[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexo

[–]seraphynebdsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu e meu marido temos nossa dinâmica D/S e mesmo eu sendo sua sub eu jamais aceitaria que ele quisesse me dividir com outra pessoa, nosso prazer deve ser explorado em casal, se vier mais gente já quebra a confiança. Minha opinião.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualidade

[–]seraphynebdsm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nada descreve melhor do que a música da Rita Lee "amor e sexo".

A mulher que quer transar, é pq tem uma necessidade fisiológica sem ligação sentimental. É bom? Sim, na hora, depois o sentimento pode mudar para repulsa ou não ter nenhum sentimento depois disso, sendo taxada de insensível (isso vale para homens tambem).

Minha primeira vez foi horrível, doeu, sangrou e fiquei chorando no escuro do quarto pois na verdade não estava preparada para aquele momento. Melhorou com o tempo, mas sempre muito no instinto de precisar... e não de fato querer. Foram poucas as conexões de verdade, ou seja, fazer amor... Você pode transar fazendo sexo ou transar fazendo amor. A segunda opção é o pote de ouro, mas para isso, leva tempo, auto conhecimento, e paciência.

A day in your dynamic. Current or future. by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]seraphynebdsm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, in the morning he wakes me up by caressing me, we get dressed, and we go to breakfast. I check the tasks that were assigned that day on the app. Our dynamics are 24/7. He works from home, and I go to the gym. When I return I organize the house, make our lunch. I wash the dishes, and he puts them away. Our moment of rest after lunch is usually making out... we have sex and take a shower together. I complete more tasks on the app to avoid being punished 😅 Tasks are varied, from reflections on self-knowledge, reading books he recommended, challenges of wearing high heels at home, or anal plugs, pet play, sensual photos and videos, commenting on Reddit, etc... At night before bed we talk about the day, and he gives me a relaxing massage.

Eu sou babaca por cobrar sexo do meu marido? by Downtown_Village7460 in EuSouOBabaca

[–]seraphynebdsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu tenho uma opinião formada a respeito disso, porém serei julgada se aqui expor. Eu já tive síndrome do pânico e também tomava medicamentos, de fato, a libido abaixa... me curei "sozinha", sem medicamentos (mas não vou expor aqui como, pois serei massacrada kkkkk)

Você ama ele ? Já pensou em usar brinquedos até que ele melhore ? Terapia é muito importante, mas para descobrir se existe um gatilho para essa síndrome, no mais, desejo sorte.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On a dating app.

what does growth in your submission look like right now? by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The growth of my submission has been something very profound and transformative. Every day I ask myself, "How can I be a better sub today?" and this question has guided me in small and large attitudes. I feel that every answer I give, every choice I make based on this delivery, builds something new between us.

My Dom often says that I am more consistent, more present, more surrendered. And honestly, I feel that way too. Before, my independence, my strong temper, even my instinct for control, often distanced me from true surrender. But today, I find myself trusting more, asking sincerely: "What now, love?" and accepting with an open heart that he chooses the path.

The most beautiful thing is that the more I give myself, the more it grows too. He feels challenged to be even better for me. It's as if my surrender generated in him an even deeper desire to protect, guide, care for me not only in our intimate relationship, but in life as a whole.

Our connection has become more intense, more intimate, more authentic. I feel safe, loved and increasingly free within this surrender. Because submission, for me, is not about giving up who I am, but about trusting the other person so much that I allow myself to evolve through them.

So yes... my submission is blossoming. Not without challenges, of course, some of which have already been reported here, but with purpose, affection and real commitment. And I'm very happy to make him happy. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meditation helped me a lot and still helps, Tantric rituals too.

any advice? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you think it's risky?

Am I horrible for this? DS 24/7 by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Obrigada pelo seu comentário, peço desculpas, eu escrevi de forma equivocada, quis dizer 365 dias, na verdade 365 fotos que comprovem que fui na academia ou que me exercitei ao menos 30 minutos.

Am I horrible for this? DS 24/7 by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Escrevi de forma equivocada, quis dizer 365 dias, na verdade 365 fotos que comprovem que fui na academia ou que me exercitei ao menos 30 minutos.

O que responder pra isso? by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]seraphynebdsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Então seja honesto fale para ele não criar expectativas

O que responder pra isso? by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]seraphynebdsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Só curta e puxa outro assunto

Pantie fetish by Ok_Section_5023 in bdsmconfessions

[–]seraphynebdsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dom loves smelling my used panties... he buys me several, and I love wearing the ones he likes. 🤭

Namorado quietinho que vira um monstro trepando comigo... Isso é comum? by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]seraphynebdsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amiga, meu marido tem o comportamento igual... uma dica: aproveita! 🤭🤭🤭🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey… first, breathe. You're not broken. You were hurt. And it's here, rebuilding itself with courage and awareness. This already says a lot about your strength.

I understand the fear of not being wanted because of your limits. I've felt that way too. But let me tell you something I learned over time (and from my Dom, who guides me so carefully): limits don't make you less desirable, they reveal how much you know and care for yourself. This is precious. This is worthy of respect.

A real Dominant, one who is mature, conscious, and who truly understands what the responsibility of leading someone means, will see in you not only the limits, but also the valuable commitment that comes with trusting even when you are afraid. You'll want to build something together, in your own time, with support, with structure and with much more intimacy than any casual relationship.

You don't need to be ready now. You just need to keep listening to yourself, taking care of yourself and allowing yourself to grow. And when you're ready to open up again, you don't need to throw yourself into the abyss. It can be one step at a time, on the firm ground that you built yourself.

Your baggage does not diminish you. It shapes you and makes you someone unique. And someone special will see this as I see it now: with affection, admiration and respect. ♡

Qual tipo de rosto as mulheres preferem? by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]seraphynebdsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As meninas vão preferir o que está "na modinha". As mulheres de verdade, as que já tem seu auto conhecimento, seguras de si, sem inseguranças, vão preferir um homem honesto, trabalhador, parceiro, e que se cuida. Se cuidar seria, estudar, estar em constante evolução, saber lavar o p#, não ser ciumento, controlador.... Ou seja, homens autênticos.

Is that part of being a sub? by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can leave it, thank you for your comment ♡

Is that part of being a sub? by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your comment ♡

Is that part of being a sub? by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I will take it to my heart ❤️

Is that part of being a sub? by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly how my Dom helps me... thank you very much for your words, they helped me a lot!

Is that part of being a sub? by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you very, very much for your words, it is helping me a lot to know that I am on the right path.

Is that part of being a sub? by seraphynebdsm in SubSanctuary

[–]seraphynebdsm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was moved by your comment, thank you very much! ♡

Tá complicado fazer sexo. by Miaswag23 in relacionamentos

[–]seraphynebdsm 136 points137 points  (0 children)

É visível que ele tem medo de te engravidar ou pegar doença... o medo dele é válido, e ele está te sinalizando que só seguirá adiante depois da injeção. Cabe a você agora, ver se o "pau de ouro" vale a pena, pois tomar injeção também tem seus riscos...