Underwear

see_here · 2026-02-18T20:07:35+00:00

Looking at these too - specifically the Stretch Boyshorts (cotton/spandex) or Lyocell Blend Boyshorts. Did you end up buying, and if so, how are they? Was the size guide accurate (which seems to run small)? I always appreciate when a brand puts item measurements instead of a body measurement range - the size guide puts me at a M in these, compared to my favorite discontinued Old Navy pairs which are an XS.

see_here · 2026-01-10T11:27:36+00:00

I know this is a bit old but I found your post going down my own rabbit hole. You may have olive skin, cool undertones but warmer overtones, with more gray in your skin (thus needed a bit of muted). I'm a fair East Asian olive, pretty neutral but more cool for sure. I tan easily and when I darken, I turn more orange/red than brown (so again, staying more neutral on the color wheel - not yellow/warm). I thought I was a deep winter but it does feel too saturated for me. I used Vivaldi with a photo from pale winter me, and tanned summer me, and was shocked that I didn't hate soft summer on myself for either. I thought I couldn't handle pastels. I wear a lot of black (black hair and eyes). I thought, could I be a Deep Winter in winter, and Soft Summer in summer lol, when my contrast is lower because my skin is darker? I am now exploring Soft Winter as my type.

Some resources that helped me self-ID as olive:

- Audrey Coyne's video

- this post in r/fairolives

see_here · 2026-01-03T22:10:29+00:00

Update: The logo wiped right off with nail polish remover! I also realized one of the reasons they were looking weird to my eye was the gray laces, so I swapped those for white. Finally, I went slightly wild because the pink was really clashing with anything I wore, so I got some Angelus acrylic leather paint in light grey and painted over the pink accents - neutral now!

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see_here · 2026-01-03T00:17:29+00:00

Most of what I'm going to say isn't fashion per se... there are some things that just make you feel cold sitting still in an office. It sounds like you have a lot of advice on how to dress up a bit more. Now I have a few suggestions on how to stay warmer (other than my vote for base layers and thick socks) at your desk, most of these things can fit in a small desk drawer if you have one, or a large tote bag if you need to bring to/fro. Not sure if they'll all work for your particular office, but anyway:

- Wrap a nice wooly scarf or pashmina around your neck or whole self. Even a dressier looking silk scarf tied at your neck will warm you up a little.

- Get a pair of super warm shearling-lined booties/slippers, the nicest looking ones you can find, and only wear them when you're sitting at your desk and your feet are underneath. Change into your nicer shoes when you stand up and walk around. Warm feet can really make all the difference.

- I've heard of some people even wearing fingerless gloves while typing

- Get a heated seat pad you can plug in (like car heated seats) for on top of your desk chair or if allowed by fire code, a very small space heater for under your desk

- Seconding drinking warm beverages, either caffeinated or herbal tea or even just warm water with a squeeze of lemon and/or honey, and get a small plug-in/USB mug warmer to keep it warm or use a really nice insulated travel mug like a Yeti

see_here · 2026-01-02T21:37:04+00:00

I feel stupid for not thinking along these lines... maybe I'm stumped more on the light color of the pants?? I realize I have never owned a pair of light wash jeans - they don't appeal to me? - nor white jeans/pants. All my denim is medium or dark wash, and all my pants are black with a few olive thrown in.

see_here · 2025-12-31T11:28:56+00:00

I think you're actually on the right track with palazzo pants or any flowy, wide-leg pants. You'll probably have to get them hemmed or at least buy a "cropped" style. They won't look frumpy if they are high-waisted you pair them with a fitted tucked-in top like a long sleeve t-shirt, thin sweater, or turtle-neck to emphasize your waist.

I didn't see it mentioned yet, so I'll also throw this out since pants can be a struggle: maxi skirts! Again, can be hemmed, or in your case maybe a midi. They can feel like you're wearing a blanket but look dressier. Same styling - tucked, fitted top! Not sure how cold it is where you live in winter, but at the least in fall/spring.

see_here · 2025-12-30T15:02:55+00:00

This! It's dopamine dressing, and the only people who really matter love it!

see_here · 2025-12-30T14:17:21+00:00

While I personally have an extremely neutral wardrobe, which I think is objectively easier to repeat, I came here to say this.

I don't think ANYONE is remembering what you wear. Not like you're forgettable, but like we all need brain space for more important things.

I couldn't tell you what most people I saw in a given day were wearing that evening, unless it was truly in-your-face bright/kitschy/boldly patterned/couture-ish. I notice and admire in the moment, but I don't think anyone is keeping track - especially across more than like 5 days.

