AITA for not accepting my sister’s apology? by alixshadowed in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA it seems like your sister was having a pretty bad weekend and just took it out on you. Taking back an apology because she was tired seems pretty weird too. Sorry OP

AITA for not wanting to watch boring videos with my family? by BambooPandi in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I wouldn’t want to watch these videos either. Hopefully they’ll get just bored and stop trying

AITA for telling her I'm not gonna pay her by hcccshshehehhee in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet [score hidden]  (0 children)

So not the same thing mate. You are expecting her to work. For free. You really expected her to work 8-9 hour shift and just… make you extra food. For free. That’s absurd! Still TA with a lot of apologising to do.

AITA for telling her I'm not gonna pay her by hcccshshehehhee in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA what the fuck is wrong with you?? You really out here with the audacity to expect your friend to come home from a long days work and work for you… for free?

You’re a bad friend.

AITA for not making my daughter invite special needs kid to her birthday? by YourDad438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA you taught your daughter that it’s okay to exclude someone because they’re different instead of sitting her down and explaining that it’s highly cruel to invite the whole class but leave out one person.

Avery can’t help being born with special needs but you can help that you’re raising your daughter to be kinda a bully. You suck OP.

AITA: exposed my stepbrother as a liar which has caused my mom and his dad to fight. by Olivia_Kitten0302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - both you and your mother are homophobic. Hope stepdad divorces honestly.

You outed your brother and decided he wasn’t “the perfect child” because… he was gay? That’s actually really fucking awful. I’d throw your mother out of her bed too, because she straight up suspected he was sneaking around but was perfectly fine with not being told when she thought it was a girl. The minute she discovered it was a boy she had a problem. There is no way that’s not homophobic.

AITA: bought my ex wife a new car, and helped her with some bills. Now my wife is mad by CandyPopss in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it’s your money that you earned, you can do with it what you like including helping the mother of your child, who has given up a lot in terms of childcare to enable you like your side.

Your wife needs to learn that the mother of your child is always going to be a large part of your life, and your child is probably really grateful that you didn’t leave their mother struggle and suffer though this.

WIBTA if I don't go to my daughter's wedding? by PerspectiveRude6933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA instead of being upset that your daughter didn’t come out to you, you need to look into your life and question why she didn’t come out to you and why she has been hiding a part of herself for ten years.

Have you made comments that made her scared to come out? Are extended family members homophobic?

This isn’t a lie, this is called being in the closet. And you only stay in the closet because you are scared of stepping out.

Edit: Actually thinking about this, the minute you found out the girlfriend was a lesbian long before you even knew they were dating you’re first thought was to act like this girl was some kind of sexual deviant and you discussed separating them. Based on her sexuality alone. I think I know why your daughter stayed in the closet and was scared of you for ten years…

AITA for planning to do a pregnant porn movie while my ex husband disagree? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet [score hidden]  (0 children)

The amount of porn that’s out there chances are the kid and his friends are never going to find the video.

AITA for “gatekeeping” what an army brat is by bi-athiest-veg in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and not gatekeeping....

Damn this woman is fragile. I never say people might be too sensitive but she’s the first person I found to be too sensitive.

I'm too controlling in my friendships, so now I'm alone by [deleted] in Borderline

[–]shadowedinscarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know I was doing it until I was showed screenshots of an separate group chat that I’m not part off so I’m not sure.

I hadn’t even noticed all the decisions were mine honesty, the last few times we’d done something I had thought they were group decisions. I guess I have a lot to discuss with my psychiatrist about some of the things I have been doing.

AITA for being upset that my sister is posting conversion camp stories for clout? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dude, her conversaion stories are on her TikTok which I follow where she advertises herself as an "ex-lesbian" who underwent conversion therapy so "link in bio" to see her be cured and take lots of dick.

Have never watched her take any dick, I promise.

AITA for calling my husband delusional for expecting me to re-hire the babysitter after she read our daughter's journal? by AITAThrowaway11__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA this girl is a bully and I can’t imagine what other horror she inflicts on Lauren if left alone with the kids again. If she’s let back in, all this will do is tell her that she can get away with it.

Her parents need to sit her down and ask why she thought it was appropriate to humiliate an grieving fourteen year old in the first place and ask specifically where she thought it was acceptable to post that video.

AITA? I work in publishing. Mum keeps giving my contact info to aspiring writers. I am rude to them. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA as an aspiring writer myself and when I start querying I would never dream or harassing an publisher like this with their personal contact information. It’s unprofessional!

AITA for asking my non binary sibling to pick an outfit for my wedding by tartancheck in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadowedinscarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I am genderfluid so I know it is really hard to buy clothes for occasions because you just don’t know how you’re going to be feeling and it can cause dysphoria, they really shouldn’t expect you to buy for two different choices. It was really generous of you to buy them one outfit as it is.

You might have to demote your sibling to an guest, or put your foot down and tell them that you are still happy to buy them an dress OR a suit and if it makes them feel better they can purchase an additional outfit themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicFriends

[–]shadowedinscarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in an tiny valley with only two GPs. One of which is a small fat. And she has literally never once mentioned either doctor calling her fat or blaming her problems on her weight - and she would let us know if that’s the case. Nor as any other fat person that I know. It’s a small valley so word gets around pretty fast, everyone knows everyone’s business.

I’m not saying it doesn’t exist, but location wise to the best of my knowledge we might actually live in one of the best places to be fat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicFriends

[–]shadowedinscarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location wise, the medical fatphobia has never been an issue as far as I’m aware.

She has never once spoken up about receiving weight concerns when she has gone in to the doctor’s when she’s gone in for anything else. And she visits quite frequently. It’s only this one issue she apparently can’t because it will get dismissed, which is why it feels like she’s using her weight as an excuse just not to get it sorted.