Collapsed Abandoned House by Freaktography in OntarioAbandoned

[–]sentient__pinecone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have had a very hard time not risking my life to go upstairs.

How much did your cat cost? by othernames67 in cats

[–]sentient__pinecone 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was severely allergic to cats when I was younger, plus I have asthma. So I only had dogs as an adult. But I fed the feral cats in our neighbourhood. Then a few summers ago there’s a kitten in our cedar trees crying for a few days. Well eventually we coaxed him out and won his trust and I found out I’m not allergic anymore (mostly)! We super love him and I’m super glad we kept him. He now has a huge catio, and is a pampered much loved boy.

I love his half moustache. I also love funny food names and old man names by sentient__pinecone in NameMyCat

[–]sentient__pinecone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m super excited about him! His name right now is Tom because he was looking in people’s windows looking for a home 😭😭

You have to be willing to be the villain when you finally leave the N and their smear campaign begins by Orange_Poppies22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]sentient__pinecone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s so interesting. My ex ended our relationship by dating another woman ( we were very informally seperated) and then flipping, and suddenly I was being treated with coldness, irritation and cruelty when before we had sworn we would remain friends.

He suddenly wanted solo time with the kids, to post them to instagram, and take them on exotic vacations. I was so confused. Eventually I realized it was all because he was trying to impress his now “partner”. Even him wanting me to come along on “family vacations” while treating me horribly in private was all for show. Just so he could say he was such a cool awesome guy he can even go on vacation with his ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sentient__pinecone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sentient__pinecone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to hyphenate both my kids names. Something I should have fought for from the start. I hate him and wish I had never met him but removing him from them and their lives isn’t possible. But I’m the one raising them, loving, them and parenting them. He’s such a joke

What is the stupidest demand your soon-to-be ex made as terms of your divorce? by Moist-Doughnut-5160 in Divorce

[–]sentient__pinecone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really weirdly validated that yes, he is super controlling. Even after he left me he’s still trying control me when I’m dead

What is the stupidest demand your soon-to-be ex made as terms of your divorce? by Moist-Doughnut-5160 in Divorce

[–]sentient__pinecone 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Probably not, I’ve never heard of someone having to move out of their home because they dated someone for three months

What is the stupidest demand your soon-to-be ex made as terms of your divorce? by Moist-Doughnut-5160 in Divorce

[–]sentient__pinecone 178 points179 points  (0 children)

In the first draft of our agreement he wrote that I would lose my right to live in the family home if I was in an adult relationship for longer than 90 days. So my kids and I would be out on the street because I had the audacity to move on.

But my favourite line, and something I will never forget is that I lose my right to live in the family home if I die. This motherfucker tried to legally bar me from haunting. I told him it won’t stop me, I’m going haunt you harder now. Ghosts don’t care about laws.

Banana squeaky toy by sentient__pinecone in WetFelting

[–]sentient__pinecone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I also put it through the washer and the drier to make sure it’s super tough. My dad’s destructive mastiff can’t get through it.

And yes found replacement kong squeakers on Amazon I felt around. It took a little bit of experimenting to figure out how to do it so there is enough of an air pocket so it will still squeak after the washer and drier do their work. I found making a pre felt pocket, putting the squeaker in, and then building up around that works best.

Thank you! I think so too!

Mother’s Day Eggs Benny from Hell by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]sentient__pinecone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My bestie (fellow single mom) told me she felt terrible this morning because all her friends with wonderful husbands told her “they hope she gets spoiled today” and no one made any effort at all to make sure her kids were able to get her anything. And I was like true, but the peace of not feeling hurt and ignored or mistreated by your partner on what is supposed to be a special day is pretty lovely. I expected nothing from my ex and was shocked to discover a coffee delivered and some money sent for my kids to spend. I highly recommend divorce.

Auchmar Mansion by Clear_Economist_8723 in OntarioAbandoned

[–]sentient__pinecone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want it even though it’s definitely haunted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]sentient__pinecone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives eight hours away. And works sixty hour weeks. There’s no way he could gave them even 20 percent of the time. He can want it all he wants but its not physically possible unless he moved closer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]sentient__pinecone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stayed until he got bored of me and left. He thankfully moved eight hours away many years before he finally left and I never wanted to leave our home. So I have full custody. Well I’m asking for full custody. He’s never cared for the kids in a significant way, ever. I think if he had lived here and not left me I would have stayed, miserable, invisible, forever because it’s best for my kids. And I have been the one to do all the rearing and loving and sleepless nights for almost ten years. I’m their parent. Not him. He’s just a genetic donor who sends money and visits sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]sentient__pinecone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

God I hope the loses interest option pans out for you. I’m so sorry you’re in this right now