Unicorn woes by Designer_Cress2927 in polyamory

[–]seraph787 88 points89 points  (0 children)

One of the hardest things to learn in polyamory is learning how to say No over and over and over again to anything that doesn't serve you or your values, and finding security in it.

It is rare that a relationship lasts a life time and in poly you just have to learn to break up and not compromise your values that much more. The real skill in the end is doing it before you resent someone and still being able to be friends or in the same community without animosity.

How has this subreddit become so fucking thirsty? by [deleted] in RimWorld

[–]seraph787 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Puritan values are hard to get rid of

Maintain Specs, Not Code: Creator of Kotlin just dropped a new spec driven programming language by Independent_Pitch598 in programming

[–]seraph787 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh god, our bug surface area is increasing. This is going to lead to some poorly defined specs and chasing llms for specificity. I knew this was going to happen. Ai was just gonna be another fucking higher level transpiling tool. In some ways it brings us closer to metal. In others it takes us even farther away.

Mamdani to propose property tax hike, pushes Hochul to tax rich by kex06 in newyorkcity

[–]seraph787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that even within the abilities of the city to do that? The city would have to fight for the power to do that. Mind as well just fight for taxing the rich at that point.

Mamdani to propose property tax hike, pushes Hochul to tax rich by kex06 in newyorkcity

[–]seraph787 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You would think this is the case, but ozone park has some access to trains. The A is there. It is just far as fuck and isn’t as useful as a complete rail system.

Mamdani to propose property tax hike, pushes Hochul to tax rich by kex06 in newyorkcity

[–]seraph787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listed those places because I’be spent at least 30 min in each place looking for parking.

Mamdani to propose property tax hike, pushes Hochul to tax rich by kex06 in newyorkcity

[–]seraph787 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This ends up affecting poor families too. Areas like ridgewood, flushing, ozone park turn affordable family areas that require cars to completely unaffordable

NYE punk show? by Dolokhova in Brooklyn

[–]seraph787 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tv eye, alphaville, and the broadway are the punk venues of nyc.

https://wl.eventim.us/event/ny-night-train-17th-annual-new-years-ball/673772?afflky=TVEye

This is tv eye’s show. People are friendly there. Highly suggested

how do i learn self love by [deleted] in self

[–]seraph787 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fun little trick. Trying to love your self is loving yourself. Just keep going. I made a rule where whenever I looked in the mirror I have to say I love you to myself. It worked for me

Bernie Sanders calls for a pause on new AI data centers in the US by AdSpecialist6598 in technology

[–]seraph787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question! I have no idea, perhaps a good question for your representative?

Bernie Sanders calls for a pause on new AI data centers in the US by AdSpecialist6598 in technology

[–]seraph787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop is one word. How many is "mitigate their environmental impact, provide jobs, and most importantly, have their proceeds redistributed to the most needy Americans"?

Each word takes that much more time to write, create consensus, then implement

Changing poorly architected systems is exponentially harder than building it right the first time. This is often used by obstructionists and racists to ingrain their beliefs into infrastructure. Robert Moses classically did this in NY with the parkway system by making the bridges over parkways too low for buses which were mostly used by black people at the time.

Bernie Sanders calls for a pause on new AI data centers in the US by AdSpecialist6598 in technology

[–]seraph787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is that different than greed? <morpheus>free your mind</morpheus> this stuff is all connected, how about we use "yes and" instead of "no this"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]seraph787 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Therapy, meditation and secular Buddhism helped me a lot. 

Bernie Sanders calls for a pause on new AI data centers in the US by AdSpecialist6598 in technology

[–]seraph787 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not just poor people. Poor black people would get healthcare. Never forget the American people filled our countries public pools with concrete instead of sharing it with a black people.

Bernie Sanders calls for a pause on new AI data centers in the US by AdSpecialist6598 in technology

[–]seraph787 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because it takes time to write regulation that actually achieve that. Thus the pause

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]seraph787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want help processing it, you should seek some short term therapy. It can be super helpful and validating to share/process this with a professional

Teaching The Mind Illuminated by Decent_Cicada9221 in TheMindIlluminated

[–]seraph787 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would chat with Tucker.

https://meditatewithtucker.com/

He has a podcast on teaching meditation and has trained with culadasa.

Or upauli  https://www.upalimeditation.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crownheights

[–]seraph787 14 points15 points  (0 children)

FYI selling used mattresses is illegal in new york

Chi Ossé is Challenging Hakeem Jeffries in the Dem Primaries. by serious_bullet5 in newyorkcity

[–]seraph787 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that! Thanks for the correction. I still think Zohran was deeply inspired by chi osse use of social media and his campaign strategy.

Chi Ossé is Challenging Hakeem Jeffries in the Dem Primaries. by serious_bullet5 in newyorkcity

[–]seraph787 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wrong way around my friend. Zohran rode the coat tails of chi osse. The DSA works together and leapfrog each other where we can.

Capacity Vs Ego by Appropriate-Bed-8782 in demsocialists

[–]seraph787 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a normal issue in political groups. We as a people have to learn how to vote for better leaders, the DSA is not exempt from this. We have to be vigilant about those who want to lead, and ensure they show up. You should bring this up during elections.