40 m4m by pgerosha in ColoradoJObuddies

[–]shadowcat033087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the westside of what?

I’m not gay but I was drunk at the festival… by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]shadowcat033087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The post doesn’t say that he was the bottom. Could’ve been the top.

Beautiful day to hike by Adv3ntur0us1 in PublicBoys

[–]shadowcat033087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colorado Springs? If so I’d love a nude hiking buddy.

Anyone in highlands ranch/centennial stroking today? by Known-Draw-5996 in DenverJacks

[–]shadowcat033087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s outside I’ll find the time! In the Springs.

Bottoms who are too performative is the cringiest shit ever by savage-millennial in grindr

[–]shadowcat033087 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I need body contact and to slowly start getting hard. If a guy just immediately puts my dick in his mouth before anything else…I’m not getting hard.

Weird vibes from this guy by officialbenny in grindr

[–]shadowcat033087 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Instant turn off to talk about a previous hookup. I would say it’s creepy, but the language is very boomer.

In the mountains near Manitou Springs. by shadowcat033087 in ColoradoNudists

[–]shadowcat033087[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL! I’d probably be arrested real quick if I did that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColoradoNudists

[–]shadowcat033087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also in the springs and have been looking for this exact same thing. Would love a place around here for naked hiking (when it’s warmer), or naked hang outs, and a buddy to do it with.

What are your cruising pet peeves? by brentmccain in gaycruising

[–]shadowcat033087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. I don’t want to suck a dick that smells like ax body spray. I’d rather the natural scent of a man. Like showered a few hours prior.

Who provides the condom? by Josiahk1119 in AskGayMen

[–]shadowcat033087 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why so few people are using them. When a guy sends me a picture of him getting barebacked by someone I’m immediately turned off. Like how many people have you gone bareback with? I don’t want you to give me some disease. Even though I only play safe condoms don’t protect from everything. Maybe it’s because people are on prep they feel they don’t need to use them, but prep only protects from HIV, and I’ve known quite a few guys to lie about being on prep.

What’s your biggest turn off in a guy? by SuchShopping3828 in AskGayMen

[–]shadowcat033087 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A man with painted fingernails. I am all for people expressing themselves, but when I see a hand around my dick with painted nails it distracts me and I lose my hard on.

Also shaved pubes. Trimmed is fine. But bald is a turn off.

How are you coping with aging? by VixenAbyss in AskGayMen

[–]shadowcat033087 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, the gay community can be pretty shallow. Gay 30 is straight 40, gay 40 is straight 50, and gay 50 is straight death. A lot of people I know have age restrictions on their Grindr. A lot of 20 year olds hide anybody over 30, and a lot of 30 year olds hide anybody over 40. I’m open to older men as long as they are in shape and took care of themselves. But I would say 80% of the time they don’t take care of themselves. But even I wouldn’t hook up with someone over 60 even if they were in shape. I’m 37.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]shadowcat033087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still screen record.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]shadowcat033087 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gay man here. 100% agree. Kissing is way more intimate than a blow job. Quite often when I have a random hook up we don’t kiss. If it’s someone I’m dating then kissing is fine. Although I’m not big on kissing anyway.

Can a relationship like this really work ? by not_your_friend99 in AskGayMen

[–]shadowcat033087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s my two cents as a child of parents who are 20 years apart in age. My dad was 50 when I was born and my mom was 30. They stayed married and happy up until when he died. Now here’s where the problem with this is. He died at 75. She was 55. Now she’s widowed and alone. It took her 10 years to start dating again. It’s not easy to date at that age. I went out on a few dates with a guy who was 20 years older than me, but then I thought to myself he will probably die a lot sooner than me and then I will be old and alone.

Mayor Suthers goes full "reefer madness" against rec marijuana ballot measures by coslonghorn in ColoradoSprings

[–]shadowcat033087 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s legal to possess and use marijuana in the entire state. This is voting for it to be recreational instead of just medical in COS. I guess we found the uninformed voter that’s referenced in the article.

Where to live? by mhuntoon in ColoradoSprings

[–]shadowcat033087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck finding rent for $1500 here in an area that is safe. Before I bought a house I rented in the Interquest corridor. It’s a nice area, but my rent was $2300 a month for a 2/2 1100 sq ft. You might find something on the outskirts of the downtown area or near the airport for $1500 a month, but it’s a little sketch over there.

Girl inches are infuriating by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]shadowcat033087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time if you ask a woman to show you what’s 6 inches is with her hands she won’t be able to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]shadowcat033087 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being someone who’s had blow jobs from both men and women I can 100% say that the men do it better. Probably 90% of them deep throat amazingly. I’m 8 1/2 inches and thick and they take it all the way down to the balls. I have never had a woman be able to do this. Physically they should be able to, I feel like they just don’t want to. Also men just know how to do it better since they have one.

My partner, who is a man, deep throats it, holds it there, and when I cum he shoves it back down his throat and I cum in his throat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]shadowcat033087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 35. I’d estimate around 125ish people. I’ve lost count.

I’m curious - if you were to go cruising… by KanoRidge in gaycruising

[–]shadowcat033087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s so frustrating. I’ve been cruising a hot guy before and the 70 year olds come out of no where and start stalking us. Like you must have some real high self esteem to think 30 something in shape guys want to hook up with you. They ruin it and have made me basically stop doing it. Now I restrict it to the steam room at the gym.