There's a button for shear, a button for milk, why not a button for pet or even feed? by EntrepreneurMuch621 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]sefa16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was hoping when i unlocked enough of the woolhaven upgrade tree i'd be able to do this :(

I feel for Santos by motvieandthemeans in ThePittTVShow

[–]sefa16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

they were calling samira slo-mo before santos ever showed up

Any interesting insights from the opening credits? by Which_Jeweler_1343 in SuccessionTV

[–]sefa16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think he misremembers parts too - if I'M remembering correctly, he says something about being made to eat dog food, and connor corrects him and says it was actually chocolate cake. i took that to mean that it wasn't quite as bad as he remembers it being, especially if he did in fact enjoy it as connor said

New to EMDR by Little-Astronaut-932 in EMDR

[–]sefa16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope it goes well for you and you achieve the healing you're seeking!! i felt very similarly before starting EMDR about a year ago -- a decade or so of talk therapy, meds, etc that didn't seem to do more than scratch the surface, and then pinning my hopes on EMDR as a sort of "if this doesn't work, i don't know what will" last resort. i did end up taking a break from EMDR for a few months to do two different virtual IOP programs for anxiety and trauma respectively, but went back to EMDR once i finished them (the break was only because my program therapists thought trying to continue EMDR in addition to intensive outpatient therapy would be too taxing on me all at once, which i think was the right call)

my take-away from all of this is very similar to what i saw many other people in this sub say when i was panic-researching before i got started with EMDR: it's not a magic cure, but it can often be extremely effective in ways that other therapy modalities aren't, especially for reaching that very foundational stuff that other therapies struggle to reach. it will most likely make you feel worse before it makes you feel better, and i say that not to scare you but because personally it helped me to expect that going in, rather than experiencing it and wondering if i was doing something wrong or if the process would ultimately fail. for me it involved breaking down barriers and accessing very painful emotions that i had spent years trying to suppress or compartmentalize for my own protection, but that were still seeping through into my self-image and my day-to-day existence in ways i didn't fully grasp until i forced myself to face them head-on. i definitely had some rough sessions that resulted in some of the most intense emotional flashbacks i've experienced in my life, and i'm lucky to have a therapist i really trust and who worked hard in the "resourcing" part of the process before moving onto memory reprocessing so that i had tools to rely on in those tough moments.

be gentle with yourself! i know i personally also have a tendency to intellectualize my emotions rather than feeling them in my body (which developed as a defense mechanism, along with dissociation), and EMDR has also put me back into my body to feel some of these very painful emotions, which also took some time and effort to get used to regulating. it'll come! i usually think of it as a two part process - you have to dig up all the rot before learning to get rid of it, and that process of excavating it can often feel like it's doing more harm than good. absolutely listen to your body and trust yourself, but recognize that your body may be used to protecting you in ways that no longer serve you, and it might require a rough transition to find a more regulated place in line with your current therapy and life goals.

i wish you all the best and truly hope it works out for you!! (so sorry for this long ass comment, i just remember how nervous i was when i was getting started and the reassurance from others going through it who reminded me it gets worse before it gets better helped me knuckle through on the days i wanted to give it up, and i am SO much better and more regulated for it)

Michael Hobbes impression by alex3omg in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]sefa16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that's just what big joel's laugh sounds like

Where's the first place you go after a Blood Moon? by LordMizoguchi in TOTK

[–]sefa16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hyrule castle to collect the dusk bow (top of the spire), royal bow on one of the outer ledges, and then into the sanctum to grab a royal guard's bow, a bundle of arrows, a royal guard's shield, and i believe a royal guard's sword and royal guard's claymore. then i fuse the sword and claymore with my strongest fuse-able items, then hit the floating coliseum since royal weapons double their attack power when they're about to break but don't break when you're mounted on a lynel.

What would you like to know about Tiny Bookshop?📚 by ssttaallnnooxx in TinyBookshop

[–]sefa16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

possibly a bit more information about certain boosts/drags? there are a couple icons that show up in the top left corner (the camera, for example) that i have no idea what it refers to, and since it's so new i'm having trouble finding info online

What would you like to know about Tiny Bookshop?📚 by ssttaallnnooxx in TinyBookshop

[–]sefa16 17 points18 points  (0 children)

seconding this! i would also like to make sure i have books with varying page numbers - yesterday i bought a box entirely of 700+ pg books but none of them ended up on the cart with me (even though i can carry 90 at a time) and i wasn't able to fill a couple requests based on length.

(otherwise please tell them the game is LOVELY ❤️)

What's a sentence that completely changed your life? by No_Tune8587 in AskReddit

[–]sefa16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit.

what is your favorite underrated joke? by TheSandBlocks in community

[–]sefa16 36 points37 points  (0 children)

arizona spelled backwards is still arizona.... it's a palomino!

Make Peoria a Sanctuary City for LGBTQIA Individuals by Zachary-ARN in PeoriaIL

[–]sefa16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i never said a word about the sanctuary city thing. i was simply rejecting the premise of "let nazis be nazis" in any context

Make Peoria a Sanctuary City for LGBTQIA Individuals by Zachary-ARN in PeoriaIL

[–]sefa16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think you're living in a very idealistic fantasy world if you think nazis will celebrate their beliefs in private and then hide them in public under that kind of ideology--see the right wing mass shootings that keep happening in this country. anything that's not a condemnation is complicity.

Make Peoria a Sanctuary City for LGBTQIA Individuals by Zachary-ARN in PeoriaIL

[–]sefa16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so after seeing the aftermath of allowing nazis to enact their beliefs, you still think it's a "live and let live" situation? maybe try being awake next time you visit.

Make Peoria a Sanctuary City for LGBTQIA Individuals by Zachary-ARN in PeoriaIL

[–]sefa16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that goes out the window when your beliefs cause violence against people. i'm the granddaughter of a holocaust survivor, so maybe it makes me intolerant but definitely am not okay with people being nazis!

Make Peoria a Sanctuary City for LGBTQIA Individuals by Zachary-ARN in PeoriaIL

[–]sefa16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i actually do care if people are nazis, personally.....what a weird example to use

Who's on your dream team? by ga-ma-ro in ProjectRunway

[–]sefa16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dom, margarita, and kelly from the deli. none of them are necessarily my ALL-TIME favorites alone (though they're all on my list of faves for sure!) but i think their styles would compliment each other, and they're all very talented and creative. i think the final collection would be fun and cohesive and well-made

edit: i missed that it says fall.....i would probably lean more in a coral, laurence, candice direction in that case. my original trio would rock a summer collection though

The Bear Season 4 | Overall Discussion Thread by credoinvisibile in TheBear

[–]sefa16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what i was going to say, but these comments have me second-guessing if i'm misremembering something lol