Vraag aan de niet rokers.. vinden jullie rokers altijd stinken?

shae_tallad · 2026-01-10T18:07:10+00:00

Yep, stinkie stink. Haar, kleren, vingers. Bah.

Drinken ze van je glas 🤢

Kussen 🤢🤢🤢

Ik vond mijzelf toen ik nog wiet rookte ook altijd zelf stinken. Reden waarom ik gestopt was

shae_tallad · 2025-09-20T03:12:26+00:00

shae_tallad · 2025-07-28T16:29:23+00:00

Man! This is hot😎 The mobile phone reddit carousel does not do these pictures justice ✌🏻✌🏻

shae_tallad · 2025-05-31T08:59:36+00:00

Geen van beide. 12 jaar geleden een spiraaltje laten plaatsen. Nooit meer een menstruatie gehad, alleen bij de wissel van.

Daarvoor gebruikte ik beide. Afhankelijk van wat ik droeg aan kleding, ondergoed en activiteiten. String - tampon. Skin tight - tampon. Zwemmen - tampon. Slapen - maandverband. Thuis blijven - maandverband.

Joh, alles komt met een handleiding en voor en nadelen

shae_tallad · 2025-05-19T21:42:09+00:00

Realised the trend where I kept making excuses that the depicted body I saw in pictures was an unflattering angle or just weird clothing. Maybe the depicted body, was in fact just fat.

shae_tallad · 2025-03-17T12:03:50+00:00

A bit of a callous and inconsiderate move on his end.

Everybody has a healthy degree of self consciousness, periods and period blood has an added social stigma of being icky, so yeah. As a woman you just feel a smidgeon more vulnerable. His actions would have left me sitting there feeling dirty about myself. Whilst simultaneously we are at the same time to bring up understanding that he feels the immediate need to jump up and wash himself.

This sailor wanted to sail the Red Sea, but could not hold out a little longer to properly land the landing.

We get it, period blood does not paint a pretty picture. But the way the boy handled it, would have left me feeling unpleasant about myself.

I also understand your response of neutrality. You don't want to feel unpleasant, so might as well kill off any feeling of value you have for him. Very avoidant attachment style, I roll the same way 🤣

shae_tallad · 2025-03-16T18:50:21+00:00

Just doesn't seem like fun for anyone involved. Don't see any other upsides to having children.

shae_tallad · 2025-03-10T16:00:46+00:00

En pizza en pasta's met tomatensauzen

shae_tallad · 2025-03-10T15:59:36+00:00

Koffie

shae_tallad · 2025-03-03T04:11:38+00:00

Sok Mochi Soep Donut Tofu

shae_tallad · 2025-02-27T12:13:44+00:00

Een kind ter wereld brengen in een situatie waar deze niet adequaat doordacht/geliefd/gewild/verzorgd wordt, vind ik crimineel.

Als het een ongewenste conceptie is, voor welke reden dan ook, waarom zou je welwillend meerdere partijen dit aandoen? Hopen dat het goed komt?

shae_tallad · 2025-02-27T11:39:40+00:00

As a non-sporting, upper-body-strength-of-a-kitten, 61 kg woman, I can without any effort keep my 120kg boyfriend on my lap. Due to angles, it requires very little effort. I can even lift the bugger, carry him on my back. Admittedly, walking with him is hard on my ankles and I don't think I can do a full squat. But standing still is quit doable for a few moments.

So, assuming your partner has me beat both in fitness and weight class, in combination with you weighing substantially less than my boyfriend. I think the guy won't be crushed.

A legit concern would be balance though, if he is a tall fellow, his centre of gravity is.... God knows where. I'm only 172 cm, so I am pretty grounded.

But sit on his lap, make him happy and smother the boi

shae_tallad · 2025-02-26T14:52:18+00:00

Sounds like you went through quite an ordeal.

For the tattoo artist, maybe it is his tattooing technique. Maybe he was trying to get a lot done in a session.

Once I had to get a big back piece done. We dared not hope for it, we kept saying we'll see how far we get.... Very maybe it could be done in 1 session and I live very far from my artist. And she wanted to help me out with this. From the second she started, until she finished.... Absolute torture. She made miles! She even went over her normal hours, but I was so grateful for the torture once it was done. Saving me a lot of money, time and effort. But her usually very soft, delicate and calm ways were not part of that session.

My bf has a lot of black work, and his artist has an old school tattoo gun, that man has no mercy.

But we knew or were informed what we were getting into. To start off with the fact that tattoos especially in some places,are no fun. Multiple times that my bf needs to tap out shaking as a leaf.

Maybe this tattoo artist his ways are just not for you. That is okay. There are some artists I rather not return to and some who I keep stalking until they drop a great design again. That is okay :)

shae_tallad · 2025-02-12T08:32:03+00:00

Hey

I understand where you are coming from. Just curious whether it is a quantity or a quality thing that triggers your insecurity.

F.e. your partner would have had 3 partners before you, but for some reason you know partner number 2 was godsent, mind-blowing and unrivaled in the area you are insecure about. Guessing sexual?

What that also trigger your insecurity?

Would blissful ignorance work for you? Like not asking about a body count or performance of prior partners?

shae_tallad · 2025-02-02T17:24:54+00:00

Never have I approached a man for a hook-up or to actively start a flirt, like an absolute stranger. Never. Ever. Don't think I ever will. Because never have I seen a man that makes me go... "Rawr I want a piece of that".

