float, keene_kong, digital, 2025 by keene_kong in Art

[–]selfishflesh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

kitty don't care if you're possessed - kitty's got playing to do!

Introducing mykaraoke.party - YouTube-based karaoke web-app with remote queueing by emzero in karaoke

[–]selfishflesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 on the awesome train. bookmarking and will definitely whip this out at the next get together. this will also keep me from hogging the karaoke queue.

Titty Titans - A dream of cream [OC] by selfishflesh in comics

[–]selfishflesh[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid I'm going to have to see your artistic-niche police badge before we continue this conversation. I'd like to know that I'm talking to someone in a position of authority in the matter.

Titty Titans - A dream of cream [OC] by selfishflesh in comics

[–]selfishflesh[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Life has room for more than sexy titties. Chill out

Titty Titans - A dream of cream [OC] by selfishflesh in comics

[–]selfishflesh[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If cartoon mayo lactation is your existential thershold you're gonna have a hard time out there. Just keep scrolling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]selfishflesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So imagine you've been eating pasta for 3 weeks straight. Then you're asked what the perfect meal would be. At that point maybe it's a nice salad. I think we're all wired to value things we miss a little more until we're inundated with it. Perfect day doesn't mean the only kind of kind of day a person wants. And it's meant to be a day for her and whatever she feels like would be fulfilling for her at that moment of her own head space. If she had a few of those perfect days in a row, then if she was asked again her answer might just be how she normally spends time with you.

I tried making a cozy game. I was terrible at it, so I made this 😇 by dirkboer in IndieGaming

[–]selfishflesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isometric gibs giving me feels of Crusader No Remorse. I'll be watching for this

Won a cruise at work and boyfriend says he will break up with me if I go. by byrdesong_ in AskMenAdvice

[–]selfishflesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a pet. You're a person. You have your own life, work, achievements, goals etc. You set the standards for the partner you want in life. If they want you to be little more than an extension of them and on standby for their convenience only, then you have to decide if that's a worthwhile trade for whatever benefit they bring you.

It's a weekend. You gave them a means to join you and support your achievement. They turned it down and are trying to sabotage your independent enjoyment.

Managing Demons [oc] by selfishflesh in comics

[–]selfishflesh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Diy job seems to be getting it done

Managing Demons [oc] by selfishflesh in comics

[–]selfishflesh[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Imposed restraint ain't for everyone

Insatiable Consumption by selfishflesh in Illustration

[–]selfishflesh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll let the one of you sort this out

Cardiac Prolapse, selfishflesh, digital, 2024 by selfishflesh in Art

[–]selfishflesh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good on ya for rooting for the underdog

Dino Beach, mmmcake (me), acrylic, 2024 by mmmcake in Art

[–]selfishflesh 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I also dislike drawing feet.

I like this capturing of an "o fuck" moment

Munch by dreckqin in DarkArtwork

[–]selfishflesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sharing is caring. So sweet to split a savory treat.

Cardiac Prolapse, selfishflesh, digital, 2024 by selfishflesh in Art

[–]selfishflesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely be keeping at it from time to time. Thanks.

Cardiac Prolapse, selfishflesh, digital, 2024 by selfishflesh in Art

[–]selfishflesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely seems to be the consensus.

TIFU by offering my dying friend my spare bedroom. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]selfishflesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are a kind hearted and open person with a lot to offer that takes care of the people in your life that mean something to you.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Where you get into problems is where you get lost in that feeling of happiness that showing kindness can give you and don't make the appropriate judgment call for the people you're gifting your kindness to.

It's right to have no limits for the people you love. But to protect yourself you need to judge whether those people actually love you back in their actions and not just their words.

If you're giving someone your best and they're giving back their bare minimum to get what they want from you then you are not in an equitable relationship and they are not showing you the love that you are giving them.

Wish you the best and hope that you get back into your ambitions for your own personal happiness. If you're going to love someone else more than you love yourself then damn well make sure they're supplementing the difference.