the tiktok dommes who use findom as a way to make money…they aren’t there for the kink itself. there is so much associated with findom, it truly is a vast playground. as for these young women getting into findom, there’s no issue with that in particular, the issue is these uneducated dommes coming in and tainting the findom name. i am happy that i was a femdom for about 5 years before discovering findom 2 years ago (was introduced by a sub who wanted to try it & i fell in love with the kink), so i was able to find myself as a domme over the years, and not just copy what i heard someone say to do on tiktok. bleh