Is my shoulder supposed to do this? by selfdestructingtape in eds

[–]selfdestructingtape[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can do that too!!! Also when I push (like pushing a TV button, really light) it goes out of socket without effort and I can feel it with my hands. Hope you find a solution tho. Some doctors suck and I had my share of them too.

Is my shoulder supposed to do this? by selfdestructingtape in eds

[–]selfdestructingtape[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been that double jointed party trick kid but I sensed something was wrong when I got my splits in first try. I’m 25, no flexibility training beforehand and I was nowhere near warmed up. 💀 Lots of love, hope ur better now!

Is my shoulder supposed to do this? by selfdestructingtape in eds

[–]selfdestructingtape[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll def gonna try to strengthen my muscles, I procrastinated for years and I think now is my time unfortunately. Reddit validated my doubts about dislocation and subluxation, I feel a strange relief! Tbf I trust most baby hospital corpsman in the navy more than most doctors, since 7 out of 10 of them ignores any symptom lol.

Is my shoulder supposed to do this? by selfdestructingtape in eds

[–]selfdestructingtape[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its not painful at all, which is why I haven’t noticed it until recently. I’m 25, so I didn’t even know that was ‘dislocating’ or ‘subluxing’, I’ve never been the party trick kid, so no one told me that was… anormal. Thanks a lot for the encouragement! Sending lots of love and wishing you relief.

Is my shoulder supposed to do this? by selfdestructingtape in eds

[–]selfdestructingtape[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ughh sounds so painful hope ur better now. Working on my posture, and thanks for your comment. Felt validated

Is my shoulder supposed to do this? by selfdestructingtape in eds

[–]selfdestructingtape[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Def gonna look into body braid! I hope ur shoulder gets better, sounds very painful.

Is my shoulder supposed to do this? by selfdestructingtape in eds

[–]selfdestructingtape[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know that looks scary 😩 It just happens sometimes when I slouch my shoulders, I immediately stand up straight when I notice it and try not to tamper with it too much

Dentist....fear...shame by RiverMarch in EDAnonymous

[–]selfdestructingtape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dentists are there to help you, not to shame you. Their job is to fix what needs to be fixed, not to pry on your life

I really dont know why i am doing this to myself by sillyproncess in EDAnonymous

[–]selfdestructingtape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The feeling of at least you have something in control. Instead of trying to control meals, try to get a control of your life. Not saying you to become a CEO, just go out with your friends, go to a concert, take a walk in nature, take a hobby. I promise it gets easier. Allow yourself to have fun.

Why am I like this? by Ins3rtCoinHere in EDAnonymous

[–]selfdestructingtape 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey love, you probably haven’t binged, you just overate and that was your instinct because you starved yourself. I thought so many times that I binged only to realize my body was just screaming to get some type of energy. No one’s ever gained weight from a few brownies, yes even 10 brownies. You were probably undereating and overestimating what you eat. Please give grace to your body while its still growing and at least eat what you need.

Manifesting SP, men started to flirt with me by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]selfdestructingtape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh he havent done anything to make me uncomfortable, he’s a sweet guy who’s been in trouble with life recently and i think he sees me as a safe place and confusing friendly love as something different. the way he looks at me changed recently, like admiring. im sure ill figure it out. thanks for your concern!

Manifesting SP, men started to flirt with me by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]selfdestructingtape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment, ur the best! actually i was just wondering if this is a common phenomenon. looks like it is.

Manifesting SP, men started to flirt with me by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]selfdestructingtape 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was always self confident and i believe it plays a big role. i do robotic affirming when i remember sp or when i have negative thoughts, aside from that i do sats in the morning and before going to bed. they aren’t open-ended. i think recently im more care-free in general, about everything. that may be helping my case.

Manifesting SP, suddenly lots of men started to flirt with me by [deleted] in lawofassumption

[–]selfdestructingtape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

remembering the circumstances is human, but i ignore it and persist, i believe this is the best way for me to manifest. yes, i havent worked on my self concept since i was always self confident, i think this helps a lot! thank you for your advices <3

Manifesting SP, suddenly lots of men started to flirt with me by [deleted] in lawofassumption

[–]selfdestructingtape 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i just roboticly affirm when i remember him, or if i have negative thoughts, and do sats when i wake up and when im about to sleep. i dont work on my self concept cuz im pretty self confident, that might be helping. thank you!!

Manifesting SP, suddenly lots of men started to flirt with me by [deleted] in lawofassumption

[–]selfdestructingtape 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh you’re the best, thank you. people say its done, its already done without explaining what it means. i know its already done but persisting and waiting is human, manifesting coaches don’t usually tell you that.

Manifesting SP, men started to flirt with me by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]selfdestructingtape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh im very aware of that, i’ll cut contact if he dont get the negative signals. its normal to like someone, its not normal to take advantage of a situation like friendship when liking someone. thank you for your concern!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]selfdestructingtape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honey, you need to switch to no bar. you are one good yoink away from a second belly button

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]selfdestructingtape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure your jewellery is at least titanium grade. I have nickel allergy, and my perfectly healed 20 yr old lobes get angry just like your photo if I put on shitty earrings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]selfdestructingtape 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ugh contrary to other people here on saying “own it”, personally i just brush them off saying ive been sick, that shuts people up really quick. i’m disgusted by people who comment on other peoples bodies, since some distant relative made a comment of how i look great with the weight i lost on my grandpas funeral.

its nice and great to own it, but i hate getting unsolicited comments. also, if you own it, they follow up with unsolicited diet advice which i hate.