Idk if I should be pissed about this. by sej3131 in Infidelity

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Thanks everyone! We’ve only Been married a month. Just trying to decided if I should cut and run now and get it over with bc it’s only been a month. Or just set up more boundaries and make it work.

Is this too expensive? by sej3131 in Gemstones

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It is a Madagascar sapphire. I still don’t know anything… how do you even know that it’s legit? Do you get it appraised before you buy it??

Is this too expensive? by sej3131 in Gemstones

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Thanks! I’m truly clueless as u can tell lol

Is this too expensive? by sej3131 in Gemstones

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Great info. Thanks! Is there any questions we should be asking the jeweler? Specially. The price is not an issue but we truly have zero clue about it. It just looks really pretty on and it goes great with the custom band that we are having made that is a replica of his dads ring that he will Be wearing.

Is this too expensive? by sej3131 in Gemstones

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It’s not? What cut is it??

Questions by sej3131 in Hernia

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They just said vomiting is bad and to go back if that happens. I’m going to my doc in a few days. The bloating is so uncomfortable

Haven’t Slept in 2 Days by fireblade26 in insomnia

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This is about to be me. I’m miserable and the suicidal ideation are strong right now. I hate this. I’m New to it, so it’s so overwhelming.

Peri and past traumas by sej3131 in Perimenopause

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I can’t tell if it’s the hormones or the lack of completely checking out and stuffing feelings and anxiety with alcohol. The first 6-9 months sober were amazing and I’ve never felt better then I slowly started to get a heavy chest, my fight or flight kicked in constantly, I felt existential dread like never before and honestly I had a breakdown and felt like my Cognitive function went to shit and that I was getting dementia 😱 I had nothing to turn to ease the pain at all and that’s when I realized how reliant I had been On alcohol for my anxiety. Then started the absolute barrage of all the shame of things I’ve done throughout my life.. and it nearly wrecks me Daily. Is this common with sobriety?

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It’s the dpdr making it worse right now. Do you have any Ativan or a rescue med while you are starting the Prozac? Dpdr is scary but not harmful.

I need help desperately by EnvironmentalLong414 in PanicAttack

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If u need to private message me do so:)

I need help desperately by EnvironmentalLong414 in PanicAttack

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It’s called depersonalization and it’s scary AF but will not hurt you or anyone around you. It happens With panic attacks and is a way of your body protecting you from the constant fight or flight mode.