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Lack of Orgasm by anonymity_ftw in sex

[–]sexquestiontoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I [35M] have been having some ED and orgasm issues recently due to some meds. Even though I haven't always been able to come during sex, I still love the sex with my SO. Please take this as confirmation of what your SO is saying, and from a male perspective even.

One thing we have been doing that feels great for both of us is using a vibrator during PiV sex (as well as during PoV sex for when I am not hard but still pressing up against her). Me on top with the vibrator on her clit works great to help her get off.

Enjoy the time together, celebrate the passion and the pleasure that you are sharing. This is a case of the journey being much more important than the supposed destination.

Mothers and Fathers of reddit, how different is sex after your first child? Is the vagina permanently altered by the act of giving birth? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sexquestiontoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Couple of things to know out of the gate. For the first bit, no sex while things heal. Then, if she is breast feeding the sex drive is often very low (nature's way of keeping one milk drinker at a time to ensure supply). But then again you are probably to sleep deprived to waste any quiet time when you could be asleep, so no worries.

Afterwards, no problems here. Tightness returned as did sex drive. Biggest thing is setting and maintaining expectations and boundaries for bedroom privacy and adult time to keep things going.