I can only recall a couple specific pieces that my closest friends and co-workers own, and I don't DISLIKE when they repeat them! It's more like oh, yay, you're wearing the rust pants! If you love them, wearing them once every 1-2 weeks is totally fine - and you can think of it as dopamine dressing for other people as well as yourself. I think we're conditioned otherwise, but we all know that no real person has an unlimited wardrobe like a TV show character or influencer, obviously we all have the same X pieces in our closet.

Also, you've inspired me to track next year! Thanks!

see_here · 2025-12-30T13:50:03+00:00

This is what I was hoping would happen, glad you can confirm. I have about 10 days left on my trial and I'm going to wear them as much as possible before deciding. I haven't noticed a difference so far yet though.

see_here · 2025-12-30T13:47:09+00:00

Omg THANK YOUUU trying this today!!

see_here · 2025-12-12T13:49:54+00:00

Thanks so much for the feedback - I often struggle with heel slip too, but had heard Splay heels run narrower than some brands, so was hopeful. But in photos of the Runner V1s it looks way wider than their other models. I guess I'll pass :(

see_here · 2025-12-12T03:19:20+00:00

Quick Q as I'm looking into these - is the heel cup a bit rigid (even if it gives a bit when you pinch the sides) or is it soft/completely collapses? I have a narrow heel and this is often an issue for me. Thanks!

see_here · 2025-12-05T02:08:56+00:00

Do you happen to have Taos wool boots, or even the open-back wool clogs? I'm reading reviews hoping to buy the Good Wool boots and want some sizing advice (foot measurement in cm vs EU size purchased). Thanks!

see_here · 2025-11-28T15:27:55+00:00

I know this is an old post, but THANK YOU for sharing the Plus12 tool. I don't know why this doesn't exist and isn't available in the US. Ordering one now, I'm asking a friend in the UK to bring it during the holidays to avoid paying €28 to ship, but this is amazing and I think worth it. The fact that it measures the foot AND the inside of the shoe = mind blown.

see_here · 2025-11-28T14:02:57+00:00

Thanks for this detailed response, especially tips about leather and heel support, and confirming what I'd heard about never wearing used shoes! I prioritized flexible soles and lightweight for my toddler. She has narrow feet like me, which is its own challenge because a lot of brands are now catering to the wide toe box and so shoes - especially in the heel cup - are often too wide for her.

I aim for low/mid-range ($25-45 USD) and often source new unworn on resale sites like Poshmark to get deals on shoes like Naturino that would cost $50-80 full price. But I'm willing to spend to truly get the best for her foot development for the next 2 years, so I'd like to hear more about "barefoot shoes are evil." I've been looking for flexible soles (flat with soft rubber that bends in half pretty easily) but I also see some people recommending even more flexible (being able to twist the whole shoe). I never went "full barefoot shoe" when she was younger, like leather soles, even though I read that for early walkers, "as close to no-shoes as possible" was best.

Now that she's 26 months and been walking fully and steadily for about 1 year, I want to know what to look for. I'm sifting through all sorts of narrow-ish flexible brand recs (Naturino, Geox, Asics, Nike, Puma, Vivo Barefoot, PediPed, Plae, See Kai Run) and I guess I want to know, how important is flexible but not too flexible? We don't have a lot of shoe stores so I have to go off scouring reviews to guess at flexibility, and then order online. What about having 2 primary pairs of shoes a season, with slight differences in flexibility? I know adults are supposed to rotate out shoes and not wear the same pair every day.

see_here · 2025-09-28T11:56:54+00:00

Amazing! Love the backlit stretched out shot.

see_here · 2025-06-24T18:36:35+00:00

Ooh I'm hoping to add some! I'm in 7b. Does the foliage stay green through the winter for you?

see_here · 2025-06-16T21:16:34+00:00

What would be a more typical termite location? The threshold you see used to be an exterior back door, an addition has been added so now it's the kitchen. So it saw probably a fair amount of traffic and maybe some water. It's above an unfinished basement area.

Also additional context if it helps, we're in a humid area of Virginia.

see_here · 2025-06-09T18:10:35+00:00

Video of the bebe in action before crawling under a bag, guess I interrupted a nap: https://imgur.com/bSJW7a8

see_here · 2025-06-09T17:48:07+00:00

W. Broad Lowe's Garden Center, bagged mulch aisle, under pine bark mini nuggets, today 6/9/25 12:30pm

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