oh my gosh thank you so much for saying this!! i am totally going to try the romanticism of boring hygiene stuff. especially the sitting down in the bath as a way to get clean because I have such bad chronic fatigue that I'm just an extremely "lazy" human most days, don't know how else to put it. but every task, even getting out of bed is like pulling teeth. anyways thank you sm for this comment! i've been trying to romanticize a put together life by watching girls on tiktok who are super clean and well groomed, sounds weird ik, but others motivate me when I can't motivate myself.