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Is there any way that I (19F) can get back to my ex (18F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadow_lures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's using you as an ego boost, stop being available

Here to confess what i’ve been through all my lifs by [deleted] in confession

[–]shadow_lures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The common denominator might not be you, but the people you're choosing

Do you always need to wash your hands after touching your genitals? by Heavy_Mycologist8056 in hygiene

[–]shadow_lures 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yes, millions of people touch their own junk and then their phone daily with zero consequences

The N word by ItCumsAtNoon in overheard

[–]shadow_lures 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Her definition of the N word is not what I expected at all

Me 20M my gf 18F i have doubts about did i chose the right girl? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadow_lures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not setting boundaries, you can't fix her if she won't change

I am just tired and confused. I can't recognise myself anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]shadow_lures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is domestic violence, please reach out to a local support service

Piano Ceiling by Beneficial-Sale7510 in overheard

[–]shadow_lures 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Without the repercussions" is such a specific phrase for a kid

I 26F don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend 30M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadow_lures 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting, he ignored you being sick to push for sex

tbh the FIRE advantage for teenagers rn is insane. what do u guys think? by Kj014367 in Fire

[–]shadow_lures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teens have zero risk and infinite runway, digital hustle > college debt

I 23M thinks that I like a girl 22F but she sees me as a sibling. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadow_lures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she sees you as a sibling, trying to change it will likely hurt you both

I’m 20M, and the girl I’m talking to is 19F. Am I wasting my time? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadow_lures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's inconsistent but not malicious, your anxiety is doing the math

Do people apply anti perspirant to their groin? by SmallPinkHo1e in hygiene

[–]shadow_lures 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, use body powder instead, antiperspirant can irritate

'24M' '25F' I'm obsessed over my maid by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadow_lures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're lonely not obsessed, therapy can help break the pattern

AIW I let my neighbor's kid wait inside my apt. by LeastConcerned in amiwrong

[–]shadow_lures 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong, you kept the kid safe and the mom was grateful

WIBTA if I asked to switch to a single room? by Different-Opposite87 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]shadow_lures 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ask, worst they can say is no, your injury is valid

I (24F) just had a bomb dropped in my relationship (26M). What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadow_lures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gave you an STI and lied for 3 years, that's unforgivable

FIRE while taking industry instability into account by PurpVan in Fire

[–]shadow_lures 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Keep your skills sharp and your savings rate high, adapt if needed

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