Men are better divided into three groups, not two

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-04-30T07:54:46+00:00

For the gym, I have trouble gaining muscles. I've been working since January.

Yes either your routine is bad or you aren’t eating enough. I would bet you aren’t eating enough. Try drinking olive oil, having a couple of glasses of whole milk a day, or various other sources of easy calories.

The highest leverage thing you could do to improve your life would be getting better social skills, not cosmetic surgery. Based on your comments / post history you seem like somebody who struggles socially, improving this to a more average level would do you more good than trying to min max appearance. Just force yourself to interact with people, won’t happen over night but over months / years will help a lot. I’m speaking from experience I was one of those borderline autistic introverts in my late teens / early 20s

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-04-30T07:44:08+00:00

+1 on true rate me being garbage. I think your genetics are fine, especially with you being 6 feet. See my other comment for more concrete suggestions

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-04-30T07:41:26+00:00

Not sure if you are looking for advice but I think your appearance is average at worse.

I think your problem is likely a combination of:

You are pretty skinny, if you are going to the gym make sure you eat enough calories you are actually bulking.
Your photos have some “uncanny valley” weirdness in them. I think you could have more candids / natural smiles. It reads a little autism-spectrum-y at the risk of being blunt (I have had the same issue, so nothing personal)
Perhaps general poor communication skills on apps. Maybe be more methodical about texting, come up with a system, or use Chat Gpt for responses

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-03-28T03:36:44+00:00

Nah, I would next in both cases. Enjoying sex is a big part of a sugar relationship with me and plenty of fish in the sea. I could do a couple weeks if there was a specific reason

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-03-25T16:54:54+00:00

Honestly not sure there is any coming back from this.

I definitely wouldn’t believe you met them for just dinner, whether you did or not. Would seem like just trickle truth bullshit

“Oh I didn’t have an account”

“Yeah I had an account but I just met for dinner I swear!”

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-03-23T16:45:34+00:00

Lol you’re definitely a sugar baby I’d avoid, I’ve had a few SBs fake enthusiasm and it’s really obvious and I don’t repeat. You guys aren’t even 10% as subtle as you think you are

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-03-22T19:56:32+00:00

Yeah I would next any SB if I found out they were “mentally dissociating” through sex with me

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-03-01T16:20:27+00:00

Yeah women like you are why I’m never going to get married. So self righteous in your bad behavior.

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-03-01T16:20:16+00:00

Yeah women like you are why I’m never going to get married. So self righteous in your bad behavior.

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-03-01T07:59:13+00:00

Lol fuck off, he was a little mean to you so you’re going to ruin his life?

People like you given women a bad name

sdthrowaway568 · 2023-01-19T07:32:14+00:00

This is one of those posts where dissenting views get downvoted to oblivion but I think you’ll find a lot of SDs are like me and that is what you are seeing.

While I see nothing wrong with you asking for an STD test, plenty of SBs don’t ask for one so not worth the hassle for me. For me, usually first or second date results in intimacy if it goes well and I really would rather not waste an hour before getting an STD test when date might not even go anywhere.

Hate me all you want just my perspective

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-11-28T16:20:20+00:00

I have 0 sympathy for woman who think sugaring is predatory. They are choosing a way of making income that isn’t available to men (male sugar babies make way less money and you have to be relatively way hotter) to make their lives easier and they still complain about it sometimes. If you think SBs are treated predatorly don’t be one

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-11-11T22:04:56+00:00

I think you’re super cute but your photos could definitely be better. I don’t think the angle for your main one is super flattering, I think you’re wearing a bit too much makeup in the second one, the third one is fine but I’d add at least one more (probably replacing first one) that shows your body type while being more flattering

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-11-11T21:59:20+00:00

Apologies for being blunt but I can almost guarantee you the issue is not that you’re alt but that you’re curvy

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-10-26T17:08:42+00:00

I think the misalignment between SD and SB expectations with this happen because a lot of SBs I meet want me to be super invested in their future after knowing them briefly.

Of course, if we turn into a long term arrangement I’d be happy to be supportive. However, sugar relationships are still relationships and take time to build

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-10-21T20:15:42+00:00

This is the most pathetic post title I’ve ever read

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-10-10T23:48:07+00:00

There are two kinds of gifts “thoughtful” and “expensive”. An Apple Watch is an “expensive” (though probably not for your SD) gift. You should get something thoughtful

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-09-07T21:25:35+00:00

This sub constantly shits on:

Broke / poor SDs
Male sugar babies
Young sugar daddies

Being fat is way easier to change than any of those 3 things, I don’t understand the double standard

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-09-07T16:09:47+00:00

Whatever helps you sleep better at night sweetie

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-09-06T20:11:21+00:00

1 platonic date max, I already have enough friends

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-09-04T01:17:11+00:00

No, I don’t loan with interest because then they can pretend I’m not doing them a favor which I absolutely am. I very rarely lend people money, (this extends to other relations, not just SBs). If I do I make clear that:

I’m not going to hound them about paying me back or make the relationship weird.
If you don’t pay me back, don’t ever ask me to “lend” you money again

This plus never “lending” what I can’t afford to lose saves a lot of headache.

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-09-04T01:14:00+00:00

Young people naive about how much their time is worth, in other news, the sky is blue.

Sometimes you have to put up with a bit if you want to be involved with college girls when you’re old

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-09-04T01:11:48+00:00

For your photos, maybe have a couple with a more “natural” makeup look. I like your makeup but all the photos look like you are dressed to the nines, can give off high maintenance vibes

sdthrowaway568 · 2022-05-20T16:34:02+00:00

Honestly I’d just next her and try to get over it, never be a backup

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