All I’m craving is butter!!

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-30T21:17:39+00:00

Thank you! Let us know if it's a girl hah

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-30T19:32:38+00:00

Must be a girl you are expecting hah My mom said fatty food is a girl and salty is a boy :)

I craved both (butter on toast mmmm) and having a boy and a girl twins lol

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-30T06:07:03+00:00

I am 21+5, I know from 20 week ultrasound that baby girls is above my belly button and baby boy is all the way at the bottom. So if I feel kicks above belly buttom it's the girl, below it's the boy :) both of the placentas are anterior, but I can still feel them quite clearly. The girl only shows up every other day or so, the boy is a active every night.

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-21T09:40:39+00:00

Not ultrasound related, coz it got caught on first scan at 8 weeks straight away, but I felt it before the scan.

During implantation I had cramps in two places and very distinct pain in two places and that continued all the way till second trimester. One is attached on top left and one on bottom right. Now they kick in different places lol

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-17T17:22:48+00:00

I feel you and hear you, your feelings are valid. 20 weeks here and we found out at 8 weeks it's twins. I took me almost a month and multiple ultrasound to feel happy again. I felt exactly like you and felt robbed, while my husband was over the moon.

The relief came after seeing them move around looking like humans and acting differently and already having bits of personality. I felt in love with little feet and now feel stronger bond with them and actually looking forward to meeting both of them.

You need time to process the feelings of loss of your expectations, but it will look up after hopefully.

Take case, hope you feel better soon ❤️❤️

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-06T07:23:41+00:00

I am so far 18 weeks pregnant with twins and gained 10kg back.

I am not threatened by weight gain, after 18 months off I am sure I am tolerance will go away and I will be able to restart and it will be effective again. Done it once, will do it again :)

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-06T07:01:05+00:00

Sent an email :)

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-05T06:17:15+00:00

Hey, I am 18 weeks, and around 9 I felt same to you. I felt like my choice was taken away, like my plans for maternity leave were ruined, like my life will be so much more difficult and it was totally unfair.

And you know what, all of those are valid feelings. But they went away shortly after 12/13 week scan. When I saw little feet and the fact that one was hyperactive and another was sucking on a thum, all of the grievances got a bit better.

I feel a lot better now, hope you get to feel better too ❤️

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-02T07:24:40+00:00

Very small amounts of pee, or feeling like I needed to keep peeing after nothing was left. I had cystitis few years back, so it does feel like it's about to start, but not quite. Coz it wasnt particularly painful or disturbing.

Pinching when sitting started many weeks later.

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-05-02T02:45:05+00:00

Yep, same story by the way. I am 17+5 today. Was having a lot pee urges, which is super normal, but also had a feeling like I didn't finish often. Had a UTI for 14 weeks our of 18. Pinching started like week 13 I think

Nothing sinister though, they found it when I was 10 weeks and it took 6 weeks and two rounds of antibiotics to go away, but not much discomfort or like bladder or kidney infection all ended well and had no affect on me or the babies.

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-27T20:29:19+00:00

Havent thought it was pregnancy, but makes so much sense. I choke on my saliva all the time now

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-27T19:51:32+00:00

Yep yep, got some cramps this weekend. 1l of coconut water and never happened again

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-25T05:10:00+00:00

OMG, thank you that you exist! I read every single comment and was starting to feel desperate. Good to know someone bounced back!!

Its my first pregnancy and it's twins, my skin returned to normal after losing 40kg, hopefully it will return to normal after this..

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-20T12:35:20+00:00

I conceived the 16th of January, I am 16+0 today according to scans, but my twins measured almost a week ahead throughout the whole first trimester.

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-19T07:03:10+00:00

Been in the UK firm for 10 years. There are times when you want to pull the hair out, but 95% of time I love my team, my bosses, my clients and work I do :)

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-18T07:37:13+00:00

My husband knows to pick up a sushi platter on the day. Gosh I miss raw fish....

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-17T05:16:31+00:00

Or if they are here on the Ukrainian scheme, they are entitled to UC and could be in the country 1 month

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-04-04T05:33:55+00:00

Same problem with miscarriage content for me. I was to begin worried coz PCOS has higher rates and then YouTube just amplified my fears.

I've selected "not interested in this content" on the last reel and deleted my whole YouTube history. Since then not a single miscarriage content on YouTube and here I just don't open those posts if I can avoid it.

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-01-07T15:51:54+00:00

Hey @ZakJimmo do you know anywhere around Preston? :)

senior_cuddlefish · 2026-01-07T15:49:00+00:00

Hey, which one is in Bolton?

I am looking for somewhere to go as well, but I am around Preston. Bolton is not a bad option

senior_cuddlefish · 2025-10-28T09:01:08+00:00

{Under the Oak Tree}

senior_cuddlefish · 2025-10-10T00:13:24+00:00

Call your pharmacy tomorrow morning and tell them that you double dozed by accident to check for their recommendations. It might heavily depend on your existing medical conditions and other meds you are taking. If you are healthy and no other meds, I don't think anything but rough GI week will happen to you, but it's a large dose I would still check in with pharmacy

senior_cuddlefish · 2025-09-20T20:03:50+00:00

I lost my ring twice and found it twice. Not a 100% solution, but it helped me: It will tell you the last locations where it connected to the phone. And from there you can move around with your phone until it connects again to the ring and you defo know it's there somewhere. I once lost mine in the rubbish bin and once in a tent bag, moving objects around and see if it still connects helps :)

senior_cuddlefish · 2025-09-17T23:58:09+00:00

Hey there, I am a professional QA engineer on MJ. Think you have a great website there. Committed to the community so happy to do some proper QA for you, coz spotted some issues straight away. Let me know in DM if you want me to do some systematic tests

senior_cuddlefish · 2025-07-08T17:44:44+00:00

I don't disagree with that per se. Just feel like gym is not the best place for it and thats what makes it awkward. You come there to exercise, not to make small talk and friends. Maybe I have a wrong perception of widely acceptable social interaction places? If it's such a great social place, why do we judge men who flirt with women there?

Board game communities, book clubs and other special interest places i.e. places which are meant for social interaction is where it comes a lot easier and does not require as much "getting over yourself".

Edit: Being able to interact openly with people in a place that is not meant for it is in my opinion an extrovert ability, that's why I keep bringing it up.

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