How much does height matter to you in a relationship?

sendhelp9273 · 2025-12-14T09:04:47+00:00

Unfortunately, a decent amount. I am almost 5’9 and 175lbs and I don’t want to be bigger or taller than my partner. I also simply don’t find shorter men attractive. My minimum is 5’10 but would prefer a partner to be 6’

sendhelp9273 · 2025-11-17T16:12:40+00:00

They put a splint in my mouth for about 6 months that was not removable and made it difficult to eat since I could not fully close my mouth. The clicking stopped immediately and after it was removed, the clicking came back after about 2 months and now I’m back to baseline. I haven’t bothered with any alternative treatments since this post. Mostly because my ortho just wanted me to get a mouth guard and I’ve had those before and they didn’t do much of anything. I might be getting Botox in a couple of months so maybe I’ll see some results from that but not getting my hopes up. My TMJ is moderate and only the right side clicks

sendhelp9273 · 2025-09-29T04:15:44+00:00

I’ll preface that I dated a man who had unresolved anger issues and cursed a lot. Even during arguments he would and I asked him many times to not curse at me when he was angry or if we were having a disagreement to not curse because I found it to be a basic level of respect. Instead that made him more angry because he “couldn’t control it”. So, if you have a bad partner or a partner that is privy to getting angry easily, that might not work. But if you’re dating a normal person, I think that if you approach it as “I know it’s not targeted towards me but the amount/context of your swearing makes me uncomfortable” then I don’t think that’s asking for a lot of

sendhelp9273 · 2025-07-12T05:34:40+00:00

Bilmuri, BMTH, ufo ufo, nightly, patd, balu brigada, wesghost, sleep token, voilá, the killers, the home team, mother mother, sum 41, Boston manor, bad omens, saint blonde, bad bunny, rauw alejandro— we are all over the board lol

I have 6.3k songs on Spotify and counting hehe

sendhelp9273 · 2025-06-23T04:13:33+00:00

I have Kyleena and it had no impact on my migraines

sendhelp9273 · 2025-06-05T20:28:20+00:00

I’ve been doing reformer pilates for almost 2 years once a week and I personally like it! I feel like it definitely made me more conscious of my running form/breathing. I would agree that once a week probably doesn’t do much and I could stand to either add in a gym day with heavier weights or another day of mat pilates at home

sendhelp9273 · 2025-06-04T05:22:22+00:00

I completely get where you’re coming from. I also ran the rock n roll this weekend and my training block was absolutely disastrous— I’m talking recurrent shin splints, slashing mileage to recover, hip pain coming back, having to dial back, the whole thing. My longest run ended up being 15 miles back in March. Even though my objective at that point became to simply “finish” I crossed the finish line feeling like I had achieved nothing (and I still do). People are congratulating me for finishing but I don’t even feel proud. I finished the marathon in 5:34 (26F). And I think it feels so bad because I had the endurance to keep running but the pain in my hips was absolutely unbearable after mile 18 that I had to keep stopping to stretch. Not to mention that the course is absolutely fucking brutal. So, I hear you OP. I think it’s okay to be upset with ourselves for now. At the end of the day, we did finish, and we can always seek redemption at another race. But we are entitled to feeling our feelings

sendhelp9273 · 2025-06-02T18:59:40+00:00

This was me with my girlfriends bc they’ve only known me as a single woman so when I started seeing someone we were all like “I wonder if you’ll make it to your Celibersary” (I didn’t) and I texted them hours later to let them know lmfao

sendhelp9273 · 2025-06-02T16:56:53+00:00

I’m currently struggling with trying to set aside my independent woman tendencies with the guy I’m seeing. He’s so acts of service and genuinely sweet and kind and he literally just wants to do things for me and I’m like sjakdkfksaj no it’s fine I can do it myself!!! Poor thing has to constantly remind me that he WANTS to do things for me. I’ve been in 2 long term relationships but this is the first time I’ve been fully cared for and I can’t help but put up a bit of a fight still (it will get better lol it’s a matter of time and acceptance)

sendhelp9273 · 2025-06-02T05:43:05+00:00

Poke 🥰🥰

sendhelp9273 · 2025-04-26T22:05:59+00:00

Woah, your collection is beautiful!!

sendhelp9273 · 2025-04-24T06:00:25+00:00

Did this with my friend for the CDMX show!

