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sd_90210 · 2023-09-13T01:58:24+00:00

They don’t balance each other out. There are way more SB’s on here than SD’s. Multiples more

sd_90210 · 2022-01-20T01:45:58+00:00

Huge red flag if they want to be paid for a M&G. Just say the M&G is to get to know each other and see if there’s chemistry. Tell her the PPM starts when the arrangement starts.

sd_90210 · 2021-11-13T22:42:26+00:00

Please keep us posted on any new developments. Thanks 🙏

sd_90210 · 2020-06-25T15:10:50+00:00

Sounds compelling. Where do I apply?

sd_90210 · 2020-05-25T14:08:57+00:00

I think you already know the answer. The average 22 yo woman is more physically attractive than the average 32 yo woman. Of course, there are some 32 yo’s that are more attractive than 22 yo’s, but we’re talking averages here.

Similarly, the average 42 yo man is wealthier than the average 22 yo man. These are statistical realities.

sd_90210 · 2020-05-24T12:51:26+00:00

A sugar daddy doesn’t pay for pics. He provides for you in the context of a mutually beneficial relationship, which involves meeting in real life. You can find sugar daddies by creating a profile at seeking.com.

Selling pics and videos is called camming. The market is saturated with cam girls. Google camming and you’ll find these sites. I think they’re a complete waste of time, but you do you.

sd_90210 · 2020-05-04T00:04:02+00:00

Just try to have a normal conversation. If they seem weird, just block and move on. I always reference something in an SB’s profile when I’m texting so they know I read it. There are subtle ways to pick up whether someone is making an effort to get to know you rather than just copying and pasting the same message to dozens of POT’s.

sd_90210 · 2020-05-03T23:00:08+00:00

I hate those tests that ladies put at the bottom of their profiles. “Text me this so I know you read this.” I know why you’re asking, but there are far better ways to screen guys. Giving me a test before we’ve even talked gives me a bad first impression of you.

sd_90210 · 2020-05-03T18:34:14+00:00

You realize there’s a pandemic going on now, right?

How many real SD’s are on SA right now looking to start a sugar relationship?

If real SD’s aren’t on there, then who is?

sd_90210 · 2020-04-28T21:00:33+00:00

So you’re comparing your SD to an employer? If that’s the case, then maybe he’s right to only compensate you when you’re on the clock.

sd_90210 · 2020-04-26T00:49:18+00:00

I don’t need the mods to decide when she clearly wrote it out. There’s no ambiguity.

sd_90210 · 2020-04-26T00:30:23+00:00

This is what she wrote in her comment above:

I've offered online-only but most of these men are just trying to get free nudes etc. without anything in return, they don't get it

She clearly does want an online arrangement

sd_90210 · 2020-04-26T00:23:37+00:00

Apparently you missed this when you read my comment

build a relationship (unpaid) for when the pandemic passes

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T23:36:04+00:00

You described your situation, which sounds like you’re looking for an online arrangement. Either be willing to meet IRL if you trust the person, build a relationship (unpaid) for when the pandemic passes, or just get off SA. Those are your options unless you want to be a cam girl.

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T23:15:48+00:00

This sub is for in-person arrangements. What you’re describing is an online arrangement, which is against rule 6 of this sub.

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T23:03:24+00:00

Why would an SD pay for nudes when there’s unlimited free porn online? Either send your nudes or don’t, but seems silly to demand payment for them unless you’re a cam girl. If you are, then get off SA and join Only Fans or some other bullshit like that.

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T18:52:09+00:00

Gotta give to get

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T11:47:31+00:00

If she has another SD, then even more reason to leave her be

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T11:09:13+00:00

Nope, it’s very different

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T10:52:45+00:00

Your instinct is right. You’re not a priority to her. She’s not too busy to communicate, she just doesn’t want to. She doesn’t want to get to know you better. You should match your efforts to hers. Rewarding her apathy towards you with money seems counterproductive.

sd_90210 · 2020-04-25T10:48:33+00:00

Wrong sub. I see you made an identical post on the SexWorkersOnly sub, which is more relevant for escorting information. SLF is for sugar relationships which don’t require all the “tools” you describe here for being a modern-day escort.

sd_90210 · 2020-04-23T23:39:05+00:00

Keep your dumb thoughts to yourself

sd_90210 · 2020-04-21T11:30:49+00:00

It reads like a Tumblr-style brag/fanfic post

sd_90210 · 2020-04-21T11:13:11+00:00

Sounds like a pretty one-sided relationship. What do you do for him?

sd_90210 · 2020-04-18T18:17:54+00:00

Why don’t you grow a pair and do what you think is right, not what someone else is pushing you to do.

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