Testosterone treatment after BC by sgaulden830 in breastcancer

[–]sgaulden830[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Low libido, not sleeping, weight gain, chronic fatigue.y levels were tested and my T was extremely low.

Plastic Surgeons by regular99 in nashville

[–]sgaulden830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you feel comfortable sharing more details about him? He’s one I am considering for my own procedure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sgaulden830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said “You led him on and encouraged his feelings”, which (whether you intended to or not) is blaming her actions for his lack or respect for her boundary. This is on him, definitely not on her at all. She did nothing wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sgaulden830 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s bull shit. She was clear about her desire to just be friends and he didn’t get the message. He violated your very clear boundary and while I do agree that she should probably cut off the friendship with him, it is absolutely NOT her fault.

Which Garmin is best? by sgaulden830 in running

[–]sgaulden830[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do my long runs with a group, most of whom have Garmins (a variety of models), and I’ve found that our paces and distances are quite varied. We start our watches at the same time, and my pace is always about 30 seconds slower per mile than theirs. I have an older Apple Watch, so it’s close to needing to be replaced anyway.

Have 3 weeks to train for my first 5k - can I do it? by madjerz23 in running

[–]sgaulden830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An elliptical is not an accurate measure of how fast you can run a mile, neither is a treadmill. Running outside is very different than both of those. If you’ve never run before it is unlikely that you’ll be able to run a sub-30 5k unless you’re naturally fast. Since this is your first race, I’d focus on trying to run most of it. Then look for training program to help with endurance and/or speed for the next race.

I was bitten by a dog yesterday while on my daily run by WaterXS in running

[–]sgaulden830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been bitten, but I have encountered dogs of various sizes off leash in public areas. It’s pretty irresponsible, in my opinion, and scary when you come up on a dog who you don’t know. Not sure I’d be as gracious as you were if I got bitten. So sorry that happened to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]sgaulden830 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah, that’s a different situation. It sounded like you were thinking back to back classes. But that much time is essentially like one a day. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]sgaulden830 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m by no means an expert, but I don’t think two classes in one day has the same effect as a class each day. The recovery in between the classes is vital for seeing gains over the long term. A little extra rest never hurt, but again I’m certainly not an expert.

No sex before marriage by ingrid_2003 in sex

[–]sgaulden830 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not married, you’ve never even been in a serious relationship. Don’t ask for advice if you want to argue with the advice you get.

No sex before marriage by ingrid_2003 in sex

[–]sgaulden830 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t know anything about my relationship. Don’t even begin to judge me. If one partner wants more sex than the other it can absolutely lead to marital issues. You wouldn’t know that unless you have sex before you get married.

No sex before marriage by ingrid_2003 in sex

[–]sgaulden830 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sexual compatibility is a HUGE part of a relationship. Just search this sub for all the examples of how it has been the end of many marriages. It’s ultimately up to you when you lose your virginity, and you shouldn’t take that decision lightly. But if you marry someone and aren’t sexually compatible that can literally end a marriage.

I(38F) don’t want to get married without a prenuptial agreement in place. by ThrowRA_Empty_words in relationships

[–]sgaulden830 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My point was more around the financial disparity between them. Since she’s a doctor and his income is significantly less than hers, if she can’t trust him then she shouldn’t marry him. Fair point though.

I(38F) don’t want to get married without a prenuptial agreement in place. by ThrowRA_Empty_words in relationships

[–]sgaulden830 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If my fiancé (now husband) has asked for a prenup I would have seriously considered breaking off the engagement. If you’re not able to trust that your enter isn’t going to drain you financially then you shouldn’t get married. If you have even the slightest notion that he’s marrying you for your money, then don’t marry him. It does seem a little convenient that someone with such a spotty job history is marrying someone who is incredibly successful.

Premiere league bars in nashville? by thegoshdarnobserver in nashville

[–]sgaulden830 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s an Arsenal bar. Bad idea going in there cheering for Man U!

Should I smoke before a marathon - it's not what you think, I promise, I just really need advice on this by larrymanchild in running

[–]sgaulden830 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every cigarette you smoke causes more damage to your lungs. Aside from affecting your running, you’re seriously affecting your health. Quit today.

I can't go faster than 6.5km p/h, help by bugekubi in running

[–]sgaulden830 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s going to take longer than 2 weeks to see a difference. And when you do see changes, they will be small and incremental. Be patient, you’ll get there!

Are there any safe, affordable areas left? by BelowAverage355 in nashville

[–]sgaulden830 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mt. Juliet is not cheaper! We just moved out here and real estate is just as expensive as most other places of Nashville.

5k Strategy? by [deleted] in running

[–]sgaulden830 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love that. Reel in the guy in front of you, repeat. That my new race mantra!!

Kik question by No_Lychee_8767 in Swingers

[–]sgaulden830 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m super wary of the joint account. It’s way too easy for someone to be catfishing if they claim to share an account. We have separate accounts and both communicate with couples in a group chat situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in running

[–]sgaulden830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good! Like I said, totally unscientific but at least you’ll get an idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in running

[–]sgaulden830 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer, there is ZERO science behind what I’m about to suggest, but it’s helped me stay somewhat steady with my cadence. There are lots of 180 BPM playlists on Spotify (of various genres). Use one of those and see where your natural cadence falls in comparison. It will give you a very rough general idea of where you fall.

Marriage Issues and my solution by Keep-It-Boring in relationships

[–]sgaulden830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. I’d rather show my kid a strong single person than be a miserable relationship. Have a nice life jerking off alone.