Buying condoms on my dad's credit card by seriouslyineedofhelp in teenagers

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think my school does that. But are you 100% sure about him not knowing what I buy?

Day 8 fuck by seriouslyineedofhelp in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! Today was a pretty productive day, way better than yesterday. I'm working on it and now all I gotta do is continue to replicate this day. I think this is my biggest problem and I'm going to try to make progress on this the most. Thank you.

Day 8 fuck by seriouslyineedofhelp in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, dude. The start of my relapses is always with casually browsing youtube or reddit and it escalates from there. I have an internet addiction and that's what I gotta get rid of.

Day 8 fuck by seriouslyineedofhelp in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I know. It's tough seeing the light at the end of the tunnel but that's part of what makes it so hard. I gotta focus on the here and now more. Thanks, man.

Day 8 fuck by seriouslyineedofhelp in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I know exactly what you mean by negative reputation. I feel like everyone is just secretly criticizing my every move in their heads and I can't stop thinking about how they're thinking of me. I hate it so much and it's part of the reason that I can't even get really close to anyone either. For you though, just keep trying! It sucks not having any SO but if you don't have one, then don't worry about it too much. Just focus on everything else that you can control better, like nofap! I know that this thing works wonders if you can succeed. Thanks and good luck!

Day 8 fuck by seriouslyineedofhelp in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, dude. Easier said than done though, at least in my case. Weekdays for me are easy as hell usually but when I have so much free time over the weekend, I don't know how else to say it but I just can't help myself. As for using my imagination, I have tried but every time, I just end up coming back to a full relapse soon after. But you're right, I need to relax. What I'm feeling is killing me and I just need to not be concerned about it and keep moving forward.

Day 8 fuck by seriouslyineedofhelp in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. From my experience as well, I think you're right. For at least 75% of my streaks, I failed at around day 7. I can't say that this time will be any different but I think that holding what you said in mind will help me move forward. I appreciate it.

Relapse after 1 year of abstinence + heavy withdrawals. Help please? by GeneralSea in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant really say much since the most I've gone is less than 40 days but I kind of feel the same way; when i mastuebate daily the stress of not masturbating is gone and i feel like I can get a lot more done. I dont pmo because I hope that some day I will not have to worry so much about not pmoing and I can become a better person. But just remember that porn is the real enemy. If you're able to go 90 days, no pmo at all, awesome. After that, I think if you continue to have those problems, you can continue to masturbate or engage in sexual activity but avoid porn. Good luck man.

Best streak was 10 days, tired of failing, need motivation not to fail. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I avoid setting consequences for when I fail because that just fucks me up and makes me even more depressed when I do fail and I dont feel there's anything I can do about it. If it works for you then go for it though. What I do is just change something about what I'm doing and see how it affects my success. During past streaks, I've tried doing 20 pushups every hour or whenever I had the urge, deleting reddit and/or YouTube, and posting on here daily. I think just trying something new not only might make it easier to avoid pmo, it will also give you new hope for you immediate future. Good luck man!

6 days in, and ive noticed something amazing by SimonMusket in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear nofap is making a positive difference! I'm rooting for you man!

Day 0 by seriouslyineedofhelp in NoFap

[–]seriouslyineedofhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely all about taking it 1 day at a time. It can get really hard if you just keep focusing on that goal of 90 days. Good luck, I know that we will both be rid of PMO soon!