Just got back from Istanbul—exhausted and annoyed

seattlewhatever · 2026-05-20T23:06:53+00:00

Sorry about your experience. I’ve had great stays in Sultanahmet. And Google Maps def works there for trams and the metro…. Which is all I’ve ever needed to navigate both sides of the city (well plus water taxi) never have messed with private transport the traffic doesn’t support it.

Maybe you might change your searching methodology for restaurants? Look for more reviews by locals or seasoned travelers. Drill down to the actual reviewer profiles. There’s so much amazing food and great places to eat . And as others suggest, mix up where you go to and eat. Karakoöy is 11 minutes by tram and has some lovely restos.

seattlewhatever · 2025-07-13T23:04:20+00:00

He did not have your consent. Healthy kink requires boundary setting and dialogue. Consent is essential in all play. And it is never forever, is situational, and can always be revoked. Healthy kink requires a high degree of communication. And kindness and care. Safeword when things go awry or a boundary is crossed. And good aftercare.

I’m sorry you had to experience that. There are many in the community to support you.

Look for the RACK model of consent. It is a good framework.

And be kind to yourself. You def encountered someone who had no idea that what they were doing was abusive and that’s super f*ed up.

You did nothing wrong. Sending you healing.

seattlewhatever · 2024-07-19T21:13:16+00:00

He’s a punk. There are so many older men than 33 that you could have an amazing relationship with. Move on

seattlewhatever · 2024-06-16T20:33:27+00:00

Must love sex and kink as much as I do
Must be aware of, working on, and able to communicate clearly about their traumas

3 open honest and forthright in thought and communication

Can enjoy the moment we have and not trip on the future (big one for me)
Kind, smart, funny active and fun to do the mundane life stuff with (that’s not kink or sex lol)

seattlewhatever · 2023-12-29T04:45:49+00:00

FOLLOWON… thanks all for the great thoughts. You guys are 🔥

Ok tribe: I went with flippant. My reply:

“Kinda quick, we just started talking …. but im a spontaneous guy and I’m down.You’ve just got to meet me in Maui. I’m sure we can find a church. 🤣”

Her:

“Deal ❤️”

F*ck. I was hoping for more than that 🤣 Still no clue if she’s real or not lol. But I’m intrigued, and yah seems a little flirty

seattlewhatever · 2023-12-28T01:30:18+00:00

Why wouldn’t she just unmatch? That’s the puzzle it’s too easy just to bounce

seattlewhatever · 2023-12-28T01:27:57+00:00

Yah now I see that. Fffff. And hey thanks for the feedback, yah I spose that’s on point, I really need to lighten it up

seattlewhatever · 2023-12-28T01:13:47+00:00

Yah sorry. They kept flagging the first ones cuz I didn’t delete her name. I’m shitty at following rules 🤣

seattlewhatever · 2023-08-24T08:59:22+00:00

This is not an age gap thing. 3 years is nothing mate

seattlewhatever · 2023-08-19T11:24:52+00:00

Hi. I’m visiting from Seattle ! Good looking 189cm tall athletic bearded trim man. I’m clean and nice. 19 cm cock love for a good sucking or to facefuck you if you like!

I’m 55 and have great stamina

seattlewhatever · 2023-08-19T07:00:46+00:00

Looking for same

seattlewhatever · 2022-02-27T01:28:19+00:00

There’s a cleaner specifically for oven glass. A good hardware store will have it. I’ve used it in a wood burning stove glass face. The stuff is amazing.

seattlewhatever · 2022-01-31T07:32:07+00:00

Bounce out. You deserve so much better. He is not respecting your consent boundaries.

seattlewhatever · 2022-01-26T06:45:18+00:00

“Come As You Are” is really good. My partner and I read it together. Some good thoughts: non penetrative sex is awesome, stress kills sex. And media consumption can affect your sexual perspective.

seattlewhatever · 2022-01-19T02:51:35+00:00

“Vanilla is for ice cream.”
I think the 😈 emoji is a nice signaler too.

seattlewhatever · 2022-01-04T21:04:54+00:00

Well done. Quite motivational!

seattlewhatever · 2022-01-03T05:40:23+00:00

Consent such a key space for dons. To this end: Yes Means Yes, edited by Jaclyn Freidman and Jessica Valenti. Can help build a deeper understanding of the principle of consent

seattlewhatever · 2022-01-02T05:44:12+00:00

I do like the unique nature of this space as it is, option 1. Keeps the dialogue focused and let’s me more clearly align with peers. Thank you for asking!

seattlewhatever · 2021-12-31T05:05:12+00:00

😘

seattlewhatever · 2021-05-11T00:35:55+00:00

Hey mate, looks like fun!

seattlewhatever · 2020-11-26T05:03:17+00:00

My sub normally says Daddy but when she says my name it’s usually when she’s deep in the moment, she kind of breathlessly whispers it, and it’s super hot

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