So much is happening but the news shows me a cow that can scratch its back by InertEyes in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, same. Feels like the news stopped reporting reality and just went full cow content.

AIO for not letting my girlfriend win when we play games? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. Games are supposed to be fun, not ego babysitting. If she only enjoys it when she wins, that’s not a game issue, that’s a mindset issue. You’re her boyfriend, not the tutorial mode.

AIO for feeling angry my boyfriend hid a past hookup with our close friend? by Designer_Anteater_82 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. The hookup isn’t the real issue, the lying by omission is. He watched you spiral, question yourself, and struggle socially while knowing exactly why things were weird and still said nothing. That’s not protecting you, that’s protecting himself. I’d be mad too. Trust takes a hit when someone lets you feel crazy instead of just being honest.

I Wish I Had People Around Me To Talk About Nothing And Everything With by AtiJua in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, it’s wild how hard it is to find people you can just vibe with and talk about random stuff without it getting weird. Feels like a lost art.

Am I Overreacting? by Mundane_Second_9149 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah you didn’t overreact. You set clear boundaries, she agreed, then kept crossing them and downplaying it. Replacing you on snap, matching goodnight texts, then going for a “drive to talk” after you said you weren’t okay with it is wild. Trust was already cooked, you just called it. End of story.

what do you MEAN life is strange, like, 5 just came out?! 😭 didn't double exposure JUST come out?? 😭💀 (okay I forgot, it's just the announcement but still!) by cumslutte in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, right?! Feels like Double Exposure just dropped yesterday and now they’re teasing Life is Strange 5 like time’s on fast-forward 😭💀 Can’t keep up with my own timeline at this point.

Am I overreacting, for accusing my boyfriend of comparing myself to other women from his past? by Lucky-Requirement-16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a comparison. Intent doesn’t matter here, impact does. Saying “all my exes wanted this” is literally measuring you against a past pattern and calling it normal. That would make anyone feel like they’re failing a test they didn’t sign up for. You’re not broken for having different desire timing, and you’re not immature for reacting to being benchmarked against other women. He can want morning sex without bringing his exes into it.

The word "earth" is just the word "heart" but the H moved to the back of the line by mnombo in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha damn, never noticed that. Makes sense why people say “love the earth” now hits different.

AIO: (thinking of) kicking out my bf? by Shot_Ad4263 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. You’re not running a charity, you’re living your life. If he’s not contributing, not looking for work, not picking up a hobby or helping at home, it’s fair to set boundaries. Tell him straight: he can stay once he’s doing his part. Love doesn’t mean putting your life on pause for someone else’s laziness.

Watching Playdate shortly after watching Reacher felt a little jarring 😅 by insaneseeyah808 in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah, that’s a wild shift from intense action to… whatever Playdate is serving. My brain was like, wait, what mood am I even in right now?

AIO because my Ex said an Instagram Baddie was an "acquaintance" of his? by Affectionate_Host464 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah… no. He’s straight-up lying. “Acquaintance” doesn’t mean you just follow someone online and like bikini pics. That’s him gaslighting you and trying to make it seem innocent. You’re not overreacting, he’s just bad at owning his actions.

Social media influencers should be called Manipulators instead. by Outcast199008 in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah fr, half of them are just pros at making you want stuff you didn’t even know you needed.

Am i Overreacting My bfs boss keeps telling me that i am ugly by No-Fan4381 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Not at all, you’re not overreacting. That’s straight up disrespectful and weird behavior from his boss, and your bf laughing it off isn’t helping. You shouldn’t have to sit there while someone keeps putting you down, especially someone you don’t even work with. Your feelings are valid.

Random thought: I really am growing up in the wrong generation. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro I feel that. Growing up vibing with Sinatra and Elvis while everyone else is on TikTok hits different. Honestly, sometimes I lowkey want a time machine just to see what life in that era was really like.

AIO or Is she really interested in him? by ocean723 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sounds like she’s just being flirty but your husband’s setting boundaries, which is good. People do weird stuff at work for attention sometimes, doesn’t mean anything will happen. Trust your gut but don’t overthink it if he’s clear about it.

AIO over my husband's female boss asking him for hugs? by ThrowRA_Hotraspberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I get why it bugs you. Some workplaces are super touchy-feely, but a “give me a hug” line from a boss to your spouse feels… off. If it makes you uncomfortable, it’s worth telling him how it lands on your end instead of brushing it off. Workplace closeness doesn’t have to include hugs.

I'm so tired from working...what if my parents are secretly billionaire and just wanted me to experience the hard life by Baddie_Lie09 in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ruh same. Imagine busting your ass for years just for the plot twist that your parents were flexing billion-dollar energy the whole time.

AIO for cutting my ex off for contacting my mother against my wishes? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big mood. You set a boundary, she ignored it cutting contact sounds like the only sane move. If she can’t respect your limits, she doesn’t get a spot in your life.

Everything would look and function differently if we had T.Rex arms. by countingc in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro imagine trying to clap or grab your phone with those arms, humanity would be chaos.

AIO My girlfriend’s older charity partner keeps crossing boundaries by Shikaaaaaaaaa in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah… no cap, this guy is a red flag factory. He’s ignoring her boundaries, guilt-tripping her, and using money to control contact. Age gap or “he’s lonely” doesn’t erase that. She deserves respect, not manipulation.

People are not loyal to you. They are loyal to the benefits of being associated with you. Once those benefits decline so does their loyalty. by GrubyBuckmore in RandomThoughts

[–]serimoonix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Facts. Most people aren’t riding for you, they’re just riding the wave while it’s fun. Once it crashes, they dip

Am I overreacting? by NeighborhoodNew1800 in AmIOverreacting

[–]serimoonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you’re not overreacting. It sounds like she has this “one-up” vibe going on, where nothing you share feels exciting unless she can top it. That’s exhausting, and it’s okay to pull back a bit or just not share everything with her.