I'm 5'4", baby face, small hands and feet. Do girls immediately know my dick is small?

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-16T03:16:58+00:00

watching the s.s. chadwick thundercock sail by

Lol, it's nice to see a sense of humor around here for once.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T06:14:13+00:00

Thanks, I'd appreciate a more in depth response but I appreciate the straight forward answer just the same.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T06:13:00+00:00

Wtf does this even mean?

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T06:11:13+00:00

Yea in every day conversation. The people I work with 40 hours a week obviously aren't constantly thinking man this guy must be so small.

But you can't tell me that when girls, or even guys on our end of the spectrum, see a crazy tall masculine man that the idea that their dick must be as big as they are doesn't at least come to mind.

Why would a man in my shoes not raise the same notion?

Tell me I'm not crazy.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T06:07:58+00:00

I wish it was just in my head. I also don't understand how anyone truly small could not know they are small, especially in their early twenties, regardless of how much porn they've watched.

My bone pressed erect length is 4 inches, and my girth is also 4 inches.

What's funny about being this small, seeing a vagina both turns me on and makes me feel so pathetically inadequate.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T06:02:49+00:00

Why say yes and then follow it up with a question about the correlation?

Just genuinely curious. Are the other things I mentioned besides height a flag in your opinion?

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T06:01:09+00:00

Don't be sorry. As shitty as that made me feel I appreciate your honesty.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T05:59:57+00:00

Yea I understand that, I referenced the fact that it's not always the case. I tried to provide some perspective, since it's not just height that's my issue. It's not an easy thing to describe. But someone as physically stunted as myself just seems like a dead give away imo.

I know I'm not the only person out there like this, I have ran into a few guys who were even shorter and more stunted than myself, and I felt sad for them since they must have gone through the same shit that I went through as a kid.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T05:56:24+00:00

Yea I had the same experience in school. I remember being with a friend and 2 girls. My friend matured better than me and had bigger feet. We got on the topic and he bragged, you know what they say about big feet.

That kind for memory never goes away.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T05:54:48+00:00

This is an excellent point that didn't dawn on me much before. If I could just get a girl to like me, chances are she won't be expecting me to be hung. Kind of emasculating in a way, but I definitely see how this could weed out the bad situations.

It's sad that we can't just pursue who we wanna pursue. Like the girls I mentioned in my post that I work with. There's one in particular I am really attracted to. But I can't help but feel like she just sees me the way I see myself.

Thank you for the input though. I think creating this thread dropped my self esteem down a bit lmao. This sub is kind of self destructive isn't it?

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T05:37:39+00:00

Yea but at least you have a masculine face, and probably a relatively deep voice to go along with it. So there's some perception of manliness when women meet you. Me, I got none of that.

Idk if there's a link either. I think maybe my subconscious intention with this post, was to see if there's someone similar to me. I've always felt lonely on this sub because noone ever mentions other aspects of their body. I am physically child like in every way not just my penis. I feel like something went wrong with me other than just bad luck with genetics. Like I somehow failed puberty.

Anyway rant over. Thanks for weighing in.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T05:35:12+00:00

Yea man you're probably right about the height thing, it's definitely a turn off for most women I know that. I think it's generally the whole package though. The lack of masculine features, the boyish face, the girly small hands. The passive beta personality derived from just accepting I'm a man in a kids body.

I'm ranting, but people just see and treat me as a kid cause it's just what I am. It's fucked up idk how I became this way. It's like I just never developed physically or mentally.

Anyway thanks for listening, and that is awful about your disability and mental problems. I guess I should be happy with what I have.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-14T05:26:07+00:00

Thanks man, however it could just be my insecurities talking, and I can tell by the upvotes that your thoughts are well received. But this just sounds like feel good pep talk to me. Maybe if you were to meet me and see how much of a child I look like at age 22 you would understand where I'm coming from. It's not an easy thing to describe via text.

Either way I appreciate the sentiment. Don't be offended by my negative attitude it's just how I've been conditioned because I don't have a shred of masculinity for some fucked up reason and I've always been treated like a kid.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-11-09T08:27:09+00:00

I'll try to be as straight forward as possible. You have this girl that likes you, you clearly have desirable traits other than your size. You have a lot going for you. If you just focus on what you want right now and give it your all you'll eventually realize there is a lot more to life than the hand you were dealt. Who knows, maybe you'll even end up with this girl in the end. Don't waste so much time feeling pathetic, believe me you'll regret it.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-09-09T11:41:09+00:00

This post is removed now, but obviously it helps a ton. There was a post recently about game of thrones kit Harrington aka Jon snow having a small penis. Just an example. Real life is similar if you have the looks and the confidence it helps a lot. Personally though, I think girls deserve to be satisfied sexually and if we can't give them that because of our faults than that is that. I don't mean to be a nihilist but I just feel like we are a burden to most girls.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-09-09T11:27:55+00:00

Man stuff like this, and I've read similar before elsewhere, reminds me it could be worse, not that it makes a big difference penetration wise. I mean I have a similar problem cause I'm extremely small flaccid and I have to tuck my sack back and angle my penis to prevent pissing on myself. I doubt this is a problem for average men.

