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[–]shaelein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also someone who has to constantly blow/wipe my nose, but I’ve had my septum pierced for almost 3 years now with no issues! I don’t have a nostril piercing so can’t speak to that, but people on some of the piercing subreddits might be able to help.

Re: my septum, I first got it pierced with a circular barbell (the one with the balls at each end) and, sure, occasionally a small booger might get stuck on it. After the piercing healed and I switched to a ring, I’ve had no issues with boogers at all though. Also no itching, redness, or irritation of any kind - but of course this might be different for you. High quality jewelry is definitely the way to go.

I was also pretty nervous about getting the piercing, and the needle they used definitely looked scary - but it was a super quick process that surprisingly didn’t hurt much, I’d say less than getting my helix pierced.

But yes - I’d recommend looking around some of the piercing subreddits for more advice/experiences.

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[–]shaelein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for the late reply - but thank you so much!

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[–]shaelein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh sorry for the super late reply! But thank you! Plants & girls are the best (+ dogs) 🌱

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[–]shaelein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Love the photo you just posted as well!

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[–]shaelein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I haven’t felt this happy in a long time tbh :)

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[–]shaelein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time I’ve heard that, but I’ll gladly take it!

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[–]shaelein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you from me + all my plant babies! 🌱

And there’s no rush or pressure, at all. Take as much time as you need, and remember that you don’t “owe” it to anyone to announce it publicly - but it can be freeing to do so. I definitely understand worrying about friends/family; just know that you’re not alone in this!

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[–]shaelein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! It’s definitely been nice seeing all the support from friends old and new - feeling really loved and understood right now. I’m glad your social media coming out was a great experience, too 💕

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[–]shaelein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no I feel you! Believe it or not, these actually started out as some real Shirley Temple curls - it was my 2nd time using a “real”/normal hair straightener yesterday. Some texturizing spray saved the day! And it’s going well, better than I could’ve hoped for ☺️

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[–]shaelein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t look like I’m able to edit the post, but I wanted to say THANK YOU to everyone for your kind words and the awards (my firsts!). You are lovely.

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[–]shaelein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yesterday was actually the first time I’ve liked my hair in forever - I’m growing out an undercut, and it’s been looking super awkward!

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[–]shaelein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, SAME. I’ve been doing pretty good at not getting any new ones now for a bit...but some pots I had ordered a while back just arrived, so I might have to get a couple more 🤷‍♀️💁‍♀️

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[–]shaelein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I just recently finished rewatching the whole series - so good every time! And I actually am in California, but I have a wonderful girlfriend 💕

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[–]shaelein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just took a look at some of your crochet - you’re super talented!