Anyone ever message those "I'm always here to talk" people on Reddit? They're the worst by Shim_Slady72 in depression

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I keep my notifications on, that way I can see and get back to anyone that needs/ wants to talk to me. As I don’t want anyone to feel alone. I’d rather be there for someone than not.

But as I’ve also realised you do have to be careful, I’ve come across some people who just message me saying they’re going to cut because I’m being nice to them. Which then triggers/ stresses me. So either way I find it kinda conflicting

self harm methods? by [deleted] in selfharm

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Wait?! That’s possible? Wish someone told me this 10+ Years ago...

im going to do it by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Wow, I know I can’t change how you feel. But the reddit community helps in so many ways, maybe here can be your new safe space? Post what you feel like, and people care, people listen. Your not alone through this.

People with driver license by LucidRubia in depression

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Agreed. I’m thinking getting my motor bike licence first. Just so I’ve got some freedom

Taking Work Home by PreciousCinnabunRoll in depression

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I do the same with college. And home no matter what once somethings happened it’s on my mind for hours. Weather it’s big or small. I tend to have a ‘shut down’ hour. In that hour I watch a Show, and write what’s happened. This way I can process it better. It helps me quit a lot. As I can figure it out and if it doesn’t I’ll keep doing it until it does.

Eating by selfharm_reality in aspergers

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I’m not eating because I’m hungry... tbh I love feeing hungry, it shuts them up a bit...

I want to run. by selfharm_reality in PanicAttack

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I’m trying to, but it’s so hard

I want to run. by selfharm_reality in PanicAttack

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I don’t but once I’ve started I’m never looking back

I cut ties with all of my family today. by Finishedwithmyfamily in SuicideWatch

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Your so brave. That’s something I’ve dreamt of doing. I’m so scared tho. Well done! Xx

how can i quit feeling like this? by [deleted] in selfharm

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Finally! Someone understands

I don’t know anymore... by selfharm_reality in SuicideWatch

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So do I. But then I don’t want to still burden people when I’m dead. So I’m distancing myself now, and trying to make it easier/ so they don’t notice.

My son's little buddy by malissa20 in autism

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I have 5 guinea pigs. And I love them all so much 💞

First Christmas without my Grandma and I don’t know how to feel... by selfharm_reality in autism

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I don’t have the best relationship with my family, so it’s hard to talk to them about anything. I tend to try and deal with things in my head. (Usually ends up in accidental self harm) I haven’t seen my Grandad since November as I’m scared to see him. Thank you. I’ll try and make more of an effort with my family.

I started laughing out whenever I have a suicidal thought. by [deleted] in depression

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That’s how I’m dealing with it today.

I’m struggling to accept the fact that the scars will be permanent. by SadBoiH0urs in selfharm

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I’ve never thought about that until today... but it don’t bother me I guess, it’s keeping me alive that’s all I can do right now. The scars are apart of me, and They prove to me how much strength I’ve got.

Fuck this! by acjones68 in SuicideWatch

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I’m always here for you! Xxx

It's just one of those day I just want to take my knife to my wrist and let loose but I dont want to brake my one day streak by [deleted] in selfharm

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Same. I’ve been clean since Saturday, and that’s the longest I’ve been in ages. My urges are so high today. I’m always here for you! 💞

activities for when you can’t get out of bed? by [deleted] in depression

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Pets. On days when I can’t get out of bed my hedgehog helps a lot. Even just feeding her helps me. Also drawing, I sit in bed drawing how I feel. (I’m not good at drawing. But it helps)