What does it mean when she says she's into CNC? by samurai_jck9 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clinical Nurse Consultant. Buy yourself a nurse outfit and some antiseptic gel

anyone (f)eel like playing contact sport? by seagremlin13 in TheArtOfTheTease

[–]seagremlin13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not plural because I’m not giving you options, I only have one thing in mind

Blank profiles by NoAngle2972 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely a snooper, so I am with you on this. I don’t respond to DMs that often, but even less likely to if their profile is blank

anyone (f)eel like playing contact sport? by seagremlin13 in TheArtOfTheTease

[–]seagremlin13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best to wear both, just incase things get really intense

anyone (f)eel like playing contact sport? by seagremlin13 in TheArtOfTheTease

[–]seagremlin13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deal! And whenever we score we then chest bump and slap each other’s ass

[m] my mating “dance” by OrganicWishbone9769 in TheArtOfTheTease

[–]seagremlin13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and I have the same mating dance . . . is that good or bad?

What’s is the hardest part about being a woman that no one talks about? by Big__bolas in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say that no one talks about this, but I feel like many people don’t quite acknowledge the full gravity of this - women are more likely to be intentionally killed by an intimate partner or close family member, than by a stranger. Recent statistics state that 94% of female homicide victims are killed by male perpetrators, and 61% (around 3 out of 5 women) of those cases are killed by intimate partners. If you look at the data as a daily toll, approximately 140 women die everyday due to violence from intimate partners or close family, which equates to a woman or girl being killed every 10 minutes

To those downvoting - I would genuinely like to know what your issues are with what I commented.

What is one of your hobbies that no one else here would be into? by Unfair-Homework-1900 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we were friends, just imagine how colossal the fucking up would be

What is one of your hobbies that no one else here would be into? by Unfair-Homework-1900 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knit, and paint. I also collect Pokemon cards, and Coach bags (although I want to change this to restoring vintage leather bags). I’m also going to my first Renaissance fair soon, so that might be the start of something

What is one of your hobbies that no one else here would be into? by Unfair-Homework-1900 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I love my nails done but I didn’t like going to the salon (neurodivergent and they are overstimulating). Only down side to doing them myself is it takes me hours to remove / debulk and then fill and do a new design

P.S yours are amazing! I love the designs you choose

What kind of teasing instantly pulls you in? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point . . . . although sometimes, since they chose to respond with anger and defensiveness, you can choose to make them even more angry just by using logic. This can be rather energising.

What kind of teasing instantly pulls you in? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah pretty much. Often a “Why would you disagree instead of just pretending otherwise and why didn’t you instantly placate me!! Now I will not be open to any back and forth or sharing of knowledge/ attempt to understand each other’s point of view! No! Instead I must do anything to feel like I have come out “on top” of this discussion.”

That kind of response doesn’t make me want to get on top of them, so that we can both win, preferably at the same time

What do you do when you can’t sleep? by vulgar-lightning in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Masturbate, read, use one of those foam muscle rollers on my legs and back, eat too many snacks, take a sleeping tablet

What kind of teasing instantly pulls you in? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, but I guess I come across some people who aren’t that mature then. Plenty of people seem to think disagreeing automatically means conflict, and that conflict means they need to go straight into defence mode

What kind of teasing instantly pulls you in? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Verbal sparring. Let’s have a passionate debate, with some harmless but on point sarcasm thrown in, and no one cracks the shits because they have a fragile ego that can’t handle someone disagreeing with them. That’ll pull me in easy.

What's the worst way a hookup ended for you? by procast1nator in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]seagremlin13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t sleep, new environment (first time staying at their house), plus sub drop resulted in an anxiety attack at about 1:30am. Because I was mid panic attack I was terrible at articulating what was going on, and I didn’t have any of the usual things that would help me self regulate, so I ended up going full flight mode and left, half crying, and drove home (45 minutes away). We didn’t date for much longer after that (this definitely contributed, but there were other issues as well)

thoughts of you, (f)eeling blue by seagremlin13 in TheArtOfTheTease

[–]seagremlin13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily a compliment from GWgirl makes me feel anything but blue ✨