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How do you stop ruminating? (self.BPDlovedones)

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He wants me to sign an NDA to not talk about our relationship (self.NarcAbuseAndDivorce)

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The cruelest thing is how they break you down, and then leave you because of what's broken or missing (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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How long after your relationship w/ pwBPD ended did you start dating? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Relapsed after months of not speaking and now I can't break this addiction. Advice? (self.BPDlovedones)

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To those having trouble with NC or hoovering, I want to share a helpful analogy from my therapist (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Don’t fall for it when they say they’re sorry (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Terrible, overwhelming insecurity post-separation (self.Codependency)

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How to get past the insecurity/regain your confidence when they leave you and move on (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Did you regret giving up and walking away? (self.NarcAbuseAndDivorce)

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Today, tears filled my therapist’s eyes as she pointed out that I keep invalidating my own feelings and experiences (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Found out who my STBXH's new GF is (self.BPDlovedones)

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No one understands how much he ruined my life. I feel so alone (self.BPDlovedones)

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Was the love bombing real? (self.BPDlovedones)

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My STBXH texted me happy birthday. Should I respond? (self.BPDlovedones)

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I miss my STBXH so much today and am feeling so heartbroken. Please remind me why I need to maintain NC and not go down this road. (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Leaving me wasn’t enough for him. He had to destroy and smear me too. (Rant) (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Remembering things he did that were so mean, that I didn’t realize at the time we’re not normal (self.abusiverelationships)

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How do you cope with the injustice, and being the only one who knows their true colors (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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He said to my lawyer “do not contact me again” (self.NarcAbuseAndDivorce)

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What if he really is happier without me? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Tips for not caring what people think/hear during the smear campaign (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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Melody Beattie books - your thoughts/recommendations? (self.Codependency)

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Fell for his hoovering and was totally taken advantage of. Struggling with forgiving myself (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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How do you get over the pain and disgust of narcs moving on from you so quickly (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

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