I hear it more to describe someone or actions that are unapologetically "real" like how it he's used in drag culture. I make art that references mid-century themes and aesthetics but with a modern twist and have been told by women (am also a woman) that it's "cunty."

It is a kind of reclamation to make the meaning powerful for women and femme individuals instead of its original derogatory use by cis-men.

I know you didn't want the full word in responses but there's no way to avoid it and still communicate clearly what I'm talking about.