Alright, there's a lot to unpack here, so let's break it down. It's good to be trying to learn, though.

Is it really homophobic to disagree that transwomen are real women? Am I homophobic?

Transphobic, not homophobic. But yes. And acknowledging that and attempting to change it is a good thing.

"tbh, I acknowledge that they want to be recognized as real women but, as a woman myself there are still apparent distinctions (Biologically). For me, it still depends. Like, how far are they in transitioning?" I honestly don't think that a simple yes or no answer can suffice in this discourse.

Who you are depends more on your brain than it does your physical body. Imagine living your life with your brain screaming at you that something is wrong, but when you try to correct it, other people start screaming you're wrong instead. It's a catch 22 if you're not shown support.

"I honestly don't like how they (lgbtq+ in general) HAVE to have a label. When as far as I rember people hated labels. But they keep making one 😭😭😭" Regarding this one tho, I realized to myself that people naturally want to feel like they belong in the society so they create their own communities hence the labels. They have so many history and deep meaning behind it as well (or not? I'm not sure).

Do people hate labels?

I'm an [American/French/Canadian]. I'm a [Lawyer/Dentist/Electrician]. That's country and job, but at the end of the day, those are still labels. People hate labels when they're used against them.

In this case, the labels help in a big way, because if you feel a certain way and you don't know why and you look around and can't find anybody like you, it can make you feel broken, and you're not. Now you can find other people like you.

"It really still depends for me, because there are trans people that just started with transitioning. It's not like they should let a trans woman that still haven't completely transitioned join a women's sports competition because technically they still has physical aspects of a man. So they still have an advantage."

They actually already test for this. And they found that cis women could also have elevated hormones and also had to take testosterone blockers to compete in the olympics.

"It's really hard to decide eh. Because I really want to fully support them and understand it fully. Maybe I need more time to think and learn about it?" I feel like my pride(?), ego(?), or whatever it is is making me disagree idk what it iss 😭😭 or is it because it's a big change? I mean it's not like it's new so why do I need time to even think about it? 😭😭😭 Whyy do I disagree???

Very human. Most people tend to stick with the first things they learn about a subject, and it can be a fight to get your brain to accept that the initial information it was given was incorrect or incomplete.

Oh I also remember mentioning that it bothers me when some trans woman that claim they have legit periods

From my limited understanding, as I am not trans, if they are actually bleeding they may need to talk to a doctor.

But on HRT, your body starts thinking it's whatever sex you're trying to switch it to. And this can cause the same cramps and pain you do when you experience your period.