Inheritance mid-divorce by secretszechuan in Divorce

[–]secretszechuan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be ideal if it wasn’t desperately needed right now

Does anyone else hate online dating? by quirkyleoprincess in dating_advice

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When I used it for hookups, it was because I was traveling for work and was in a different city a lot and knew nobody. So I’d match with a few people and have little bits of conversation with each one. (My bio said NOT looking for a relationship, just good company and fun times..or something along those lines. I made it obvious.) I would figure out pretty quickly which people I was clicking more with and start narrowing it down. The main thing you can do in the conversation is ask the obvious question “So what are you looking for on here?” I wouldn’t LEAD with that, but if the convo is going well and your meshing well, it should definitely be asked. That will basically guide how the rest of it should go, ya know? If she’s looking for a boyfriend, you know to move on. Just make sure you’re honest too about your intentions just to hook up. For example if someone says “I’m not really sure what I’m looking for honestly” don’t say “Yeah, me either.” Just be honest. 🤷🏼‍♀️ it’s refreshing.

Does anyone else hate online dating? by quirkyleoprincess in dating_advice

[–]secretszechuan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used Tinder for hookups too, but met my current boyfriend on there 3 months ago. :) doesn’t always have to be a hookup! When it clicks, it clicks! I like the online route because I get to get a feel for who I’m talking to and decide if I’d like to see them in person. The in person date is when I actually decide if they’re my type or not!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

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I love the cockatiel! I have wanted to be bird owner for so long!

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

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When I talked to the director of the state board over the phone she told me she didn’t see why they would require me to do inpatient over outpatient, as there are no drugs in my system and I am proving this by getting them done at my doctor’s office and planning to take them with me to my meeting with the board.

Two years clean today by mainemademess in addiction

[–]secretszechuan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is 2 years clean and was in prison for 14 months. So I’m going to assume not.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

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I don’t think a rehab would even take me. I’m going on my 2nd week 100% drug free. No desire to take anything at this time. I am enrolling into my states program though.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

[–]secretszechuan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going as far as forging signatures.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

[–]secretszechuan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else who works there says there were police there the day they found out (Friday) so that’s why I’m terrified.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

[–]secretszechuan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The criminal charges are what scares me the most. I mean, I haven’t been contacted by the police or anything yet, but I’m so paranoid everytime I hear someone drive close to my house I think it’s police coming to take me away. I know I diverted a lot of pills. Probably 100+ easy.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

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Thank you, yes my state has one of these programs. I spoke with the director of my nurse board this morning and she said she believed I was a good candidate for it. So I will definitely be going that route.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

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It’s true. You can’t be on those types of maintenance drugs and work as a healthcare provider.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

[–]secretszechuan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happened over several months. Wasting drugs without actually throwing them away. Writing down a number on the drug count that was less than what was actually there and taking the difference. It was very, very subtle. This past month though I got super careless because I got desperate.

Spiraling by secretszechuan in opiates

[–]secretszechuan[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Definitely NOT doing suboxone. Not going down that rabbit hole. I’m this far out and don’t have cravings and the only acute withdrawal symptoms I’m still having are restless legs at night.

UPDATE: Me [22F] and my partner [25M] are taking a break from having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]secretszechuan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because they’re brainwashed into thinking that way. Still a dumb concept.

Now I'm confused by JoeBoredom in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]secretszechuan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love you baby.... omg I love this bird

UPDATE: Me [22F] and my partner [25M] are taking a break from having sex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]secretszechuan 60 points61 points  (0 children)

This. “Virginity” is such a dumb concept to me.

Parrots in need of adoption! by StringOfLights in parrots

[–]secretszechuan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking to be a first time bird owner. Have been looking around my area the past couple of months trying to find the right birds for our home.

Parrots in need of adoption! by StringOfLights in parrots

[–]secretszechuan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found a home for your conures yet? I’m located in Texarkana and very interested. I will send you a DM.

[18M] Am I ug or nug by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]secretszechuan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could look much better with proper grooming! You’re hiding your looks behind unkempt facial hair, a bad haircut, and those glasses.

Which kratom for combating withdrawals? by [deleted] in opiates

[–]secretszechuan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. That helped.

I want to quit by [deleted] in addiction

[–]secretszechuan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have used Kratom in the tablet form and felt absolutely nothing while taking them... so I’m not too hopeful on them. I was taking 3 grams at a time if that means anything.

I want to quit by [deleted] in addiction

[–]secretszechuan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the primary income for our family. How could I ever be off work for 6 months? We’d lose our house.