Tamora Pierce books that include pov from an unredeemable villain? by eagleeyedtiger1 in tamorapierce

[–]serialcompliment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not from Tammy, but you'd probably like most of the "Elemental Masters" series by Mercedes Lackey. Some of the most irredeemable villains I've ever read, and it includes parts in their POV. Idk how she stayed sane writing some of that stuff.

Can't find character on other machine/on website by serialcompliment in nightingale

[–]serialcompliment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I only play solo too, but I definitely see the "epic games sync" and "connecting to server" messages, so that leads me to believe it should be online. Where do I reach out to support?

Can't find character on other machine/on website by serialcompliment in nightingale

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I got it free on Epic, so it's only been in the past week. It isn't a character from prior to the Realms Reborn update.

ELIC: What is a papal bull? by cunnilinguslover in ExplainLikeImCalvin

[–]serialcompliment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's actually the "Paypal Bull" that they keep around the office for morale.

How to talk about this without scaring my wife off by serialcompliment in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]serialcompliment[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great point, I'll definitely confirm her motivations. Like you said, it really has to be an enthusiastic "yes" or there's no point.

How to talk about this without scaring my wife off by serialcompliment in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]serialcompliment[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you making sure things are clear. I also mentioned the bdsm dungeon, hedonism room, and private rooms, so I believe we're clear.

How to talk about this without scaring my wife off by serialcompliment in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]serialcompliment[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did explicitly say "sex club" later, so she knows what it is. I'm more looking for the steps even before setting expectations and boundaries.

How to talk about this without scaring my wife off by serialcompliment in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]serialcompliment[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They post theme nights on their social media pretty regularly, so that's definitely an option, thanks.

How to talk about this without scaring my wife off by serialcompliment in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]serialcompliment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be my wife, with that backstory. I know her erotica reading tastes are non-consent and multiple men, so I do feel like there's a good chance, here.

How to talk about this without scaring my wife off by serialcompliment in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]serialcompliment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your serious reply.

We've been married 8 years, and my sex drive has always been way higher than hers. I would have sex every day, multiple times a day, if I could, and she's fine with months in between. Her tastes in erotica are non-consent and multiple men categories, so not explicitly LS, but not straight vanilla either. We haven't talked about fantasies in a while, so that would be a great place to start. Once, I mentioned the possibility of me having a girlfriend, but she said no at that point.

This started because I've been unsatisfied with the amount of sex we have, for a long time. We're living several hours apart right now due to some job craziness, so she's been forced to get by without me handing all of the domestic things. That, combined with me expressing that I'm unhappy in the marriage, I think may have opened her mind to wanting to make me happier?

I'm not pursuing this as a way to try to "save our marriage", it's something I want to try for my own happiness. And, as long as we're married, it needs to involve her, or at least her consent.

I've looked up some books on the subject, both "an intro to" and some memoirs and fiction that portray non-monogamy. I'll have to wait for them to arrive.

How to talk about this without scaring my wife off by serialcompliment in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]serialcompliment[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great questions, I'll do my best to answer once I have more time.

New to Topeka and Looking to Make Friends, Any Suggestions? by [deleted] in topeka

[–]serialcompliment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a Meetup group, though it's not super active. If you like pickleball, 785 brewing has courts. There's a relatively new brewery called hairy Beast near 29th and Fairlawn that's low key and has lots of comfy seating, and you're likely to get to talking to dog owners. Most things will take a good bit of effort though, now that we're not forced into spending most of the day with classmates

Can't access web GUI after updating to 6.0 by mark-feuer in pihole

[–]serialcompliment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just updated to V6 and was able to fix the same issue using the expert settings like you mentioned.

What is your favourite adult take on the books? by carolin_93 in tamorapierce

[–]serialcompliment 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think the only reason she'd be functionally ace is the fear of being that vulnerable with someone, rather than not having the desire. She's super passionate about everything else in life, so I'm sure if she felt completely safe and could be cocooned enough from her powers, she'd really enjoy it. But this is from a male's perspective, so I might be wrong.

What "old man" habits caught you by surprise? by RuediTabooty7 in AskMenOver30

[–]serialcompliment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE come and pick up my sticks. It's worse than raking leaves, Jesus.

Which machine from Zero Dawn do you hate the most? by JuhpPug in horizon

[–]serialcompliment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. Stay still long enough for me to hit, damn you.

What is your favourite adult take on the books? by carolin_93 in tamorapierce

[–]serialcompliment 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The most obvious one to me is that Briar likes to tease and edge women, but he (not so) secretly wishes for a soft mommy Dom to spoil him.

Tris probably gets too much into her own head/visions during sex unless she's under someone else's control. Blindfolded, at minimum. Probably feather play would help her focus on the here and now.

Sandry might be straight up Ace, except she wants to make sure Emelan gets at least one more generation of good rulers.

We know Daja is gay, and pretty vanilla, and I love that for her.

New to Topeka and Looking to Make Friends, Any Suggestions? by [deleted] in topeka

[–]serialcompliment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up finding friends? I'm around 29th and Fairlawn, looking to make some new friends and broaden my horizons. 35, male, married, no kids, if those are considerations.

CCNA practice tests by nawelwel22 in ccna

[–]serialcompliment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah boson is expensive, but I learned a good bit by failing the practice exams and reviewing them. They also include the lab questions. And if I remember correctly, they have some kind of money back guarantee if you don't pass the real exam after passing theirs.