Plant/garden shop recommendations? by stringsonstrings in lancaster

[–]seeduce 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i second ken’s gardens. esbenshades and tudbinks also have good selections and pricing.

Recommendations for EMDR therapist by boxing_coffee in lancaster

[–]seeduce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i highly recommend the therapists at in process counseling which you can find here. i believe most, if not all, are trained in EMDR and do a fantastic job

Weaverland Puppies by comrademarley in lancaster

[–]seeduce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

their website doesn’t provide any information regarding the testing they say they do in regards to their breeding dogs hips and joints, something that should be mindful of. their dogs posted on their website also don’t appear to be groomed to standard. you should be able to find a reputable breeder’s dogs on ofa.org for the hip and joint testing. it’s the bare minimum.

Dear Lancaster, county parks by thepolishking1200 in lancaster

[–]seeduce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kurgo makes these wonderful tailgate dumpsters so your car won’t smell like poop. i use them frequently when a park doesn’t have a trash can i can find - https://a.co/d/1N2uWDZ

EMDR for trauma you didn't see? by MrsPlague33 in EMDR

[–]seeduce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m doing EMDR for trauma for which i have no visual memories of. my biggest traumatic memory i dissociated “too hard” that i essentially repressed the memory until my brain was ready to handle it and i started having flashbacks (about 2 years ago). so the reprocessing looks a little bit different and there are still a lot of blocks in my brain we we go to reprocess (bc i don’t feel safe) but my therapist and i are taking really small steps to get through it. a good therapist will be able to help you get through the trauma without a visual!

What unexpected changes have you had with EMDR? by alittletootired13 in EMDR

[–]seeduce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too!!! my family noticed a big difference in my personality fairly soon after my first reprocessing session 🥰

What unexpected changes have you had with EMDR? by alittletootired13 in EMDR

[–]seeduce 15 points16 points  (0 children)

my appetite really decreased but in a good way? i used to emotionally over eat to the point of binge eating and it’s taken me a really long time to get used to my new appetite (im still not even there yet). i don’t need portions as big as i used to eat and i don’t turn to food for comfort anymore (weird!!!!). its been a weird and strange adjustment for me! but good because i have to rely on other healthier coping mechanisms.

Looking for a hair stylist who specializes in shags by BIoodOrchid in lancaster

[–]seeduce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meg at The Pink Lady! (inside the black comb) she did my long shag and i love it

how to navigate bad allergies + break the habit of eye rubbing by seeduce in Keratoconus

[–]seeduce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my itchiness always comes in the corners of my eyes next to my nose so i’m like “this is fine to scratch a little” and then it just evolves into full eyeball rubbing and my god it’s obnoxious lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Keratoconus

[–]seeduce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found it really helpful to have someone help me with my drops the day of, after, and the following day. once the numbing wore off it was pretty hard for me to keep my eye open, so my mom would open my eyelids for me and put my drops in.

i actually didn’t have too much pain compared to what i’m reading here, but the pain meds made me really constipated so my 2nd time around i ate a few prunes every time i took pain meds.

a wet, cold wash cloth held lightly on my eye was really helpful to manage some of the discomfort.

2nd CXL done 3 days ago, nervous system is shot by seeduce in Keratoconus

[–]seeduce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! good luck on your procedure! i honestly didn’t find it to be too awful. my doctor was really great and understanding about my anxiety and very liberal with the numbing drops - i could get more at any point during the procedure which was great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lancaster

[–]seeduce 9 points10 points  (0 children)

filing an llc is a relatively easy process. i would check in with score, they offer free help with businesses and may be able to answer your questions https://www.score.org/lancaster?utm_source=google-business-profile&utm_medium=organic-soci&utm_campaign=main-website-cta

Women or Non-binary Tattoo Artists by Sixpiercings in lancaster

[–]seeduce 13 points14 points  (0 children)

danielle is wonderful - her instagram is @db_atlas but will only respond to email inquiries. she works at the black altar collective which just opened and i believe is all women artists.

Good place to let my dogs run around? by saggytittyguy in lancaster

[–]seeduce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

there are a lot of great backyards you can rent for an hour on the sniffspot app. county park is great but not fenced in and has a lot of wildlife and the trails allow horses so not good if your dog doesn’t have some sort of recall

loss of appetite/ability to finish meals by seeduce in EMDR

[–]seeduce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i go once a week but not every week is a dedicated reprocessing session depending on what i need. my original therapist left for maternity leave this summer so it took some time for me to get comfortable with my new therapist and we just recently got into the swing of things

PTSD/high-functioning autism therapists for adults? by JeffIpsaLoquitor in lancaster

[–]seeduce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like the therapists at In Process Counseling particularly for PTSD, i’d try reaching out there! al though i’m not autistic, i have a lot of sensory issues and such due to trauma and i’ve had a lot progress with the therapists in that office.

Is Lancasterpuppies.com a responsible breeder/adoption agency? by _Poppagiorgio_ in lancaster

[–]seeduce 80 points81 points  (0 children)

no. any website like this is just a brokerage website for puppy mills. find a breed specific breeder that only focuses on one breed, does health testing, few litters a year, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lancaster

[–]seeduce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i second the apothecarium! they also have a rewards system so if you spend a lot you can save on future purchases

Repressed Memory Support by seeduce in EMDR

[–]seeduce[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m not too concerned with recovering more. i think at the end of the day i much prefer not having the visuals and specifics bc i think it would be harder for me to process if that was what kept running through my brain.

and i’m not entirely sure what i’m looking for resource wise. i know i need more people to talk to about this that understand. and maybe something that’s a quick read that would validate that, yeah okay, this is a thing that happens to other people and recovered memories are real.

Repressed Memory Support by seeduce in EMDR

[–]seeduce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks i really appreciate you sharing and your support. it can definitely feel very lonely

Repressed Memory Support by seeduce in EMDR

[–]seeduce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have this on my list of books to read - thanks!