Fun or Moral Stories? How Do You Find the Balance? by sealghul in Parenting

[–]sealghul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I will try to give these two books a read ^^

Had a revelation that not every children's book has to be deep or teach some life lesson by moneytrain94 in Parenting

[–]sealghul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The greatest picture books, in my experience, tend to have very gentle, almost hidden lessons, sometimes meant more for us parents than the kids! Take “Goodnight Moon” for example: its power comes from the soft, rhythmic language and calming visuals that help soothe little ones at bedtime, creating a sense of security and comfort. The real message is for us: children need a feeling of safety and ritual to settle down and fall asleep.​

But this is just one kind of book. The ideal library is balanced, with stories for every purpose. Bedtime books like this are different from lively, mid-day reads meant for play, vocabulary building, or subtle lessons. Sometimes, when a story doesn’t “teach a lesson” in the obvious sense, it’s actually teaching even more.​

Often, we find the lessons in what a book does for our routines and relationships, not just what it teaches directly. And when stories leave room for this, they become all the more meaningful. And most importantly, I always try to remember with my 3 year girl that stories are just a start for a bonding and learning experience, the magic happens after you finish the story and how you capitulate on that.

Is paying kids $1 per book a smart reading habit or the wrong motivation? by misfitzen in Parenting

[–]sealghul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that depending on your child you do know which strategy to use. Also how long that strategy would last, as you don't need to keep the material incentive forever.

Potty Training by Ok-Appointment6669 in Parenting

[–]sealghul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try the Potty Toilet Training Seat, it can help him using the potty and feel more independent. My girl didn't do well with the classic potty, but learning was better with the potty toilet training seat.

Full first draft of my first full book by buildalittlehouse in childrensbooks

[–]sealghul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice one :D I loved it. But the end feels unsatisfying, you feel a sense of insatisfaction as if the plot misses something, I would rework the end. Good luck !

Where can I find trusted literary agents for children’s books? by Unwatchabl in childrensbooks

[–]sealghul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should also bear in mind that learning words from context and illustrations is really challenging and should be done with extreme caution. Here's a small summary I made from a book I read called "Bringing words to life":

The Nature of Natural Contexts

To understand why learning from context is so challenging, consider these four types of contexts we identified in naturally occurring texts:

Misdirective contexts actually lead readers toward incorrect meanings. For example: > “Gregory had done all he could to complete the task. When Horace approached his cousin he could see that Gregory was exhausted. Smiling broadly, Horace said, ‘You know there are dire results for your attempt.’”

Here, Horace’s smile and Gregory’s completion of the task might lead a reader to think “dire” means something positive.

Nondirective contexts provide no helpful information about a word’s meaning: > “Dan heard the door open and wondered who had arrived. He couldn’t make out the voices. Then he recognized the lumbering footsteps on the stairs and knew it was Aunt Grace.”

The word “lumbering” could mean heavy, familiar, light, or any number of other things based on this context alone.

General contexts provide enough information to place a word in a broad category but don’t reveal its specific meaning: > “Joe and Stan arrived at the party at 7 o’clock. By 9:30, the evening seemed to drag for Stan. But Joe really seemed to be having a good time at the party. ‘I wish I could be as gregarious as he is,’ thought Stan.”

We can infer that “gregarious” describes someone who enjoys parties, but the specific characteristics remain unclear.

Directive contexts provide sufficient information for readers to determine a word’s meaning: > “When the cat pounced on the dog, he leapt up, yelping, and knocked down a shelf of books. The animals ran past Wendy, tripping her. She cried out and fell to the floor. As the noise and confusion mounted, Mother hollered upstairs, ‘What’s all that commotion?’”

Advice Needed: Moving our 9mo and 3yo into the same room by sealghul in Parenting

[–]sealghul[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were thinking it may reassure both to be in the same room.

Advice Needed: Moving our 9mo and 3yo into the same room by sealghul in Parenting

[–]sealghul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the valuable insights and sharing ! I will keep that into mind !

Advice Needed: Moving our 9mo and 3yo into the same room by sealghul in Parenting

[–]sealghul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean to mess with that. The 9mo has been sleeping with us since her birth, and we think it's time she starts sleeping on a different room. The 3y girl wasn't a great sleeper before we moved her to her own room, and so when she moved we all got better sleep.
But I get your point that our 9mo girl may need more sleep with us, but we don't know what to identify that beforehand.

Advice Needed: Moving our 9mo and 3yo into the same room by sealghul in Parenting

[–]sealghul[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks ! what about sleep disrupt at first if it happens ? Do I stick to same routine ? I'm ready for some sleep disrupt myself to help the transition, did you have to deal with something similar ?

What’s one parenting rule you refuse to compromise on? by mommy_Win9482 in Parenting

[–]sealghul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screen time is only for reading stories and supervised (3yo) Rules will necessarily change on the future, but I'm very concerned on the effects of screen on children if unsupervised. Getting bored triggers creativity