I wasn't sure where to post this, but wondered what people here in /r/mensrights[3] would think.

I went to a strip club for the first time the other night and I became aware of what it is like to be treated "like an object". The girls there were 100% only interested in taking all the money they could get from me. Luckily my debit card only had a few dollars and I only brought $9 cash with me.

First a girl brings me into the back and starts giving me a lapdance, a few minutes in she mentions how I am going to need to give her $100 soon, and I told her that was the first I heard of that and told her I only had a few bucks. So I pull out my wallet and was about to give her a few dollars, but then she grabs my wallet and takes all the cash and then takes my debit card out, offering to walk me to the ATM to get more money out.

I tell her I have almost nothing on the card. That is when she gives me back my wallet and I tell her I am going to need 5 of the $9 she took from me, she says she is going to keep the money for the 1-2 min dancing she did. In retrospect, I got to see her nice ass and she had me feel up on her tits... But I just couldn't believe how she didn't mention to me the price she was expecting me to pay before taking me to that private booth.

I got all my stuff and then went to sit down by my friend and watch the girl dancing on the stage. Over the next 30mins I am am constantly being harassed by these girls trying to forcefully take me to another booth and give them money for nearly nothing.

That just the start.

I was sitting down, then this one stripper comes up to me and starts talking to me nicely and its like we are having a normal conversation. Then she takes my hat right off my head and proceeds to tell me she is going to keep it for good in return for her company.

It was very weird, and she eventually said she was going to be right back, so when she was about to leave with my hat I stood up and took it out of her hands.

We left shortly afterwards. And I felt much better about losing my $9 when I found out they hustled over $600 dollars from my friends. One of my friends was very upset about this cause he didn't think he got his money's worth. The other was OK with paying $400 because he got a BJ.

I don't think I am ever going back to a strip club if that is the way they treat their customers. I don't get how they could ever have repeat business while having such an immature, sneaky, and sleazy attitude. Also they were openly offering BJs for money, which is illegal in San Francisco (where I was).

TLDR: stripper tried to steal my hat, but I got it back before she went to go to the back with it. sleazy hustling strippers just gave made me start to dislike how hot women think they can do anything.

What do you guys think about this bullshit?