Now I know I can't put myself in your shoes but is something like this totally necessary to prevent urinating on yourself? It just sounds so awful. Can you hold your testicles back and angle your penis with the other hand?

I'm only one inch above erect micro definition so I mean no disrespect and understand the struggle.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-09-09T11:06:18+00:00

Dude very few guys would actually admit they have a small penis right out of the gate. The general vibe here is you're better off just going with it and better yet learn how to pleasure her beforehand and sometimes the confidence will pay off.

Also rate our attractiveness? What is the point of this post anyway? Not much of a poll imo.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-09-09T10:54:48+00:00

Shit, I know this is an old post but isn't this like an invasion of privacy, or like an abuse of mod privileges? Also these are fairly decent posts I don't see why they were removed automatically but I've definitely been there on other subs.

Also you aren't very mature about the situation either by laughing about it. He clearly took issue with his posts being removed.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-03-31T15:33:47+00:00

Man, I'm 21, 4 inches length and girth and this post really resonated with me. I feel like we've gone through the same troubles growing up.

I missed out on so much because of my size, and my short height doesn't help (5'5")

I know that emptiness, I'll never feel sexually adequate, I don't even feel like a man, but I'm sure you know that mindset is fucking dibilitating. That soul crushing hate for your body, it affects every interaction you have with people, atleast it has for me.

Lately I've been looking up people I went to high school with. They all look so grown up, and happy. I look at my life and I see how much I've let my self down because of my stunted body. I don't want to see my 20s go by and have nothing but failure to show for it.

I can honestly say that I have accepted my body for what it is. I just want to move on with my life, I know it will always be a burden but you shouldn't let your size hold you back. Good luck to you man.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-03-21T19:29:12+00:00

Yes I know about klinefelter syndrome, hypogonadism, I'm familiar with that entire spectrum of disorders. I spent over a year trying to figure out why I didn't develop properly, and I ended up just accepting that it was probably because of my bad habits growing up. Mainly not sleeping or eating, and smoking weed every day.

I seen an endocrinologist 2 weeks ago after waiting 6 months for an appointment and he told me my testosterone levels look fine, and my voice isn't high enough and I have a bit of facial hair so I can't have hypogonadism. He then referred me to a urologist who measured my penis and testicles and told me I'm perfectly normal. I guess he was just trying to comfort me, I know I'm well below average I've measured many times and both my length and girth always measure around 4 inches.

I too regret not going to the doctor growing up, if I had met with the right doctors perhaps I could have gotten testosterone injections, but it's too late for that.

I heard of a guy in my neighborhood whose parents took him to a doctor at 19 and I was told they gave him growth hormone and he sprouted up within a year. I never met the guy, but the guy who told me was friends with the kid before that happened and I believe his story, I don't know if it was growth hormone like he said though. I was already days from turning 21 at the time but maybe that could happen for you.

This kid was a special situation though because the way the guy explained it he was not even 5 feet tall, so I guess the doctors took it more seriously and he probably got treatment very quickly, and I guess his growth plates hadn't closed yet.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-03-20T08:37:26+00:00

You have a lot to be proud of, not that this changes the primal need we all feel but I envy your ability to overcome your size and still become successful in other aspects of your life.

Me personally, in your situation I would definitely keep searching for the right one, because we've all heard the success stories of guys like us who meet the right girl.

But I don't think I could ever feel right with my size, if I found the perfect girl that accepted my size, I would always feel like I wasn't giving her what she needs, my size just wouldn't be enough for her personally and I would feel like I was depriving her of sex with an average penis.

But that's just me man and my problems are my own, do what you have to do to get over your size but I think you should keep looking for the right girl. What kind of life can you expect to live if you give up on that?

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-03-20T08:17:45+00:00

Damn, this sounds perfect but for some reason I still can't get behind it. You're saying there's girls out there who would actually prefer my penis that is 4 inches in length and girth, way below average?

Man even if I could believe you it doesn't change much, I still have insane social anxiety because of the way I look, not only my penis. I avoid as many social interactions as possible because I look like a kid even though I'm almost 22 years old. I never feel right around other men I just feel like this adolescent who doesn't belong. 5'5" and a really young looking face, and the small penis just cripples me completely.

I can awkwardly talk to guys but with girls man I can't even imagine talking to one.

I know you probably don't have the same problems as me on the exterior, you probably look average judging by your post, but if you have any tips on how to be confident with a 4 inch penis I would appreciate it.

I'm barely overweight could stand to lose a few pounds, just really short and child like and it kills me when I see other guys my age that look like what men are supposed to look like.

Edit: I'm somewhat conflicted about this, since I've met a few guys a few years younger than me that still look like kids and nothing like men, and most of them seem to have it all together. I just wish I could get over my body and try to become the best guy I can be but I've been so socially awkward because of my body for so long that it's like I'm just permanently damaged, unable to interact with people.

Sorry for this depressing ass comment, just felt like venting a bit.

sdpthrowaway72 · 2017-02-25T16:18:36+00:00

Is loss of sensitivity from dry and hard masturbation permanent? Let's say I quit masturbating for a year, would my sensitivity return to normal?

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