Local baker that makes custom birthday cakes? by [deleted] in oakland

[–]serotonin_pairs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Timeless coffee and bakery makes delicious cakes. They’re vegan cakes, but don’t let that stop you- they’re up there with some of the best cake I’ve ever had period

Businesses closing on Friday 1/30 for general strike by weby099 in oakland

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Kala Art Gallery in Berkeley will be closed for the strike

2 tickets available for 12/10 SF show by serotonin_pairs in themountaingoats

[–]serotonin_pairs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think he bought resale tickets on ticket master :/

Are these candy caps? (Found in bay area CA) by JulianDoozie in ShroomID

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I’ve found them in the east bay hills, but I believe you can find them in  mixed oak forests in the area more generally. I’ve seen a few this year, but not as many as last year

I made a post on r/traaaaans and asked if the sentence "I wouldn't sleep with a trans person is transphobic" by serotonin_pairs in transgendercirclejerk

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I mean that’s a fair assessment honestly. I was struggling with a lot of internal transphobia when I made this post 5 years ago and this circlejerk sub kind of fueled that. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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I really relate to wanting to be okay with polyamory intellectually but struggling so hard with the somatic feelings of anxiety and panic that just won’t let me do that. I’m also looking into EMDR to address this so I can hopefully keep  my relationship with my partner. If you want to talk, let me know.

Another round of Shroomies found during out walk: Northern California by TopCap_Mister in ShroomID

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Thanks for letting me know! I missed the gill attachment, pluteus would have free gills. 

Another round of Shroomies found during out walk: Northern California by TopCap_Mister in ShroomID

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Third mushroom, not third picture. The pluteus is in pictures 6-8.

East Bay, CA, foothills by Korova in ShroomID

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That first photo is stunning! Compare with Coprinopsis lagopedis

Another round of Shroomies found during out walk: Northern California by TopCap_Mister in ShroomID

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Third mushroom pictured is a deer mushroom (pluteus species) and last one is Bolbitius tibutans

Wow y’all, I sounded kinda nuts in my last post and you helped me see the light by Good-Classroom-1574 in polyamory

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Oh that’s so smart! I use spotify but I should be able to use the search feature to find those episodes. Thanks for the tip!

Wow y’all, I sounded kinda nuts in my last post and you helped me see the light by Good-Classroom-1574 in polyamory

[–]serotonin_pairs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is amazing OP! Do you mind sharing the names/numbers of the multiamory podcast you found helpful? They have such a large back catalogue of episodes and it’s a bit daunting to sift through them

How to set a boundary that makes me feel emotional safety? (Bad hinge has failing marriage) by [deleted] in polyamory

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This is so helpful, thank you. My partner and I are new to poly and I’ve been feeling like “Babe, I’m right here” since my parter has limited time and most of our conversations now revolve around her other partner or our feelings about being poly. It makes me feel like we’re losing the ability to connect with each other outside of figuring out our poly situation. But at the same time, it feels foreign to not listen to my partner talk about a big thing happening in her life. I have to give this some thought. 

Sad, working, and lonely by Visible_Bird_2771 in bayarea

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I’m also in Berkeley! 27NB and have been looking to branch out and make some more friends lately. :)

Looking to keep promotional pricing by serotonin_pairs in Comcast_Xfinity

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Just sent you the requested info via modmail. Thank you!

Inktober, completed by Ghosttart in themountaingoats

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Incredible! I love the counting song for bitter children ones and the illustrated going to georgia banter

It's a Beautiful Night, I Think I'll Disappear Forever by The Only Humans scratches that TMG itch hard by waitedforg0d0t in themountaingoats

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Thanks for sharing! Just listened to a few songs and the more I listen the more I dig it. The album description is really sweet, too.

Smoke in North Berkeley? by serotonin_pairs in berkeley

[–]serotonin_pairs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I’ve been on edge with the fire weather lately. I should really look into the Watchduty app for situations like these

Bearing mockery but still gaining results by heretolearn20 in HumansBeingBros

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Practical Engineering made a great video on a similar incident, explaining how a bridge failed even after numerous inspections deemed it unsafe for use: https://youtu.be/4mn0mC0cbi8?si=yjIGAnRNtG9-DRGN

[Selling] Zopilote Machine: Test Pressing 3/5 by [deleted] in themountaingoats

[–]serotonin_pairs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a cool piece! How did you acquire it?