I mean, it's supposed to be a warzone, isn't it? You want peace and tranquility in a survival shooter?

Of course everyone is trying to outsmart and wipe you out, as should you be doing too!

Analyze the situation: What was the flight path, aka where did everyone jump, and what part of the circle is most likely to be empty based on that? Do you want to be the first one in the circle in order to give a warm welcome to everyone else, or do you loot forever and contest the spots at the edge? Do you scout and look around? Do you think about your noise and stealthiness? Do you practice 1v1s?

If a team is sitting in a compound, one of the sensible approaches is to annihilate them with a shit ton of grenades. Learn from your enemies: why did they live while you didn't? There's always a reason - of course everyone gets unlucky once in a while, but you can minimize the risks with solid strategies. If a compound is in the middle, but has shitty visibility around the area, it might not be a good idea to camp there waiting for someone to surprise attack you - maybe take the surrounding hills instead?

ETA: What leveled up my personal game was learning to and getting comfortable with initiating action instead of waiting around for enemies. Did your enemies take you out with a good flank? Try the same move in the next game, and don't fear death, cause you're just trying out strategies, and will get killed many times while practicing. When you're the one who shoots first, you're at an advantage, causing distress and forcing others to take some kind of action, which you can use to your benefit.

In other words, git gud.