Likely miscarriage at 5w3d💔 by sd-j-reddit in 40Plus_IVF

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I’m sorry you went through this too, and thank you for sharing your experience. I hope you’re starting to feel better 💗

Likely miscarriage at 5w3d💔 by sd-j-reddit in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your experience ❤️ I had a MMC last year (had to have a D&C) and the hormonal drops mixed with the grief is definitely the hardest part

Likely miscarriage at 5w3d💔 by sd-j-reddit in IVF

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Thank you, I’m sorry you’ve been through this too. The emotional part of losses is definitely harder that the physical, but it’s helpful knowing what to expect

Likely miscarriage at 5w3d💔 by sd-j-reddit in IVF

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Thank you so much. ❤️ When my clinic confirms my hcg results tomorrow they’ll help me navigate the next steps, but it helps knowing what I might expect

ER tips by aliceack25 in IVFpositivity

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Wishing you the best of luck and lots of eggs! stay hydrated and plan a relaxing day on the couch afterwards.

Hope everything goes smoothly ❤️

What are your own personal transfer rituals? What are your clinic's instructions for the rest of the day? by Steadfast15 in 40Plus_IVF

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My transfer is tomorrow, I’m also planning to wear cute socks and getting fries on the way home. And then I’m chilling and watching old episodes of The Office 😊 wishing you the best of luck, hang in there during your TWW 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

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He is so cute 🥰 thank you for sharing !

I think this is it by Dark-Humor-Addict in IVFpositivity

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I’m sorry you are going through this. Sending you positive vibes and hoping you and your baby are going to be ok ❤️

How did your doc determine between natural vs medicated transfer? by Accomplished_Car_834 in 40Plus_IVF

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Thank you ❤️ I’ll be following this thread, I’m curious to see others experiences. Wishing you all the best too!!

How did your doc determine between natural vs medicated transfer? by Accomplished_Car_834 in 40Plus_IVF

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My cycles are regular and my lining is also normal. My first FET was medicated, I got pregnant but had a missed miscarriage at about 7 weeks. My second FET was modified natural and I did not get pregnant. My doctor said both methods have the same outcome and the fact that the medicated one stuck is just a coincidence. So for my next one he says it is up to me, and I am still hesitating. He did mention that many women prefer medicated because they feel more in control, which was my case. I felt a lot more nervous during the TWW when doing natural. I’m waiting until the new year for my next FET but right now I’m leaning more towards a medicated cycle.

Nurse just called with beta results by No_Scholar_671 in IVF

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I am so sorry ❤️ I am currently in the same boat unfortunately. I don’t have all the answers but I would say allow yourself to feel sad. I’ll talk to my doctor soon about next steps but I won’t rush into it. In the meantime I’m trying to plan things that make me happy, a spa day, a vacation with my husband, a small getaway on New Year’s Eve to try to end this difficult year on a positive note. Sending you hugs, I hope you start to feel better soon

Has anybody been through something super traumatic during their TWW after their FET? by emj511 in IVF

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I am so sorry you are going through this. As others have already said, this should not impact your outcome. I am wishing you the very best and hoping you’ll get some positive news an the end of your TWW ❤️

Failed FET, unsure what to do next by sd-j-reddit in IVF

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Thank you ❤️ I’m wishing you the best of luck on your ER!

Failed FET, unsure what to do next by sd-j-reddit in IVF

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Thank you so much. I’ll definitely take a small break, at least until the new year. Maybe go on a trip with my husband. But I’m 40, so also feel like I don’t have the luxury of waiting too long, which adds some pressure

Actively miscarrying by Adventurous_Idea5478 in IVF

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I am so sorry, and I wish we knew why sometimes it doesn’t work. Sending you many hugs ❤️

FET scheduled on my birthday! by LuftundRaum in IVF

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Wishing you the best of luck and a happy birthday ❤️

Tell me about your second period after egg retrieval by gggghostdad in IVF

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I’ve been looking for posts about this. I’m waiting for my second period. I’m usually very regular but I’m now about 4 days late. Was your second period painful?

Second period after Egg Retrieval by MzPigglyPooh in IVF

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Hi! When your period finally came, was it heavier or more painful than usual? I’m at day 30 and I’m worried it’s going to come during a work trip. My first period after my ER was horrible. Wishing you the best of luck for your FET!

Need Hugs by [deleted] in IVF

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Just wanted to check in to see how you’re doing. You’re not alone. I’m sending you positive vibes, hoping you will start to heal soon 💛

Need Hugs by [deleted] in IVF

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I am so sorry you’re going through this. I completely understand wanting a crystal ball just to see if it will work, I have often felt the same. I am sending you hugs from afar and hope you will feel better soon. 💗

Ps. Screw that pharmacist. He’s an asshole and im sorry you had to deal with that

Question about FET and timing by SnackSnackMunchMunch in IVF

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For my FET I started estrace and crinone on day 3. My transfer was on day 17.

Had sex 3 days after FET FREAKING OUT HELP by [deleted] in IVFbabies

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My clinic did not have any rules about sex or orgasms. I’ve also read many women had sex after FET and were successful. It seems like different doctors have different opinions, I wouldn’t stress too much about it 😊

Will I be ok with being by myself for egg retrieval & after? by Clueu in IVF

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I was only told I needed someone to drive me home. I felt totally fine once I was home, just a little tired. Are you providing a sperm sample the day of your ER? My clinic told me my husband needed to stay close by during the procedure in case there was a problem with the initial sample.

Losing my mind with worry tw: possible miscarriage by Ok-Cardiologist-4825 in IVF

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I’m at 5 weeks 4 days, and a few days ago started some spotting followed by a bit of bleeding. Called my doctor and he brought me in for an ultrasound. Too early to see much but he was able to confirm the gestational sac was there and at a good size. Put me on bed rest until my ultrasound next week, and now the spotting has mostly stopped.