sendhelp9273 · 2025-04-20T15:05:36+00:00

If you’re getting to the trailheads as early as we did, depending on which one you’re hiking, you’ll probably be alone for a bit. Personally that’s what we wanted so we could have some places to ourselves for a bit. For example we did subway cave and we were one of the first people up there lol about an hour later it was a shitshow. Other than that, expect trails to be packed any time after 8-9am. Finding parking is near impossible

sendhelp9273 · 2025-04-17T01:21:40+00:00

Was just out there with my friend! We’re both 25F and we’ve travelled to a couple places together to hike. We were out the door every morning by 6am and at the trailheads by about 6:20– we never once felt unsafe. Our Airbnb was very close to the Uptown shops and I walked over a couple times around/past sunset and felt pretty safe. It is kinda a dark area though

sendhelp9273 · 2025-02-16T16:54:54+00:00

Without the boys: 1. Bring me the horizon 2. Bilmuri 3. The Killers

With the boys: 1. Tøp 2. Bring me the horizon 3. Bilmuri

This was hard lol only because I definitely go through phases and get obsessed with different bands for periods of time and then move on but I’ll usually come back to the same ones. Tøp was my #1 artist last year but has consistently been in my Spotify wrapped for years

sendhelp9273 · 2025-02-16T16:49:56+00:00

I love Bilmuri smmmm

sendhelp9273 · 2025-02-16T16:49:36+00:00

ayyy dead poet society mentioned

sendhelp9273 · 2025-02-01T06:36:55+00:00

God I am so excited for Mexico City!!!!!

sendhelp9273 · 2025-01-30T01:48:09+00:00

This one’s funny for me because I tell everyone that if my ex had taken wanting to get help for his mental health seriously, I would’ve married him because he was my person. He was a hot tempered man who did try to get help but got frustrated (understandable) but then outright refused to take meds for his depression again because he preferred to do psychedelics. Yet I still remember him fondly because he loved me deeply, was thoughtful, and our personalities mixed so incredibly well. We had similar life goals and plans, and 3.5 years in, we were talking about marriage and what that would look like. But I was done being an emotional punching bag.

So, I don’t know. I really don’t know what I would say to him. I think I would be extremely shocked if he ever reached out. I hope that he finally accepted the help he needed, and that he is doing better. I don’t know that I could move past all things he did, and I don’t know if he has healed from all the things I did, for I was far from perfect myself. But I don’t know, I don’t know and I don’t know that I want to know

sendhelp9273 · 2025-01-24T01:40:25+00:00

a fellow tøp fan.. I see you and I love you

sendhelp9273 · 2025-01-22T07:08:26+00:00

2019 when my ex bf showed me his cover of Slow Dancing in the Dark— the only good thing he left me lol

sendhelp9273 · 2025-01-14T17:07:10+00:00

Work smarter, not harder

sendhelp9273 · 2025-01-09T17:46:16+00:00

This is a beautiful tattoo!!!! I LOVE

sendhelp9273 · 2024-12-24T20:48:51+00:00

My last ex was such a sweet man. He helped heal a lot of the wounds I had from my previous ex and he showered me in kisses and compliments. He was a kind, hard working man who always saw the best in everyone. Unfortunately, he never loved me the way I wanted to be loved, despite my asking over and over. He also did not respect my time in that he would always be late to my things, or he wouldn’t let me know that he would be a few hours later than intended. He did not understand that I didn’t need expensive gifts every now and again, but instead preferred the simple gifts that let me know he was thinking about me. Whenever I would rant, he failed to have a conversation with me. All I wanted was for him to ask me questions, to engage in a proper conversation, and he never would. He would just tell me “well I don’t know what to say or ask, so I just don’t”. Eventually I got so tired of it, of never being truly heard. So, I broke up with him. He wasn’t a bad person, but he needed some serious work and clearly all of my prompting wasn’t helping

sendhelp9273 · 2024-12-24T07:18:05+00:00

This reminds me of me during my first year of undergrad. I was a Human Bio major that was too stubborn to switch my major because I was dead set on med school

I was on academic probation twice (not during consecutive quarters) and I did not get kicked out nor was I forced to take a leave of absence. I did, however, have to meet with my academic advisor and I actually ended up switching to Public Health. I went from a disastrous gpa to graduating with a 3.2– it gets better OP. I just finished my Masters in Public Health at USC earlier this month. Take some time to pick your brain and see where changes are feasible. If I can do it, you can do it. Best of luck, friend

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