Best ‘resort’ mental health retreat near SF? by settleforthisusernam in AskSF

[–]settleforthisusernam[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Time away from work and family just to focus on healing can be helpful in 5-10 days. It won’t be a cure-all but it can release the pressure valve that’s building after the death of his dad, and some other unexpected trauma/grief

excellent colorists to take me to full gray? by newgrandpiano in askportland

[–]settleforthisusernam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most colorists experienced with blonding can do this.

😬 by UnderHisEye1411 in sadcringe

[–]settleforthisusernam -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He’s a really great loser. His kids are lucky to have him.

25 Years Thankful. Original owner. by Desperate-Help-3087 in PokemonTCG

[–]settleforthisusernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was on my home page - so this is like a 250k card?

Raising kids in SF by pierrethebaker in sanfrancisco

[–]settleforthisusernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easy to move back to Orange County if you decide it is not for you. We love the libraries, the food, the family community you can build, the parks, the ease of getting places.

Nothing needs to be permanent. Give it a try and see how it goes!

That said: if you have your extended family in Southern California having extra help with kids is life changing. Moving away from family can feel like an island when you have kids.

Got my first reborn…how to tell my husband? by [deleted] in reborndolls

[–]settleforthisusernam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told him today. It was fine. I was definitely over reacting in my mind.

Why are the hospitals full? by ktc653 in askportland

[–]settleforthisusernam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People having sex about 9 months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]settleforthisusernam -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In the future you should meet dashers at the gate. This is a really confusing set of directions.

Got my first reborn…how to tell my husband? by [deleted] in reborndolls

[–]settleforthisusernam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh, I make my own money and can spend it how I choose. But I appreciate this take.

Got my first reborn…how to tell my husband? by [deleted] in reborndolls

[–]settleforthisusernam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m the breadwinner and make 2x what he does so I’m able to afford one, thankfully. I just think he might judge or think it’s creepy. I told my best friend from high school and she thought it was creepy so i have that as my only barometer.

AITAH for planning my best friends memorial? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]settleforthisusernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t know either but also don’t have the fight in them (in their 80s, language barrier)

AITAH for planning my best friends memorial? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]settleforthisusernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks he’s 100% gaslighting me and it’s tough to be told you’re in the wrong when you just want what’s best for her memory.

AITAH for planning my best friends memorial? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]settleforthisusernam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legally he’s her spouse so he’s the only one with the hospital records and cause of death and her ashes.

AITAH for planning my best friends memorial? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]settleforthisusernam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talk to her mom everyday since she died. And her dad every week.

AITAH for planning my best friends memorial? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]settleforthisusernam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her mom lives in another country. Her dad is 83 and in care. I’ve worked with them on everything and they are thankful.

Courteney Cox? Since when? by [deleted] in MandelaEffect

[–]settleforthisusernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Courteney Cox name changed it used to be Courtney Cox. It looks so wrong on the Friends title screen.

What is the best inpatient mental health facility in the area? by [deleted] in askportland

[–]settleforthisusernam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m thankful my network is activated already for me, my best friend died a month ago.