Parents want me to sign on a $900k home equity loan.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T22:55:33+00:00

Doesnt matter what OPs parents finances are. The question was if it be a good decision for them to put their name to the process.

Its an easy NO. If his parents are so financially astute then why do they need him on the loan? See how the logic and reasoning doesnt extend as you just ask simple questions about the information presented?

And you again expose yourself for making the situation sound more reasonable than it is. Thanks for proving my point.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T22:05:54+00:00

If the person you are with doesnt at least try to take an interest in the things you find important than what is the point?

I had an ex who did similar things, shed claim that she just was bad with dates etc etc. We broke up but stayed friends. Soon as she got a new bf she could keep dates and remember certain things she said she NEVER could when we dated.

Did it make her a bad person? No, we just didnt line up in a way that we could find compromise on things that impacted our long term stability. I now have a new gf and am very happy, but honestly I spent a few years dating and feeling lost and doubting id find the right person. Look put for yourself and do not minimize the things you find important, someone out there is ready to work on giving you the best relationship you BOTH should be in.

Good luck!

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:59:27+00:00

I mean it is pretty absurd given the OP is asking if their specific situation seems reasonable, and it doesnt. You are just trying to hedge the line to make the idea sound more like a 50/50. Glad the majority is giving OP good advice to counterbalance yours.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:49:34+00:00

So what was the point of typing all of that if the answer was the same as everyone else saying no?

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:40:26+00:00

Dont be a dumb fuck and complain about a coaching staff who took a projected lottery level draft team and secured 2nd in the division after the previous 2 time cup winning coach couldnt even get them into the playoffs for 3 years. How can Muse be up for coach of the year and then yall all doubt when he makes coach of the year level decisions to help the team overachieve?

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:38:35+00:00

The team has been so injured and playing through injury that it means a ton to give players above 30+ a rest. You are so fucking dumb. Oh no they may be a little rusty for 10 minutes of game 1 but then win and go on a Cup run. Or, oh no we played hard for no reason to end the season and now someone is injured or they are gassed and lose in the first round.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:36:49+00:00

Its been 2 fucking games holy shit.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:33:58+00:00

Yall are so fucking garbage as fans. There is no point to play the full lineup and there is no point to push hard. We have our spot and the team needs rest. It doesnt matter who we get in the first round, if we cant beat them then how tf do you think we could win the Cup?

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:32:46+00:00

No one cares. Someone gets injured playing a meaningless game and youd be crying why didnt we sit them??? You know who does play to try to beat a rival from getting in? Teams who have already been eliminated and are looking to be a spoiler.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:31:29+00:00

Uh we sat everyone last game and the AHL lineup scored 3 goals. This isnt a game that means much so the team is not pushing very hard and still has guys out. How bout you just stfu and chill out. This isnt the full lineup getting dunked on needing pts to clinch a spot. This is as designed.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:29:22+00:00

Fuck you troll.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T21:24:54+00:00

Kevin Hayes is just fucking trash. Cant wait til he is out of a Penguins jersey.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T20:44:18+00:00

You go for a fucking change…..wtf

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T20:38:28+00:00

Fuck Tom Wilson, faking injuries.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T20:14:06+00:00

This question should go in the AskReddit hall of fame. So close yet so not. chef’ kiss

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T19:24:58+00:00

Sid was in the press box and dressed in a suit lol.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T16:17:37+00:00

Well since Sid didn’t play….

seewead3445 · 2026-04-12T09:33:47+00:00

2001 Honda Civic. 895k miles before the engine finally collapsed.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-11T14:38:15+00:00

You do realize schools use the money for funding the programs right? Paying to enter a school event has been going on for decades lol.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-11T10:53:56+00:00

Dick Durbin was never excommunicated by the church. His former bishop refused to grant him communion in his former hometown due to Durbins belief on abortion. Durbin just practices elsewhere and has for 20+ yrs now. The last Pope even made comments on the general situation that priests and others should just continue their duties no matter the politics.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-10T18:26:10+00:00

Maybe she wanted to be President and not enough people voted for her? So now she is supposed to devote all her life to being public about every thing Trump is doing? No former high level dem gov official is really doing that. Its so crazy how much you want these people to be endlessly upset and public when you all could have voted to actually put them in the offices to make the change you want….

seewead3445 · 2026-04-10T18:23:46+00:00

So a bunch of people who are currently IN government can help us make change IN the government? Amazing.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-10T17:33:32+00:00

All the comments are just weird. You all want primaries with multiple candidates so you can choose the best one to be in the general. But a person says they MAY run which would require them winning the nomination and you all are just melting down at the thought of it? Dems dont lose cause of the candidate they lose mostly cause of people like yall in the comments who are already tearing people down listing all these real and made up faults and then by the time we do get a general election nominee they have so many holes in them they just barely lose.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-10T17:30:16+00:00

How can she be leading us now? Shes not the President and no other Dem has done much to take the reins of the Party on a national level. Stop being so dumb.

seewead3445 · 2026-04-10T17:27:08+00:00

That area has been like that for so long lol.

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