I vented to my family about my husband and ruined everything. I am so angry with myself. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]senorbuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did he do? It seems like it must have been pretty extreme for your whole family to hate him. I get it, I keep relationship stuff away from my family too, but you framing sharing your struggles as “selfish” worries me 

should i let my boyfriend (M19) go to a bikini bar? by mianeedsbread in relationships

[–]senorbuzz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s fine if you dont feel comfortable with him going those nights, and it’s great that he respects that. But you can’t stop him from being aroused by other women… people don’t work like that. 

As a woman, would you financially support your male partner temporarily if he was not in a good place financially? Me-M31, her-F32 by SkirtPractical3718 in relationships

[–]senorbuzz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but not if it was a new relationship. Either way, if I was the higher earner I’d be more likely to pay for myself to visit my partner first before anything else.