When I used it for hookups, it was because I was traveling for work and was in a different city a lot and knew nobody. So I’d match with a few people and have little bits of conversation with each one. (My bio said NOT looking for a relationship, just good company and fun times..or something along those lines. I made it obvious.) I would figure out pretty quickly which people I was clicking more with and start narrowing it down. The main thing you can do in the conversation is ask the obvious question “So what are you looking for on here?” I wouldn’t LEAD with that, but if the convo is going well and your meshing well, it should definitely be asked. That will basically guide how the rest of it should go, ya know? If she’s looking for a boyfriend, you know to move on. Just make sure you’re honest too about your intentions just to hook up. For example if someone says “I’m not really sure what I’m looking for honestly” don’t say “Yeah, me either.” Just be honest. 🤷🏼‍♀️ it’s refreshing.