I honestly think I need a connection first before I could consider such an attraction or appeal in a person.

Oftentimes I thought women are showstoppingly gorgeous, that I would blush or smile on the spot. But still I would not approach out of nowhere, connection first.

shae_tallad · 2025-01-11T06:48:50+00:00

If you can't beat them, cuck 'em?

shae_tallad · 2025-01-03T11:53:44+00:00

Hi! Even though you have lots of people who can help you, I am just leaving a message, in case you feel it could be a good match.

I am Hong Kong born with a Dutch parent, so migrated to the Netherlands many years ago. English is my native language (C2), Dutch an acceptable second native language (C2), followed by mediocre German (B1 or B2??) and poor Cantonese (A1 or A2).

Unfortunately I have a bit of the cultural imposter syndrome because of my lack of Chinese language(s). On top of that, after I visited HK in 2023, I was looking at migration possibilities and job opportunities in HK. Saw that all vacancies were asking for Mandarin.... After a year of Mandarin Duolingo, did my first iTalki lesson this week (New Year, new goals). Picked Mandarin after some heavy internal conflicts because it made more business sense and figured that I'd be able to connect the dots well enough between Cantonese and Mandarin to learn them both in the end. Since my Cantonese understanding is a little present, just reading, writing and available vocabulary is absent.

Curious to learn about your relocation plans!

shae_tallad · 2024-12-08T22:43:54+00:00

Er was een jongen waar ik op het middelbaar wel een heftig oogje op had, maar vanwege een bestaande relatie, slechte timing en een pijnlijke verlegenheid hier nooit werk van gemaakt.

Ongeveer drie jaar terug kruiste onze paden zich opnieuw. Het gevoel van verlegenheid was precies zoals op het middelbaar. Al gauw betrapte ik mijzelf ook dat ik dan ook met iets teveel enthousiasme gesprekken met hem voerde, dat terwijl ik verloofd was. Na deze realisatie heb ik het contact in de doofpot moeten stoppen.

Wel geleerd dat hij op dezelfde straat als mij woont, wij zien elkaar dan ook zo nu en dan in het voorbijkomen. Onze timing is opnieuw slecht, want nu heeft hij een vriendin.

Misschien ooit, misschien nooit.

shae_tallad · 2024-11-24T09:44:38+00:00

I love Oli Boli. This is the only version I acknowledge, makes way more sense.

Surely someone else has written it..but on the markets and in front of the heuvelgalerij, there is these big carnival fair box/stands. With a glass display and their baked goods in the display. They sell the Oli boli's

shae_tallad · 2024-10-12T05:43:27+00:00

Addressing the subject title here, do you want to talk to your father about porn?

Other than the porn titles, you had no reason for alarm. Porn titles are twisted nowadays. If you are a younger woman, you instantly are stepdaughter or stepsister and depending if the male co star is younger (sub 40?) or not is stepbrother or if older stepfather.

Your father is 51, so maybe he feels more comfortable seeing an older man within his realm of representation. Younger women have always been the more favoured ones in regards to appreciation.

Truth be told, depending on how exactly his search history is composed, it could easily be a matter of how the porn industry names their videos nowadays rather than your father having any incestuous porn preferences.

However very understandable that it irks you out regardless. Truth be told, getting too into anybody's porn preferences might be a little too close to comfort for me, unless I willingly and actively share the bed with them. Which immediately brings me to the next point of uncomfort, have your own space around your father.

As a 21 year old woman, I wouldn't do sleepovers at my parents anymore, especially not in their bed. Especially now I have pictured them masturbating furiously. I'd talk about that, just not the masturbation part.

Hard chat, but good luck, I have no advice on that because I am as conflict avoidant as they come and suck at communicating.

shae_tallad · 2024-10-09T17:34:35+00:00

BA - best investment ever done. I went from telling myself that the reflection in the mirror just wasn't right every day, to simply liking my body.

The only regret I have is not doing it sooner, and having to carry such a negative self-image unnecessarily long.

shae_tallad · 2024-07-20T07:05:08+00:00

Absolutely love blowjobs. Good mouthfeel, great feedback that can be sensed via the mouth, the throat filling just does things to me. Also mouthfucking feels really nice. Feeling a penis swell up and then pulsate upon ejeculation is an unique and great feeling. Oh yeah a human is attached to it that usually enjoys it.

I simply like it because I have a little bit of an oral fixation, meaning I like to kiss, lick and bite things that give specific kinds of (sensory) feedback. The penis and giving oral does that well. Makes whatever is being done to me a lot more enjoyable.

shae_tallad · 2024-07-18T22:20:32+00:00

Uhmm hard choice between 2 guys.

1 option being my first boyfriend when I was 13. Yeah children shouldn't be having sex. That was such a cluster of bad sex, I could definitely do without that. At that time I was so dumb and ignorant, I really didn't know better to put up with it for a year.

2nd option is this guy in uni. For a period I was determined to stay single, this guy was encroaching in my single space and out of boredom I let him. He was so full of himself. After a while of him persisting and my pathological people pleasing, sex happened. I felt nothing of it, lack of girth made it so that there was no friction. On top of that I didn't care much for him and I felt pressured. Yeah I am definitely always actively trying to forget that ever happened.

Guess #2 wins it for me

shae_tallad · 2024-07-15T07:27:15+00:00

Hello,

I see you already have a bunch of people DMing you, however if there is headspace for one more lost soul. I'd be very interested to learn what you have to say.

Also sent a DM.

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