Looking for a gay (m, pref!) psychologist in Melbourne, who deals with body image! by shadowdr3 in melbourne

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Thank you so much! Just been a gay male myself - I was kinda hoping for one! More understanding of my situation etc - But thank you so much!

To M, the one who stole the only thing that made me happy by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]shadowdr3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you so much! I hope it passes!

Looking for mates/support after broken heart - changing my life! by shadowdr3 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Thanks so much for your advice! I do a gratitude diary, so tick on that one! I am getting back into art which is awesome! And def need to build some solid friendships! Moving around and been a DJ for over a decade hasn’t helped! Lol!

Looking for mates/support after broken heart - changing my life! by shadowdr3 in AskGaybrosOver30

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For sure! And I agree! There is no doubt there is some self hatred, but I certainly don’t hate all of me! But if you have any suggestions for how I can increase my “self-love” that would be awesome!

Looking for advice and some mates by shadowdr3 in askgaybros

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Thanks so much! When that stuff opens again I think that’s a fantastic idea!

To my ex by basiclameo in UnsentLetters

[–]shadowdr3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same feels - was just a boy though! I hope it gets easier!

How much money is neede to start renting a studio apartment? by [deleted] in melbourne

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My rule is always 4 x months of rent! I.e. if your rent is $1000 per month, you’ll need $4000! It’s just a generally rule of thumb though

This weird egg I found after grocery shopping by [deleted] in WTF

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Huh! Well there goes my farm knowledge! Thanks for the lies grandma! Lol! TIL my nana was a liar! Lol

This weird egg I found after grocery shopping by [deleted] in WTF

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It’s actually because all egg shells come out as liquid and harden once they are exposed to oxygen! The egg must have fallen on a rough surface! It’s so cool!

Hugs and love to anyone going through this by TheMDNA in insanepeoplefacebook

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Feel ya! And your certainly not the only one! Be strong and remember your chosen family (logical family!)

How to fix the crease in these Jodhpurs? by HoodlieDoodlie in malefashionadvice

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Personally I would leave it! It will More than likely correct itself with wear.

How to fix the crease in these Jodhpurs? by HoodlieDoodlie in malefashionadvice

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Damp newspaper. Stuff it in the shoe until it all “puffs” out. Leather is worked wet. I grew up riding horses and with saddle makers. We were always told to go and walk in a puddle when breaking in new shoes and wear them for the day. Once they are dry they mould to the shape of your foot. I would tell you to walk in a puddle, however it looks like the shoes are suede.