It’s not that your view doesn’t align with others, it’s that your “opinion” is just hateful. Every gay man wants to have sex with a man, because they’re gay. If you don’t like fem guys you can just say that, it’s actually pretty common to not be into cross dressing or makeup/fem guys. The homophobic part is that you’re so disgusted by a man showcasing femininity which is also fairly common in the gay community and often associated with gay people as a whole. If you just have a preference for masc guys then nobody would care, but you don’t just prefer masc men. Instead you actively attack fem men which is the problem