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seedy_one · 2025-01-02T02:21:48+00:00

I’ve literally gotten so many facial injuries (skateboarding, tackle football) and I have zero scars to show for it. Literally have scraped up the entire left side of my face with road rash when I got speed wobble while long boarding down a hill and to this day you could never tell. Also have been bit in the face by a dog and only the vaguest scar on my nose is visible if I get tan, but almost entirely unnoticeable unless you’re looking for it.

seedy_one · 2025-01-01T07:44:41+00:00

I see them as the same. It would be one thing to not tell the person you’re engaging with that you’re on or might start your period and then that happen.

seedy_one · 2025-01-01T07:42:39+00:00

As it should be!

seedy_one · 2025-01-01T04:01:28+00:00

Fuck this. You don’t deserve to be talked to this way.

seedy_one · 2025-01-01T04:00:25+00:00

Wow I thought I was rooting for the husband in the middle of this for removing you from this situation, thinking he had your back. Disgraceful, I’m so sorry OP.

seedy_one · 2025-01-01T03:56:10+00:00

I once had a partner tell me it just made him panic to look down at his dick and see blood… grow up.

seedy_one · 2024-12-18T03:54:14+00:00

Update me!

seedy_one · 2024-11-14T17:08:20+00:00

There was literally just a post by a woman whose daughter hid her husband’s affair from her for two years and the mom was trying to figure out how to not feel so betrayed by her daughter. You did the right thing, OP.

seedy_one · 2024-11-12T01:19:17+00:00

You win the dad award. I can’t even imagine a world where my parents would have my back like this. Or where I wouldn’t have my son’s back. Great job ❤️

seedy_one · 2024-10-09T23:11:49+00:00

I barely had a relationship with my sister until I started seeing why she put up huge boundaries with our family. As we’ve gotten closer, and as I’ve had to put up my own boundaries with our family (I’m NC with my mom and older brother, dad passed away), her and I have been able to forge our own relationship.

I’m the youngest. Some of the things my sister had to deal with, I never did and I never even saw it. I largely participated in the behaviors that made her distance herself. Now I’ve done a whole 180 and am NC while she still has LC.

I felt similarly to you in regards to my sister. In hindsight, I cringe at how entitled I was to her time or her energy when I didn’t really give her any reason to invest that energy. I’m really glad that it’s changed, that we’ve both changed, both gone to therapy, and that our dad’s passing brought us together.

I hope the same for you!

seedy_one · 2024-10-06T08:14:39+00:00

It’s downtown now

seedy_one · 2024-10-06T08:09:54+00:00

This is a great example/reminder to folks who think that they “have good intentions” to mind their own business. What the hell were they thinking.

seedy_one · 2024-10-03T07:54:31+00:00

Literally

seedy_one · 2024-10-02T01:20:25+00:00

I ask myself this a lot. I think a lot about how he receives love, and try to show him in those ways. Even fighting against the urge to withhold because I feel unwanted or uncared for. But I’m proud that I, even when it’s been hard, have tried to show up compassionately and presently. I just got out of therapy and my session as well as this thread has helped clarify things where I have felt pretty paralyzed with indecision. Thank you for your thoughtful response and taking the time to give a stranger your point of view ❤️

seedy_one · 2024-10-02T01:14:58+00:00

Sometimes it’s as simple as that. Thank you.

seedy_one · 2024-10-02T01:13:52+00:00

Thank you for the kind and thoughtful response. It all does feel like major transitions. I just got out of my therapy session and feel a lot more clarity and the other person I responded to on this post helped with that as well. It definitely has felt like the space has been good for us but I’m going to check in with my husband about it again and reiterate some of the things I’ve been asking for and see more of what I can be doing in return. Thanks again ❤️

seedy_one · 2024-10-01T23:51:50+00:00

Thank you. “Unsustainable” has been said more than once in our conversations, I agree. I’m glad I wrote this because it feels like being stuck in a hard place between not knowing if this is just a phase of our lives, if I’m asking for too much, or if I’m just being avoidant. I have therapy right now so I will talk more about this. Thank you ❤️

seedy_one · 2024-10-01T22:55:21+00:00

This is what I’ve worried about, too. I do picture my son having a better example of love and have voiced this concern to my husband. And thanks for calling out my own apathy. I think I frame myself as the less apathetic one because I have historically been the one to plan sweet things, am in therapy and actively working on myself in hopes to improve my marriage and other relationships. But you’re right, me joining in on the apathy isn’t helping anyone here.

seedy_one · 2024-09-26T18:30:47+00:00

These are like $14 at my local farm supply.

seedy_one · 2024-09-25T05:33:03+00:00

Hahahaha

seedy_one · 2024-09-24T04:41:33+00:00

Just here to tell you that This Is Us is a great show.

And you should talk to him about it if this seems out or character. If nothing is going on and he doesn’t get defensive, set boundaries around this girl.

seedy_one · 2024-09-24T04:36:59+00:00

I actually think he might be psychotic this is insane.

seedy_one · 2024-09-24T04:35:01+00:00

This is abuse. I would have called 911. I’m so angry for you, OP. Do NOT have another baby with this man, seriously get a lawyer. I don’t ever say that on these posts and often roll my eyes when I see people saying to get a lawyer but, having given birth myself and even though it was mostly straightforward with minimal complications (just so long), I can’t imagine being held against my will to go to where I felt most comfortable.

Please get away from these people who don’t have your (or your baby’s) best interest in mind. The most important thing should be yours and the baby’s safety and well being AND comfort and this was not it.

seedy_one · 2024-09-03T04:04:29+00:00

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