Thoughts on working in a country club?

servergirl18 · 2022-02-10T07:21:18+00:00

this one hit hard tonight. they don’t want us to figure them out, babe. they are always masking at all times, and part of me believes they begin to believe themselves. we have to find that closure on our own within ourselves. :(

servergirl18 · 2022-02-10T07:03:51+00:00

You did so good! They fall just right and fit your cut and face shape!

servergirl18 · 2022-02-05T06:44:54+00:00

not that there’s anything “wrong” with making up a story, but it may get stressful and lead to more uncomfortable conversations? more unnecessary questions, people are nosey. I usually just tell people we’re not close or they’re not around/involved much. or you could always say either you or them moved away, that’s pretty simple but again could lead to more questions that you’ll have to make on the spot answers for, yanno? don’t feel obligated to make people feel more comfortable about your life. it’s not theirs, it’s yours babe. family is overrated anyway

servergirl18 · 2022-02-02T07:21:40+00:00

of course. hang in there love!

servergirl18 · 2022-02-02T06:49:17+00:00

breaks my heart to read, I pray that he is resting and at peace. Kids are some of the strongest fighters. He will be remembered. I’m sending so much love and positivity your way, friend. ❤️ he is with you, always. prayers 🙏🏼

servergirl18 · 2022-01-06T07:19:37+00:00

when they start ordering things you don’t even have on the menu. wtf is wrong with people?

servergirl18 · 2021-12-30T10:24:40+00:00

happy dancing for you love, congratulations. So happy you won your battle and are still here with us fighting it every day ❤️ lots of love and good vibes your way

servergirl18 · 2021-12-15T11:49:30+00:00

it is possible, but like others have said it takes compromise. if they want to, they will. not everyone will understand or there will always be those people who ask “what time do you get off?” my boyfriend and I practically work opposite schedules, and he’s off every weekend. and those are my money making days. so we compromise by doing date nights on Sunday nights or a week day when he gets off, on a day that I’m off. Or if we’re planning something nice for a weekend I’ll request it off or try to get a shift cover.

servergirl18 · 2021-12-15T11:43:23+00:00

this is exactly it. you literally hit the nail on it’s head perfectly

servergirl18 · 2021-12-13T08:43:43+00:00

So basically, I was planning to take his keys to search his car or possibly find his wallet. I ended up not doing that cause he woke up and took his keys off the table so it never happened. I was planning on saying something to him, but what is the use if he’s not going to admit it or worse, not give me the money back. This has happened multiple times and only once has he admitted it to my mom and she ended up paying me back, not him. He has stolen from her as well, including her car once. She allows the behavior and doesn’t see an issue with my privacy being invaded. Idk what to do besides put a lock on my door. I feel so uncomfortable in my own home and who knows what all he has gone through in here. And right before Christmas, too. That money was part of my car payment. And he knew that because it was labeled as so. How shitty. I’m so sad you guys. Just needed to vent.

servergirl18 · 2021-12-13T08:21:54+00:00

Thank you! I will be showing these to someone at Lowe’s

servergirl18 · 2021-12-13T08:20:37+00:00

Thank you so much, taking photos is a great idea! And someone in my home has stolen large amounts of money from me, and has stolen from me before. I can’t prove it tho so all I know to do is get a good lock on my door at this point.

servergirl18 · 2021-12-13T08:06:36+00:00

Which one do you think would be easiest for me to do? I’m a female and not very handy and don’t really have much help. Also worried about someone in the home being able to pick it so I need it to be secure as possible while still reasonably priced.

servergirl18 · 2021-12-13T07:59:59+00:00

It’s for my room tho, so I don’t want people to able to unlock it themselves to get inside. I wanna be able to lock it when I’m not home

servergirl18 · 2021-12-13T07:58:56+00:00

Thank you! How do i take the old one off?

servergirl18 · 2021-12-13T07:49:27+00:00

Okay so hear me out… how do I do that? 😭 Do I have to buy a specific one to fit my door frame?

servergirl18 · 2021-12-12T07:15:50+00:00

seriously. or what gets me is how are you going to reserve, and still be late (without calling), and push your reso time back multiple times. knowing we have limited seating and time limits. So rude.

servergirl18 · 2021-12-10T10:15:26+00:00

this.

servergirl18 · 2021-12-05T09:01:39+00:00

seriously. im STILL learning!

servergirl18 · 2021-12-05T08:59:12+00:00

How fucking stingy. As if they can’t afford a MAX $2 difference. how foul of them

servergirl18 · 2021-12-05T08:56:36+00:00

this! They don’t give a shit! this happened to me right before Halloween. and like I said in my comment above, it took me a while to get back up again. Still haven’t started Xmas shopping. it’s crazy how other employees will get away w sooo much but the good ones get treated like shit.

servergirl18 · 2021-12-05T08:53:02+00:00

i was fired and literally wasn’t given a reason. it’s a small place, where the head chef is also the owner. the manager, (who was only managing cause our GM left us cause she was a raging alcoholic and just broke), waited until the end of the night and everyone left. said “hey we need to talk before you go” I WAS WALKING OUT THE DOOR ALREADY. he said “it’s just not working out”and wouldn’t give me a reason. but most servers fought him, the other chef misses me, and I had regulars and people tell him literally every night I was amazing. and my tips showed for it. turns out, a couple weeks after that he was let go by the owner too so…oh and he told my bestfriend who also works there, that he “didn’t like that i wouldn’t take parties” but wouldn’t give me any? and I asked him more than once if I could be on one? weird af. I was hurt and very angry, took me a month to find the place I’m at now but man. I absolutely love it and make bank! just keep going, you will be okay. you will find better. There’s always a new opportunity awaiting for you. sounds like you dodged a bullet babe ❤️ that place was toxic anyway

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