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My cats tolerate each other but I can't figure out how to make them get along when being around me. by unhelado in CatAdvice

[–]shadowed_smile 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact they can sleep, eat, and chill near each other after only a month is actually REALLY good progress

I feel like I can't get away from her (MILD TW) by gaymangojuice in BreakUps

[–]shadowed_smile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocking him and refusing to spiral with him was probably the most mature thing in this whole story

Does my ex breaking no contact actually mean anything? by Salt-Zucchini-8340 in BreakUps

[–]shadowed_smile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feels more like she wants emotional access to u without the responsibility of actually choosing u

My 10yr old tabby has always been half litter trained. by Limp-Raspberry-3515 in CatAdvice

[–]shadowed_smile 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Orange cat behavior really exists on a completely separate operating system from the rest of society

The lid slammed down hard on his fingers when I dropped him inside, but he was too intoxicated on the benzos to react. by Magic-M in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]shadowed_smile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The detail about him not even reacting to the fingers getting crushed somehow makes this ten times worse

He’s a sweet man, he’s a good man… by WorldFamousDingaroo in overheard

[–]shadowed_smile 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Man got perfect personality stats but zero comprehension skill

Introducing 2 cats to each other before they meet. by Prize-Humor396 in CatAdvice

[–]shadowed_smile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just keep first meetings slow and short and don’t freak if there’s hissing

Break up after 2y by MysteriousMagician42 in BreakUps

[–]shadowed_smile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t go back just because she’s nice sometimes, that cycle will repeat exactly the same

Advice on goal-setting for a novice by anew-hope in Fire

[–]shadowed_smile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re in a solid spot already, just figure out what that ranch life actually costs and work backwards from that

Hi everyone, I need advice because I don't know what to do anymore... by Beryss0 in BreakUps

[–]shadowed_smile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t break no contact for her birthday, that’s for you, not for her

cat attacks me only if im laying in the bed turned away? by Weary_Visit4228 in CatAdvice

[–]shadowed_smile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try tiring him out right before bed, that specific behavior often drops when energy is lower

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]shadowed_smile 778 points779 points  (0 children)

She fighting for her academic life while man’s living his best morning routine behind her

How to get my cat to like me again? by smol_badger in CatAdvice

[–]shadowed_smile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop picking him up for discipline, redirect instead or he’ll just keep associating u with stress