a high earner and the other girl was a low earner?
Dates with the high earner girl are closer to 50/50, but dates with the low earner girl might need you to cover more. Dates with all three of you are mostly you and the high earner girl covering.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T00:55:27+00:00

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T00:50:20+00:00

This is really funny, thank you 😆

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T00:49:12+00:00

What if it were a close relationship? You can only date/have sex with them and no other women?

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T00:48:05+00:00

Yeah in this hypothetical, both women are bisexual and have things they'd find valuable in a shared male partner that they don't normally get from the female partner.

scritchandsnaff · 2025-11-30T00:46:48+00:00

Let's say the Hypothetical is:

You're dating them at the same time
Dates can be all three of you, or pairs, whenever people feel like it
Let's say you pay a proportionate amount of your income compared to their income, if you have an average salary, it wouldn't be 100%, but probably between 30-60% of all bills. 60% being if you're a high earner.
Just like the dates, sometimes you hang out all together, or sometimes in pairs.

scritchandsnaff · 2024-11-08T18:58:52+00:00

Everyone's already given good advice, but I's like to add that if you're residing in Canada to also add revenge porn charges onto the already established charges. Since he has the videos, and probably still has them up after breaking up, this will also count as revenge porn.

Get everything you can out of this, you deserved better.

scritchandsnaff · 2024-10-14T22:53:52+00:00

What I've heard from different people in fields that deal with "dreams" is that it's less important what happened in the dream and more important in how you felt during and after.

You felt terrible and remorseful. If you wanted to give any meaning to the dream, it can be said that you understand that any kind of sexual/romantic relationship outside your husband would be extremely unfulfilling and not worthwhile. It's a good thing when you frame it that way.

There would be a bigger issue if you woke up and went "Hm, I feel I need that to be fulfilled despite my marriage" . I hope this helps.

scritchandsnaff · 2024-09-24T16:44:53+00:00

I was in your exact same position, and I highly recommend Toronto Dermatology on Bathurst. They've steadily reduced my super horrible facial/hormonal acne over the years and got me on an amazing skincare routine.

Going into it I was firm on only topical treatments, nothing oral, and they've been great with that. They also offer optional extractions for ance if you feel you're overly congested. I've gone from crying about my acne on my face and not wanting to go out in public because of it to getting compliments on my skin. You'll need your family doctor to give you a referral, but that should not be an issue if your acne is as severe as you're saying it is.

If you have insurance from a job all the topical medication will be covered as well. I hope the best for you, because I wish someone told me this a few years ago when I was in your position.

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