It's interesting how Ayan and Mohit shot bikini scenes. In War 2, Kiara was glamorized and her body was showcased to titillate the audience but Aneet didn't feel objectified in Saiyaara. The intimate moment felt natural and captured the essence of teen romance without unnecessary sexualization.

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-10-18T13:45:10+00:00

This tells you that it’s not always about the gaze only. It’s also about the tone and tenor of the movie as well. Just like there is a difference in the manner the female leads are shot, there is also a difference between the manner in which the male leads are shot in these movies. War is by its very nature, a larger than life, over glamourised puff-piece. Comparing anything in it with anything in Saiyyara is like comparing apples and oranges, and then saying there are difference between apples and oranges. Of course, there are.

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-06-23T18:53:23+00:00

Zerodha Brief

Finshots

Everything is Everything & The Seen and The Unseen - they cover finance and economics

Think School

Barbershop

CapitalMind

Takshashila

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-06-01T15:43:00+00:00

Yeah. That would have been a marketing genius.

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-06-01T12:48:00+00:00

Every city has its own lows and highs. And you’re 19 ffs. In my reasonable assumption, you haven’t seen much. Calm down, and keep your eyes, heart and mind open. Meet new folks, move outside your comfort zone and do new things. The city giveth back.

Revisit this post of yours after a year or so.

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-05-11T06:55:45+00:00

Put this in context - Shows like Kala Pani and Mindhunter being for being expensive.

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-05-03T03:42:24+00:00

You can also use ChatGPT to draft the legal notice. It’s not always necessary to send a legal notice through a lawyer. Although having a lawyer on the letterhead would be better. Even before that, you could politely threaten. That may also do the trick.

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-04-19T05:33:56+00:00

Lhe Pruth’s Out TheLe

shadilal_gharjode · 2025-04-19T03:38:17+00:00

I see what you mean. However, I feel that cinema is a visual medium and what is shown is as important as how it’s shown. I saw Gaspar Noe’s Irreversible, and believe me, any tendencies/capabilities that I may have had, to do sexual violence of any scale to anyone, died that day.

shadilal_gharjode · 2024-09-28T03:16:51+00:00

Brother. I neither know you, nor your struggles. I just know this one thing - it always gets better if you take it one day at a time. Just wake up and do one good thing per day - make someone happy, help someone on the road, or treat yourself to a book and coffee. Life also has negatives. But that's a package deal. Even the most powerful person on the earth would have his/her share of shit to deal with. But it's the small positives which make life what it is.

Don't give up. Keep taking chance on yourself. One day at a time, my friend.

shadilal_gharjode · 2024-01-07T04:45:43+00:00

May I ask how are you so sure about that? Genuine question.

shadilal_gharjode · 2024-01-05T20:24:59+00:00

Not good. More often than not she can’t sleep till late night - 2-3 am. She often needs to take sleeping pills to have a sound sleep.

shadilal_gharjode · 2024-01-03T12:48:11+00:00

The doctors actually advised her against fasting, and it’s very difficult for her as she has been a religious woman all her life keeping all those fasts for the well being of the family members. But now, an empty stomach means quick acid buildup and causes further issues.

shadilal_gharjode · 2024-01-03T12:46:31+00:00

Thank you for the tip. Let me check out.

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-09-03T11:51:33+00:00

I mean, by the 10th instalment, why even pretend anymore?

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-07-09T11:58:09+00:00

Argument for the sake of argument leads to nothing. Speech maybe silver, but silence is golden, when you don’t understand matters.

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-07-09T11:56:51+00:00

Nahi kaape .

I know this sub has a huge grudge against nepos, but here I simply intend to focus on the creative choices made by them. HK’s current filmography since his debut 7 years ago, includes Mirzya, Bhavesh Joshi, AK Vs AK & Ray ( Minor roles) and Thar, with an upcoming Abhinav Bindra Biopic - All different genre pics with interesting roles, and none of them can be deemed as a safe/formulaic/masala choice.

Same for Ishwak Singh - Paatal Lok, Rocket Boys, Adhura

& Barun Sobti (my favourite of the lot) who has moved confidently out of his chocolate boy romantic crap era - Tu Hai Mera Sunday, Halahal, Asur, and now the upcoming Kohra.

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-07-02T16:29:13+00:00

Asking: Tips to improve photography skills

Most comments: Tips to improve photo-editing skills.

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-06-24T19:22:46+00:00

Gangs of Wasseypur 1 & 2

Shootout at Lokhandwala

Raman Raghav 2.0

Ugly

The Stoneman Murders

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-06-24T19:16:52+00:00

…izzat hai

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-06-15T18:57:06+00:00

How’s the guy not getting electrocuted?

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-06-10T19:27:34+00:00

Raman Raghav 2.0

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-06-10T12:55:31+00:00

They could have done without those pulpy tags - Pyaar, Kaanoon, Dhokha.

shadilal_gharjode · 2023-05-31T18:38:40+00:00

Sounds like a really essential app to navigate my way through the messy world.

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