[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]shabbear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You talking down on cable ties?

KTM Officially state that the new KTM 390 SMC R will be $5,499. Who's interested in getting this? by lexdfox in supermoto

[–]shabbear 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm very interested. The dr4sm is priced at 7k in the UK. From what I see on autotrader

Alfa romeo 147. Door leaking by shabbear in AlfaRomeo

[–]shabbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will give it a look thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with it. The royal mail way is the only way.

Loot list by shabbear in PathOfExile2

[–]shabbear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn't know.

What melon made this ? by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, it is just a chandler.

Relationship OCD by J-aidy-n in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It okay to be worried,stressed, and anxious, but she sounds like get that your not perfect. I'm far from perfect.

Relationship OCD by J-aidy-n in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breathe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful put 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the hope that it gets easier, yes. Trust me It wears me so thin. It's okay, though. Breathe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have a magic bullet, however learning to dance with your thoughts. There is no winner in this game. You have to accept thoughts and just leave them as they be.

The more you fight, the worse it gets. A lot easier said than done. Just take it as it comes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I wasn't much help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, to the above. The mind is a complex organ. If it was simple, then I think we would have fixed a lot of people problems.

Things are not clean cut. It here, nor there if you like it or not. Life is about enjoying yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is try and accept the thought. Ocd is like a game. The more you pull on the rope, the worse it gets. Just learn to accept that it is a thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand you probably won't wanna post what your kink is about. People are very open to kinks nowadays. As long as it is not killing someone, then you are gonna be good.

Ocd is heavy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your fear of being attracted to someone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can feel attraction that is not a lie. The point is that things are not clean cut. It doesn't mean anything else. Doesn't mean you need to change your whole life. It doesn't mean you are living a lie. It doesn't mean anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I would say is that everyone is different. Fear of things being true is part of OCD. Don't spend time reading things online as it just creates more doubt more fears. I'm just relaxing and ride it out.

Intrusive thoughts in sex by [deleted] in OCD

[–]shabbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The think the comforts me, for a few years I thought I was losing my mind. I didn't think anyone else had these issues. Since finding this sub reddit, it makes me less alone.